Guys; it's Not a Compliment!

[bente2]

"Women are more beautiful without make-up." He says. I turn around. What?

First of all, women don't wear make-up to please or impress you. I know men like to think this, but it's just an irrational & egocentric thought that makes zero sense. I do not wake up in the morning thinking "oh, let me highlight my cheekbones so jimmy will like me". I wake up thinking "jesus, I look like I just came back from the dead. Let's put on some make up to cover up some blemishes as well as enjoy a little me-time before starting my day". So if anything, you could call me vain.

Secondly, who the fuck cares if you like them better without? It's her face, not yours.

Thirdly, you probably don't even know how someone looks without wearing make up. If you have never seen someone without, you just don't know. Simple as that. Even if they SEEM like they aren't wearing make up, they could be wearing it. This is called "a natural look" and is generally used for a normal day in which she does nothing special in particular.

Fourthly, it's not a compliment. I don't see how you could bring it as one either. You're not telling someone they're beautiful, you're telling them you disagree with something they like doing. Imagine someone saying "oh, i'd like you better if you stop playing video games/soccer/cooking/whatever you fucking like😊". That would probably make you roll your eyes and give them the finger.

Fifthly, if you cannot supress the urge to tell someone you like their bare face, and have actually SEEN their bare face, say something like "babe, I like you with or without make-up. You're precious to me no matter what you look like". That's being the opposite of shallow instead of looking like some weird ass dude giving their opinion while no one asked.

Rant over.

***I only focused on guys who say this in this take&women wearing make up. I know women tell other women this too and that there are men who wear make up. I decided to focus on the majority (being women) who wear make up and the majority telling them they shouldn't (being men).

[snowangle]

All these guys getting defensive, sheesh. I thought this take was very nicely put.

Guys, I understand that you THINK it's a compliment, but it's not. Just don't say it.

[pavlove]

if it's true that she looks better with no makeup why can't we say it? I feel like she needs to know that information.

[snowangle]

@pavlove It's just kinda rude. Like when I was with my ex and I dyed my hair (just from medium brown to dark brown - a pretty subtle change), he took one look and said "you looked better before." It was like, ouch, and did I even ask? It's pretty insensitive to just say that if she didn't ask your opinion.

[pavlove]

good point. i guess makeup helps you feel feminine and that's something we men won't ever understand

[LittleSally]

Yeah, but you know boys... they make everything about themselves.

[LittleSally]

@imhungry2234 You can feel free to actually turn that on yourself little boy...

[LittleSally]

*I used 'boys' for a reason... not men...

And yeah, 3 boys already downvoted this and one even took the silly time to comment. =)
How nice.

[LittleSally]

**When a person makes another 'account' just to keep trolling you - this becomes a creepy place.

[Stamps]

@LittleSally
Well, this is a site where people share opinions, and (dis) likes. If you do not like getting those, I'd suggest not posting anything.

[Nodachi]

Well. This is one of the most sanctimonious things I've read in some time. You truly seem like you're the crisp archetype of a "strong-independent-woman-who-don't-need-no-man".

In any case. Do you feel better about yourself by being passive aggressive to some caricature you made up about how other people actually think and feel? Does that make you feel self empowered or some other jacked up rubbish? Maybe take the time to actually realise how people actually see the world around them rather than making stupid assertions and project your own feelings onto other people. Have some basic empathy rather than trying to blame everything on those filthy, horrible... MALES.

Let's go through this for a second shall we?

Point 1 - Women don't wear makeup to impress other people.
Not true. Perhaps in varying parts and some people are more okay with not wearing makeup than other people, though. Appearances matter, and most people understand this. Putting makeup on makes me feel prettier and more confident so you could argue on that I'm doing it for myself; which yes I am. But it also has the additional effect of making me look tidier to other people. More in control and like I actually give a shit. Whether it's my boss, whether it's a lover or whether it's someone I have never met yet, that's not a bad thing to have other people see me as a respectable person. Saying it's sole-y for me would be a lie.

Point 2 - Who the fuck cares about it.
I am the fuck who cares about it. See point one more or less. This kind of thing goes far beyond sexual attraction. And if we consider only of sexual attraction I personally don't want to reduce my potential pool of partners by looking unkempt and awful. That doesn't have a good impression for others to see, after all. Honestly it's not much different than going to an interview wearing a tracksuit and crying when the employer thinks you're not suitable. It's just another way to seem formal.

Point 3 - You don't know what they look like without it?
... And the point being? What? Are you insinuating that women look better without makeup? As long as they're not drenched in the stuff like some art nouveau picasso painting then I don't know many girls who DO look better without makeup on. Even "the natural look". Makeup is makeup in the end.

To be continued~

[Nodachi]

Point 4 - It's not a compliment.
Well, no I don't think someone telling me I look better without makeup on is true. So I wouldn't take it as a compliment. It's someone trying to spare my feelings and mincing words by trying to bring out the natural me. Or something. Preferences are preferences though I suppose. If there are imposing problems in a relationship then it's up to you to discuss them. Though I don't think someone wearing makeup would ever be a problem. I also don't think any man would insist I don't wear makeup.

Point 5 - The compliment itself.
"I like you for you being you, sweetie! That's with or without makeup on! <3 I love you!!"
"FUCK YOU, YOU EVIL MAN CREATURE AND YOUR OBJECTIFICATION OF ME YOUR COMPLIMENTS ARE NOT WELCOME HERE LET ME TAKE OFFENSE TO EVERYTHING WITHOUT OFFENSE BEING GIVEN"

[BrittBratt2416]

Thats is such a bullshit lie lol If women don't wear make up to impress then why bother with it at all? You can't see your own face unless your look in a mirror 100 percent of the time, only other people can see your face.. so your're obviously doing it so you look good and not dead to other people. Why do women get all dolled up when asked out on a date? Why do women go shopping for that perfect dress for prom? Why do women put on the sexiest dress and high heels they can find
when going out clubbing on a girls night out? ITS TO LOOK GOOD, AND SO OTHER PEOPLE WILL THINK YOU LOOK GOOD. If you were the ceo/manager of a company and someone walks in to land a job with you but they came in looking like they rolled out of bed and put no kind effort into their appearance, most likely your not gonna wanna hire that person cause it gives the impression that they don't give a shit. And if they don't give a shit then there probably not gonna give a shit about the job. You get asked out on a date by a guy, I'm sure your gonna pick out an outfit, take a shower, fix your hair, maybe put on some perfume, PUT ON SOME MAKE UP, and head to the date. He picks you up and you see this guy is still in his gym clothes, funky as hell and his hair is sticking to his forward. What are you going to think? What most other women would think: This guy don't fucking care! But since outer appearances don't really matter its no big deal right? I'm sorry but women have got to stop lying about this shit, the point is YOU DO CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOUR OUTER APPEARANCE LOOKS LIKE. Everybody does which is why they try to look the best way they can. If you want to wear make up to look up, thats fine.. no one's gonna burn you at the stake for it. But don't sit there and lie about the shit.. cause you and I both know if you NEVER got a compliment on how you look... you probably feel like all that effort was for nothing. And no I'm saying women fish for compliments but I am saying that we do like hearing them from time to time.. it makes us feel good about ourselves.. everybody likes getting a compliment once in a while.

Rant over.

P. S saying a woman looks great without make up IS compliment. It's saying she is beautiful in her NATURAL STATE. Cause if a guy ONLY said a woman look beautiful with make up on, and said you look "ugh" without it. She would feel insecure and throw a bitch fit.

[BrittBratt2416]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qlOTNtUvhe8

[RolandCuthbert]

Thank you.

:)

[RedMatch]

I see nothing wrong with a person saying they like women without make up on. "Women are more beautiful without make-up." He says, um ok whats wrong with his opinion? I think Women are more beautiful without make-up as well but its not because i think they put it on to please or impress me?
We realise its their face, and we are just saying “Hey, i think you are beautiful being just you” its not so much as compliment more like trying to make people feel more comfortable with themselves, because being natural is beautiful.

There are two ways to look at make-up.
1. I quote "need to cover up" this is just insecurity with a persons appearance feeling they look bad and have to hid what they look like from others/themselves.
2 I quote "enjoy a little me-time" having some simple fun is great, some eyeliner, eyeshadow, lipstick, and maybe a little powder. But when a person cakes on the blemish make up day its not simply for fun, they are covering.

Its pretty obvious 80% of the time when someone wears make up because, the 20% of the time is thous who just wear it because they like it and aren’t trying to cover. The 80% you can tell because you can see the shine on their face and the flawlessness appearance which very few people naturally have.

Your examples for the males, is poor because those do not cover who they are in fact show who they are. But I do understand what you mean because applying make up can be something that a person just likes to do.

But honestly i mean come on? "babe, I like you with or without make-up. You're precious to me no matter what you look like" um, how is a person who doesn’t know you to say this? You also didn’t ask that stranger to give you a compliment on your dress or hair either, so what, you want people to only give good opinions on which i don’t see how this is a bad opinion, quite the opposite.

I realise that this is focused on guys who say this, but still really?
And I understand that is your thoughts and opinions, and am 100% fine with that, but please look at the other side of the coin with what I am saying and others without taking it wrongly, cause we are just giving our opinion as well.

[AleDeEurope]

1) Say whatever you want, but the vast majority of girls won't go on a date without makeup because they fear the guy would be turned off... so yeah, most do it for others, not for themselves, hence why when at home, the vast majority don't wear makeup, and only do it when they go out.

2) "It's her face, not yours"... it's my opinion, not hers.

3) True, though you can usually guess more or less how she will will look without makeup if you pay attention.

4) It may not be a compliment to YOU, but for other girls it may be because you're telling them they're naturally beautiful.
I'm guessing you've never told anyone they look better when they wear certain type of clothes? Right ;)

5) So you can't tell your girl how you think she looks better? Just because you say you prefer her without makeup doesn't mean you don't like her when she wears it. If she can't understand that, she's retarded as fuck and you gotta break up with her.

If you can't handle criticism, and other's opinions, you gotta grow up.

[hellionthesagereborn]

So your doing it for you? No one else? Your not doing it for men? Even though you wear lipstick to make them seem fuller and healthier because it makes you more attractive to the opposite sex? But even though everything you do is designed to make you look better in the eyes of the opposite sex (as all grooming does, that's literally its function in nature and with humans to increase the odds of better mate selection and attraction)? You do realize that is considered a serious problem right? When an animal becomes obsessed with grooming but has no interest in appealing to others it is a sign of sever issues. In fact during the mouse Utopia experiment this became quite common where the subjects began to groom obsessively but had no inclination toward trying to use this for mate selection.(at the end of the experiment the population wiped itself out thanks to deviant behavior like this). So yeah, your doing it to look good your just pissed off that some one devalued the work you put in. Every one cares what others think because we are social creatures. Third point is probably accurate however. They say it becomes the same women who bitch and complain about men being shallow are also the ones who claim that men only want a woman who is done up with make up and so now men are trying to show that is not the case by pointing out we are fine with a woman having no makeup on which of course instead of pacifying women like yourself now enrages them. We just cannot win. Honestly this sounds more like your insecure rather then having an issue with what men say. It seems like you don't like you without makeup.

[Somewhat_Normal]

Fucken hell, why are people getting so worked up about this? Thing is, girls can look good with make-up done right. Some can also look good without it. Like you stated at the end, some men may tell women they prefer the 'bare' look and encourage them to not wear make-up, they honestly have no right to tell them what to do. Then again, no one can tell anyone what they think they should do, you can't convince someone to stop doing something they like no matter how much you dislike it. Some men might intend it as a compliment, and like you said, not all women will see it like one either. It's honestly best to not give that backhanded compliment when she's put in effort into putting a whole face of make-up. Instead say something genuine when she doesn't have any make-up on like *insert generic sweet comment* rather than going 'You'd look a lot better without all that.'
Basically what I'm trying to say is that it'd be so much simpler if people didn't give a shit, stopped getting triggered over other people's opinions and just left this whole thing alone, appreciate more instead. People should keep wearing make-up because they want to. Other people should realise they're doing it for themselves and not for others. Good take for pointing out it was a rant as well, everyone's taking this the wrong way

[imhungry2234]

1. women dont wear makeup to please us and you keep saying "'i dont care'' but yet, here you are ranting. you obviously have some strong feelings invested into this. I personally dont like makeup because it is sticky and when it gets on me It feels a bit, gross... I'd rather have a women who doesn't wear all that extra stuff and no, You have no right to turn around and say ''what?'' and get offended over my opinion. If men think that way then they are free too, just keep it moving and find someone who likes makeup if thats your aim. if you ''do it for yourself'' then you can do that, but people aren't forced to like it. Also, If I had a dollar for everytime a women goes out on a date with makeup to impress i'd be rich.

2. again, its their opinion. Also, obviously you care, as you are here ranting.

3. grew up in a house with girls like most people do whether it be a mom, sister etc.. I know when someone is using natural makeup.

4. hobbies are different than physical enhancements. A better comparison would be something like telling a guy stop to putting moose on his hair because he looks better without the ''wet hair'' look which I think looks pretty gross too.

5. you give your little rant that no one asked for, and like I said before, you are clearly hurt and it must of struck a nerve with you.

[imhungry2234]

when a person blocks you because they hate to be called out on their self righteous behavior. the only option is me being a troll, honestly, you are the only troll here. Its not really creepy, I won't deal with you out of this post and won't follow you anywhere else, im just tired of your crap

[imhungry2234]

and by crap, I mean man hating and when being called out on it, you block people because you can't take the heat

[imhungry2234]

@Stamps dude, she is going to block you too if you call her out on her crap too.

[Stamps]

@imhungry2234
Well, that would show what kind of a childish woman she is, because I'm stating facts. You cannot always expect everyone to agree with you.

[SaintRichie23]

I live with 3 sisters and my mother: I know when a girl is wearing make-up down to the foundation.

I still don't like make up on a girl. When I wake up in the morning with a zit or blemish, I don't think much of it anymore. I'm comfortable with how I look enough to not care.

In my experience, girls who wear the least make up seem the most confident and fun to talk to. Now grill me for my unpopular opinion.

[bente2]

Won't grill you.

[Bananaman177]

Guys are not known for their eloquence and articulation, but in general, I think you're really overreacting and missing the point entirely.

Those men, however clumsily they might word it, are just trying to tell you not to feel so anxious and insecure all the time, because believe it or not, you are broadcasting your emotions and yes, some men pick it up and it makes them feel very uncomfortable, just like it would make you feel uncomfortable if someone you liked hated themselves and was angry and sad all the time.

Make-up companies spend billions and billions of dollars convincing you how ugly you are compared to this month's Maybelline Girl, and we spending way too much money on crap that honestly makes you look clownish more than anything, and these men are just TRYING to counteract that.

Instead of getting butthurt about how poorly worded our compliments are, I wish you could learn to read the intentions behind them.

[bente2]

Thanks for your opinion. Might I say your writing seens very british? I like your careful wording.

[Bananaman177]

I made a huge typo, but thank you.

[Dragon_Lord]

everyone is entitled to an opinion and if a guy happens to like women without make up then who the hell are you to complain?

Sure, you're free to do as you wish with your face... doesn't change the fact he still thinks women look better without make up and guess what? shock and horror, but there actually some women out there who dont like wearing make up. my mrs included.

I personally think women look better with little to no make up, thats my taste and my opinion and honestly, what you choose to do with your face is irrelevant to me just as my taste in women should be irrelevant to you.

Stop trying to act like a victim. This generation is a joke.

[bente2]

Having an opinion is great, but that doesn't mean people want to hear them and that should be respected. I don't go telling someone they're ugly either.

How is this taking a victim role? I'm just complainin' and getting a discussion to see how others think about it. I don't know but you're a milennial.. literally every generation before you shit talks about yours, and now you're gonna do the same?

[Caaarl]

Wow. Someone doesn't want to hear my opinion. People spout their opinions all the time. Also don't you see how there's a huge disconnect between saying, "Your're ugly" and "I think girls look better without make up". One is just a straight up insult. People are way to sensitive when it comes to someone making a comment about looks. They're hyper sensitive. We should be able to talk about it like civilized people but no.

[Dragon_Lord]

you're acting like the victim because a guy dared to voice his opinion which you dont agree with. He likes women who dont wear make up, but you like wearing make up... you have different opinions... grow up and move on.

If no one voiced their opinions for fear of upsetting someone, the human race would become mute over night.

Just because you dont agree with his opinion doesn't mean he's personally attacking you and you know what? i'll close byquoting you directly

"Having an opinion is great, but that doesn't mean people want to hear them and that should be respected"

Maybe you should remember that the next time you start ranting about something so trivial.
There are almost 7 billion people in the world and not everyone is going to agree with each other 100% of the time so stop being so personally offended when someone has an opinion that differs from your own.

[Dragon_Lord]

@Caaarl

we must have posted at the same time, but i agree with you. Sensitivity and an inability to distinguish between insults and personal opinions seem to be the problem here.

[lacorine197]

This generation is a joke. Lol

[Map4Territory]

I agree with you that guys that say that are messed up, vain, and obnoxious.

But if you are going to wake up each day and paint your face and you aren't doing it explicitly to affect how others see you then you are crazy. I don't deny that looking good and wearing makeup make some girls feel better about themselves. I'm saying that if putting makeup on affects how you feel, than you are crazy. If I said I was depressed but than I put on LeBron James jersey and that made me happy, you'd sprint away from me because only clinically insane people say things like that.

[Abraham1231]

You're fucking hilarious. Lol...

[nowhere_dani]

A lot of people don't seem to understand that there are actually some women out there who genuinely love putting makeup on as a hobby.
The funniest response is the "I love the natural makeup-free look" like shit boy did you know that it takes TWICE the amount of makeup products to get my face looking "natural"? The specific kind of primer and foundation I have to use then there's contour because fuck yeah for some of that, brows filled in, eyelids lined, lips lined, blush and highlight to make your skin dewey, lashes that aren't too glamorous but appear "natural" -- damn, should I go on? lol

More than anything, I think it's funny. I mean, I appreciate when men say I look better without makeup when I'm, in fact, wearing makeup (lol) but hey... they just don't know any better.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I think that if a guy wants to say, "I think women look better without makeup," that's kinda their own prerogative. It's called having a preference, and sharing that preference is a normal part of conversation. It gives insight as to who the person is.
If a girl thinks men look better when they don't shave their facial hair at all, isn't that her right to think that way, and to voice her opinion about it?
Neither view is forcing men or women to be a certain way. It's just accepting and favoring a specific group over the alternatives. Now if either group expected the other to not wear makeup, or to not shave their beards, then that would be stepping on their personal freedom. But that distiction of opinion versus expectation must exist.

[Agent]

Well said.

[Tommy222]

The make-up itself is kind of disgusting to me. I wouldn't want to get any on me when I'm close to a girl. Same with hair spray or when men wear hair gel - it's just disgusting chemicals. Yuck!

Plus, whenever I've seen a woman without makeup, I really do think she looks better than she does with the makeup. Features in the skin are so beautiful - I don't know why people call them blemishes, for it is these features that make a woman's skin beautiful.

It may be her face, but it's my opinion, and I am allowed to have it and express it if I want to. By the way, I never thought that telling a girl she is prettier without makeup was a compliment, and I have never meant it as such. You are quite right when you say that it is me disagreeing with something that she does.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I never really understood why women wore makeup. It's essentially a facade if you think about it. I can't tell you how many times I've seen before and after pictures of women and thought how different both pictures look. By the way, everyone does things for a reason, usually to impress someone or some people. You don't just wear makeup for yourself, that's ridiculous. You wear makeup to look attractive for other men and outshine other women. It's just natural. We all do things for the opposite sex whether it's consciously or not. It's kind of ingrained in our biology.

[dogsandyoga]

I wear makeup for myself, because it makes me feel more 'put together' and I enjoy applying it in the mornings - it's really relaxing and grounding. The thing is though, everyone is entitled to an opinion - guys are allowed to express their preferences, you don't have to get mad at them for doing that!

[CarpX]

I've heard this ("I wear makeup for myself") many times and I've always struggled to understand what that really means. The closest thing that I can equate it to is wearing a high-quality, well-fitting, stylish suit. My job doesn't require a suit, but it's not unusual either. I do feel more confident and "put together" (as you say) with it on, so I choose to do so. However, while I could say that I wear it for myself, the reality is that deep down I am actually only doing because of the opinions of others. I feel more confident because I know that others look at me in it and think that I am more professional. Without their role in it, I would not be wearing one. For example, I don't wear it when I work from home or running errands.

I suspect that it's much the same with makeup. You feel better with it on, but only because you value the opinions of those who will see you. Do you put on all your makeup when you are home? Do you put on as much when running errands? (Honestly asking.)

[redeyemindtricks]

@CarpX For a woman with any semblance of a job/career/life outside the home in a 1st world country, NOT wearing at least a minimum amount of makeup (= enough for the "natural look") is absolutely handicapping yourself, in just about everything you do, all day long.

People will hold you in lesser estimation ("Are you ok? You look sick/tired!" ALL DAY LONG -- along with all the assumptions people make about that person's personality, control over her life, personal ambition, etc.
The closest boy equivalent I could think of would be, like, leaving the sleep in the corners of yr eyes all day, or, not wearing deodorant. I bet you still wear deodorant if you're gna bum around the house alone all day, no?

And then there's the people who'll assume that you're probably some earth mother who showers annually, around the summer solstice or some shit, and maybe birthed yr children in a giant kiddie pool full of dirty water in the middle of yr trailer home.

Etc.

NOT wearing any makeup, in the

[redeyemindtricks]

big bad real world, would be like if you boys wore an ill-fitting, coffee-stained t-shirt and ratty sweatpants, and expected to be taken as seriously as some other boy who actually, like, **gets dressed**.

It has NOTHING to do with boys.
Really.
Nothing.
To do with boys.
At.
All.

Boy, if **any** of our makeup ever has anything to do with boys... oh, you'll know it, all right. And it will WORK.

The other 99.9999999999 percent of the time... No, rlly, it's not about you. (And no, when we go to the bathroom together, *that* doesn't have anything to do with boys, either. As long as we're popping thought bubbles here.)

[CarpX]

@redeyemindtricks Actually, I don't always wear deodorant if I'm just hanging around the house. If I do put it on, it's because I'm doing something that will cause me to sweat a lot and I'm actually trying to prevent smelling my own stink. I'm preventing something unpleasant.

As for the "ill-fitting, coffee-stained t-shirt (etc)," the same is true for women and what they wear in a professional environment. And, again, that is not done for them, it's done for people whose opinions about their appearance matter to them for one reason or another. Without those others' opinions, they wouldn't do it. Women have the extra step to being made up, but your arguments still show that it's about others' opinions (e. g., "people will hold a lesser estimation of you...")

I never said that it was about guys - though, as you said, there are times when it is - but rather was arguing the common statement of "it's for me." Unless a woman is putting on full makeup when she's home alone, then it's not.

[redeyemindtricks]

@CarpX You're implying that if ANY action has ANY social component, then, it must be 0% for the benefit of the person herself. Which is beyond ridiculous.

In other words, you're actually trying to pretend that "done for self" and "done for others" are totally separate, mutually exclusive categories. Which is... I mean... honestly, that's so insane that I don't even know how to respond to it.

[CarpX]

@redeyemindtricks No, quite the contrary. I was responding to those saying "I do it for myself," which actually implies that it's done solely for themselves and not at all for others.

Of course, there's some component that's for themselves. However, unless they do the full regiment when they will be at home alone, then there is definitely some component that is not just for themselves.

It sounds like we would both agree that there is a bit of both involved (i. e., feeling good about yourself AND valuing others' opinions of how you look.)

[redeyemindtricks]

@CarpX Well, there are women, myself included, who DO do full face for a whole day just bumming around the house. It's just... a thing. A routine, that probably carries a whole ton of other subconscious routines along with it, who even knows. (In fact, that's when I usually go with the crazier metallic lip colors and so on.)

Remember, the typical woman my age has done her face more than 10,000 times. Ten thousand!
I don't typically do foundation/concealer (thank you, brown skinned parents) but I literally can't imagine not doing *something* with lips and/or eyes. I would just feel like my SOUL was naked, dude. Even if I was literally all alone in the middle of the woods, or some shit.

[dipta]

I will go and say it depends on who says it.
Personally, I hate make-up and can't do it properly, so I take that as a compliment.

Many women (and I'm not saying you) wear make-up to look pretty and have actually low self-esteem... they look completely different with it on.
Very few women, in my experience, wear it because they actually enjoy it.

[CubsterShura]

Guys: Girls look so much better without makeup!
My Instagram feed: More likes on makeup pics than no-makeup pics HAHA EXPLAIN THAT BITCH

Like literally one day I posted two pictures at the same time in same outfit, one with makeup and one without makeup, guess which one got more likes? Take that, sucker. I know my makeup skills are da bomb <3

[JhonnyMA]

I think you're right, the face is Yours and you do whatever you like... But people have the right to think you look good without, not that you should care about it or stop using it, it is just a different opinion from yours, there is no need to make a fight over it...