Most likely, I'll still be friends with them but I would warn them if they did it again, I wouldn't be there for them. I would let them know, its foolish to lose your friend(s) over a girlfriend/boyfriend who could for all you know disappear the next night. Wife/husband, perhaps a different story but I would like to talk about it first.
this!..and it also depends on their history of what kind of friend they are...if you look back and their are times where they weren't a good friend to you...i would question if they should beur friend
Yeah, you have to be careful who your friends are. Some are the wrong friends, no matter what and are trying to ruin you and make you as miserable as them.
Kind of friend I think best to ditch if they won't let you help them be happy.
No I wouldn't be OK with that. They obviously didn't value our friendship that much if they were willing to throw it away so easily when they just got a new S.O. I would want a true friend to stick up for me in that case and say that it's fine if we're still friends. Once they stop talking to me, I'm not going to want to rekindle that friendship
Friends first. If the bitch is that insecure, I dont' see why he is with her, unless he is lower than she is. He devalues himself with co operating with it. F him if he is going to do that to a friend.
if your friend did that, she obviously has a long way to go before maturing. if you guys become friends again one it will never be the same, and 2 you should tell your friend how F'ed up it is to do something like that
If she is worth it to you yes befriend her again. She probably is the type who is attracted to controlling/ manipulating type. So take things as they are. Maybe talk about why she picks such men.
This is happening to me right now, today one of my friends who is like a brother to me (we dont go to the same school) told me he couldnt keep talking to me because his girlfriend had scrolled through our chat and got jealous... I guess if they broke up I'll always be here for him.. just kinda annoyed that they've only been together a week and already she's controlling him like that.
Hell no. If he/she was a really close friend and just decides to bend at somebody else's will and completely decides to blow me off,then goodbye,I don't wanna hear from them anymore
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sounds like eather thier boyfriend/gf was a controling but don't let that get to you, eather way they are still your friend, they just have bad judgement when it comes to who to truly listen to or trust.
The fact that they would allow their S.O. to dictate this and make a choice, and they did not choose you, says where they stand. F***'em.
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I think I would befriend the person if they showed enough effort to want to hang out with me again. I understand that sometimes one does crazy things for love so I wouldn't hold that against them.
Anyone who allows themselves to be manipulated for no good reason loses my respect so I wouldn't be good friends with them but I can probably tolerate them
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Most likely, I'll still be friends with them but I would warn them if they did it again, I wouldn't be there for them. I would let them know, its foolish to lose your friend(s) over a girlfriend/boyfriend who could for all you know disappear the next night. Wife/husband, perhaps a different story but I would like to talk about it first.
this!..and it also depends on their history of what kind of friend they are...if you look back and their are times where they weren't a good friend to you...i would question if they should beur friend
Yeah, you have to be careful who your friends are. Some are the wrong friends, no matter what and are trying to ruin you and make you as miserable as them.
Kind of friend I think best to ditch if they won't let you help them be happy.
No I wouldn't be OK with that. They obviously didn't value our friendship that much if they were willing to throw it away so easily when they just got a new S.O. I would want a true friend to stick up for me in that case and say that it's fine if we're still friends. Once they stop talking to me, I'm not going to want to rekindle that friendship
NO WAY I would not be okay with that at all that's not a friend at all
No I would not be OK with that.
She is not a real friend if she throws me away like a dirty towel just because someone told her to.
Friends first. If the bitch is that insecure, I dont' see why he is with her, unless he is lower than she is. He devalues himself with co operating with it. F him if he is going to do that to a friend.
if your friend did that, she obviously has a long way to go before maturing. if you guys become friends again one it will never be the same, and 2 you should tell your friend how F'ed up it is to do something like that
If she is worth it to you yes befriend her again. She probably is the type who is attracted to controlling/ manipulating type. So take things as they are. Maybe talk about why she picks such men.
This is happening to me right now, today one of my friends who is like a brother to me (we dont go to the same school) told me he couldnt keep talking to me because his girlfriend had scrolled through our chat and got jealous...
I guess if they broke up I'll always be here for him.. just kinda annoyed that they've only been together a week and already she's controlling him like that.
Hell no. If he/she was a really close friend and just decides to bend at somebody else's will and completely decides to blow me off,then goodbye,I don't wanna hear from them anymore
sounds like eather thier boyfriend/gf was a controling but don't let that get to you, eather way they are still your friend, they just have bad judgement when it comes to who to truly listen to or trust.
I would probably be friends again and forgive them, but it would never be as close a friendship.
No. I would lose respect & trust. Two essential ingredients for a friendship.
I'd say "Bitch, you are not my mama. I've been talking to him- wait, I've KNOWN him longer than you have anyway, so naaahhh I'm not going to stop."
if the boy/girlfriend doesn't like you let him. it's his loss. a friend can be helpful sometimes in relationship.
The fact that they would allow their S.O. to dictate this and make a choice, and they did not choose you, says where they stand. F***'em.
I think I would befriend the person if they showed enough effort to want to hang out with me again. I understand that sometimes one does crazy things for love so I wouldn't hold that against them.
Thankfully I know the few friends I had would never, ever do that to me.
However if they did, they'd see a side of me they'd never forget.
I probably wouldn't be okay with it. There's a chance I'd forgive them, though.
Anyone who allows themselves to be manipulated for no good reason loses my respect so I wouldn't be good friends with them but I can probably tolerate them
There's nothing for you to do except see how your friend handles the situation.