I'm sorry but, if I workout, take care of myself etc and look fit, I expect my boyfriend to do the same.
I take inspiration from my father, he had broad shoulder and a six pack until he was 38. Now that he's 45 he's more relaxed, but still fit and built and able to beat someone up should need be.
And I expect the same from my boyfriend/husband. I want someone who will look after themselves and be healthy not waste away as a couch potato. If so they can go find an equally ugly and overweight wife!
For me, he has to be between average to fit. I work out regularly, so I expect my partner to be in shape as well. He doesn't have to be a gymrat or have a six pack, but he has to be at least be in good physical shape.
In other words, he has to be able to at least keep up with me.
Everyone on "Mr Olympia level" abuses steroids.
Arnold won 7x mr olympia, he started with steroids at age of 14 or 15.
That down on photo "steroids" is phill heath who also won 7x mr olympia.
And its possible that guy under "very fit" also uses steroids or he workout over 10 years and have perfect genetic.
Very fit definitely used PEDs.
Personally I have bad muscle building and would likely need steroids to hit the fit level but many guys could hit that much without.
Of course every guy other than your dad bod likely needs to eat clean if they’re beyond like 23.
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I play a decent amount of sport, no longer do cross country but used to as a youngster, play tennis, play football, play cricket but this is going to be the first year I'm not going to play for a sporting team on a weekly basis, I'm going to let work take a precedent so may only play on a rare basis. I Still think I can compare with most people on this app on a sporting basis, though @1828avaava1828 may disagree, especially in a 30 second knock! lol
For my age group I'd say B or C. It is pretty hard but not impossible for a man over 50 to be the D group. This man is 80 and he started working out at 50
Just any average guy really, I accept him the way he is. Just like he accepts me the way I am.
Average who works out occasionally, to very fit but me Olympic level is too much for me I used to have a buff boo and he would hurt me during sex and not in a good way as in he was actually a little too strong for me and he would bruise me up easily
id say the 4th is ideal...
I see girls choosing 5 but 5 is too much even, that guy will be all about the gym everyday it will consume him
4 is a good balance of pushing the limits, looking good but not having it totally consume you
Here are my favorites in order of preference:
1. Fit.
2. Very fit.
3. Average guy who works out occasionally.
4. Average thin guy.
I'd say max, Fit.
Is the average thin guy really average? I thought it takes work to have even that amount of definition.
Average guy who works out ocasionally and fit are the same guy.
Tom Elis is smoking hot
i would be fine with fit and the 2 avg guys. dad bod only if we were both in our 40s or smth (i chose avg guy who works out)
Used to run every day for years. Stopped at 24- Put on like 35 lbs since.
B is perfect, C is okay, and D is the maximum level of fitness I’d date. A, E, F, and G are all very unattractive.
I'm ok with my man no matter what. I've seen him at at all stages
I think they're all fine apart from the Olympia and steroids, it's too much
I love muscular guys so fit and very fit is super attractive for me. But average who works out occasionaly/regularly is fine as well.
I like the two average guys. The fit guy is the most muscle I could like
I'm a skinnier version of 3 and pretty sure most girls ideal is 4. It looks like you care a lot about your body, but don't let working out consume you.
Would someone please explain to me the difference between the Mr. Olympia type and the steroid type? I dont see any!
First one and the last two are a big no all the rest are fine.
All except 1st and last 2. Selected the very fit guy as he is the most attractive according to me among all of these.
Dad body
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