Girls, what level of fitness would you like at maximum for men?

[emmily2396]

I mean what is the maximum you would find comfortable dating, not what you would find ideal.

Dad body

Average thin guy

Average guy who works out ocasionally

Fit

Very fit

Mr Olympia level

Steroids

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+1 y

I'd be fine with most of them, steroids are a big no however

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+1 y

And I'd prefer him to stay in shape however I understand that everyone has weight changes now and then.

[sageevalentinee]

I'm sorry but, if I workout, take care of myself etc and look fit, I expect my boyfriend to do the same.

I take inspiration from my father, he had broad shoulder and a six pack until he was 38. Now that he's 45 he's more relaxed, but still fit and built and able to beat someone up should need be.

And I expect the same from my boyfriend/husband. I want someone who will look after themselves and be healthy not waste away as a couch potato. If so they can go find an equally ugly and overweight wife!

[Smegskull]

My ex complained about that until I pointed out that she can more easily keep fit because she is able to work part time while living off of my money.

[sageevalentinee]

@Smegskull True, but it's all about priorities. My father was a junior in banking, he worked from 9am until midnight some days. Still found the time to wake up at 6 to run and workout. Then again, he's a very type A committed person. Not everyone can be like him.

[Cynicaldreamer]

For me, he has to be between average to fit. I work out regularly, so I expect my partner to be in shape as well. He doesn't have to be a gymrat or have a six pack, but he has to be at least be in good physical shape.
In other words, he has to be able to at least keep up with me.

[loki35]

Hey dont underestimate the dad bod guys I've worked with guys on the army with dad bods who could easily out perform the fit guys, some times its just the dust cover on the chevell

[Cynicaldreamer]

@loki35 haha, okay I will give you that! If he is in good shape, I guess that is all that matters right?

[loki35]

Right you can't say you have a dad bod if you're built like Jabba the Hutt,
but I bet you could inspire a dad bod guy into becoming a Mark Wahlberg if you got a decent fun workout routine and went out and stayed active with each other. Loves a powerful motivator.

[gym4ever]

Everyone on "Mr Olympia level" abuses steroids.
Arnold won 7x mr olympia, he started with steroids at age of 14 or 15.
That down on photo "steroids" is phill heath who also won 7x mr olympia.

And its possible that guy under "very fit" also uses steroids or he workout over 10 years and have perfect genetic.

[Anonymous]

Very fit definitely used PEDs.

Personally I have bad muscle building and would likely need steroids to hit the fit level but many guys could hit that much without.

Of course every guy other than your dad bod likely needs to eat clean if they’re beyond like 23.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol on your confirmation that “fit” is a year after average guy.

100% steroids on every guy you classed as for or higher.

[AndrewMG]

I play a decent amount of sport, no longer do cross country but used to as a youngster, play tennis, play football, play cricket but this is going to be the first year I'm not going to play for a sporting team on a weekly basis, I'm going to let work take a precedent so may only play on a rare basis. I Still think I can compare with most people on this app on a sporting basis, though @1828avaava1828 may disagree, especially in a 30 second knock! lol

[1828avaava1828]

I’m on a whole nother level so I need to lower how I
Judge people

[AndrewMG]

@1828avaava1828 Don't you dare! Keep your standards high, that's what makes you unique!

[1828avaava1828]

Woot woot you’re right lad

[Anonymous]

For my age group I'd say B or C. It is pretty hard but not impossible for a man over 50 to be the D group. This man is 80 and he started working out at 50

[Anonymous]

Just any average guy really, I accept him the way he is. Just like he accepts me the way I am.

[RoxiFromTheDark]

Average who works out occasionally, to very fit but me Olympic level is too much for me I used to have a buff boo and he would hurt me during sex and not in a good way as in he was actually a little too strong for me and he would bruise me up easily

[TripleAce]

id say the 4th is ideal...
I see girls choosing 5 but 5 is too much even, that guy will be all about the gym everyday it will consume him

4 is a good balance of pushing the limits, looking good but not having it totally consume you

[Anonymous]

Here are my favorites in order of preference:
1. Fit.
2. Very fit.
3. Average guy who works out occasionally.
4. Average thin guy.

[FancyPantz]

I'd say max, Fit.

Is the average thin guy really average? I thought it takes work to have even that amount of definition.

[Wizzbang]

Sometimes its genetics. I'm at that point right now, so it does require some effort.

[FancyPantz]

@Wizzbang I think the guy labelled as average looks good too.

[Inneedofusername]

Average guy who works out ocasionally and fit are the same guy.
Tom Elis is smoking hot

[emmily2396]

I know, but he improved a lot

[nopedydoo]

i would be fine with fit and the 2 avg guys. dad bod only if we were both in our 40s or smth (i chose avg guy who works out)

[TheMadAsshatter85]

Used to run every day for years. Stopped at 24- Put on like 35 lbs since.

[thegirlfromthething]

B is perfect, C is okay, and D is the maximum level of fitness I’d date. A, E, F, and G are all very unattractive.

[Neeceeb7]

I'm ok with my man no matter what. I've seen him at at all stages

[Devon69]

What ii all stages

[Neeceeb7]

He has been really muscular and cut. He has gained weight lost weight and it's been six years so he isn't 25 any more but I dont feel any different any of the times

[elliebell]

I think they're all fine apart from the Olympia and steroids, it's too much

[Jemini_Crocket]

I love muscular guys so fit and very fit is super attractive for me. But average who works out occasionaly/regularly is fine as well.

[nerms123]

I like the two average guys. The fit guy is the most muscle I could like

[Ayer93]

I'm a skinnier version of 3 and pretty sure most girls ideal is 4. It looks like you care a lot about your body, but don't let working out consume you.

[DanishSaint]

Would someone please explain to me the difference between the Mr. Olympia type and the steroid type? I dont see any!

[demonics]

Schwarzenegger's body is still proportional. Steroids dude can't wipe his own ass.

[DanishSaint]

@demonics Maybe back in the late 70s early 80s when he was at his best. But for the last 20 years at least, it is all the same...

[Ámayas_20]

First one and the last two are a big no all the rest are fine.

[beebella]

The first four options. I'm not that into super ripped/buff guys.

[Babygirl_S]

All except 1st and last 2. Selected the very fit guy as he is the most attractive according to me among all of these.

[Joker_]

Dad body

[Mamamialetmego]

I look like B maybe little bit more mascular and i thought girls don' find guys like me attractive. I thought girls want big, muscular guys like Captain America or something.

[JP_Man]

You realize Arnie was on roïds do you? Anyways the one on "fit" selection is the most aesthetic and still there is 80% chances he uses roïds or sarms.

[emmily2396]

1. Yea, but he did it under a doctor's watch, he didn't abuse them like it is done nowadays.

2. Not every guy that is fit is on steroids, I don't thing the superdit one uses them. I have seen plenty of guys like that in the gym, it takes many years to achieve, but it is not unachieveable by natural ways. Actually, picture 3 and 4 are the same guy. He got this transformation in less than 1 year. If he managed that, then the superfit version is achieveable too.

[JP_Man]

Yes that transformation within 1 year is either sarms or roïds. I know that buisness in and out. Besides most of them will not likely tell you they do. On the other hand, these enhancement drugs are extremely popular among gym goers. Far more then you would expect.

[emmily2396]

I have guy friends who hit the gym. I don't know how quick they got their results but they are natural all the way. Some guys have better genes than other. Stop acting like every guy who looks ripped is on roids. As far as I know a guy can put up to 10-12 kg. of muscle. in a year without steroids, so yes, that transformation is achieveable with proper diet and training. Most people don't get proper diet and don't try hard enough, so that is why they don't get the same results.

[JP_Man]

I said 80% with that kind of physique yes. Staying lean and keep muscle is nearly impossible. My friend used to own a gym and he was selling gear too. I stated that with the knowledge he provided me, so anecdotal it is... it's not less anecdotal then your assumptions.

[emmily2396]

Those are not assumptions... look it up. online, that is how. much a man can gain in his first year... and I know plenty of guys who work out and are pretty build too. Thwy are not. on any gear, they just eat and train right. The guy in the picture doesn't seem to be at a body fat that is not sustainable.

[JP_Man]

That is 6%bf so, no.

[gym4ever]

"1. Yea, but he did it under a doctor's watch, he didn't abuse them like it is done nowadays."

Everyone who is on that level of bodybuilding go to doctor every few weeks/months. If they didn't check their body results and blood they would die after few years probably.
And maybe they look like idiots who abuses steroids but trust me they know every inch of their organs and how everything works.

[emmily2396]

Nope, there have been plenty of cases when they died at 30 or. younger due to steroid abuse. You can tell by their appearance they are taking way more than Arnold or other bodybuilders in that time. Arnold didn't take enough for me to say his appearance is mostly due to steroids. He could achieve a close look without them. I can't say the. same. about the last guy. Without steroids he wouldn't be close.

[emmily2396]

And that doesn't look. like 6%, more like the regular 10-12%. He is the regular ripped guy.

[gym4ever]

First of all body fat has nothing to do if someone uses steroids or not.
There are 100 types of steroids.
Arnold lost his testicle due steroid abuse in early age.
Phill heath is just genetic freak and diffrent genetic then arnold did.
And being big and being olympia is not same. Anyone can take steroids and be big. And chance to compete for my olympia is literally hardest thing in world to achieve.
Educate ur self a little, you can't teach me xd

[JP_Man]

10% boyfriend is 2 pictures above. Just saying here.

[Anonymous]

Hair chest gang

[Anonymous]

The last two are the same answer, what i am going for is fit guy im currently the guy above him

[emmily2396]

Not really, Arnold didn't abuse steroids as much ss guys nowadays do

[Opinion Owner]

Well yeah thats true, the judging criteria has changed i guess.

[pizzalovershouse]

I say tone is enofe so you have a bit of muscle definition but don't look bulky

[DeathRowKingPin]

If all a women is interested in is the ideal man tell her to look at her mom and dad or an old couple out and about then walk off

[RoxiFromTheDark]

That doesn’t work for all of us my dads 6,1 and fit

[Holy_Ghost_Fire]

Pretty sure women value fitness level bodies in men. Seems to be most reasonable.

[Silentmist]

They're all attractive in their own ways, but I think B, C, and D are the most alluring 🤷‍♀️

[Emmalouise03]

the three first ones seem nice to me lol idc

[Devon69]

Skinny guys with big dick

[Jasminne]

Fit... definitely not the last 3 though

[EleanorRigby]

All from B to E.

[MsShyasf]

3, 4, and 5

[mermaidia_lol]

Average thin guy

[Mamamialetmego]

I look exactly like him i thought girls don't find attractive guys like me

[LuWe22]

Average body