Do you know what his favorite foods are? Does he have a sweet tooth? You can always make something as you suggested and then ask him to come over mentioning you made his favorite food. This will sort of make him have to say yes in a sneaky way. Once he's there you can bring this up. If he says he's just fine, then tell him you're not going to fall for it and that you really care about him and want to know what's going on. Even IF he likes you, there's nothing wrong with showing someone you care about them. Love and mushy things aside it's friendly and very kind of you regardless of who likes you or who has feelings. If he for some reason mistakes your behavior and think you are doing this because you like him, it's totally on him and not on you. You know in your heart what your intentions are and that's all that matters. I think it's very sweet of you to care for him like that and I'm sure he'll also appreciate someone caring about him.
As for your last question, when I'm down I always try to hang out with my friends. It helps to take my mind off things and talking about it always makes me feel better too. So I guess hanging out and spending time with me are things my friends will do. Usually though I initiate it cause I'm quite good at hiding my emotions so I need to often reach out to others instead of expecting them to do something.
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Well you can listen to his problems, you can hangout with him, you can watch a TV show or film he likes with him, you can give him a hug if he's that kind of guy, you can do something else if you think he'd appreciate you showing that means a lot to you, etc...
If you like him as more than a friend and you think he still has feelings, then you could give him a kiss or something.
Just think little things.
"he lives on his own and he's short on money" and the girl that he really liked isn't interested in anything other than a platonic relationship. Sounds like a few decent reasons to be depressed.
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let him sort out his own problems, he probably doesn't need your help.
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