i wouldn't say that's true but if i had to make a guess why this is true, i'd say that people settle for the girl that's more likely to stay with them. and for that purpose, guys don't choose girls that have too many choices.
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Based on most of these comments, it’s true. So many people are proving my point lol but yeah probably
i guess it can have another simple logic. if you ask a person out or approach them, you'd like to avoid getting rejected. so you approach those that are less likely to be rejected by. and it's not very likely to get with a girl that you never approached xD
I think beauty is subjective for example I have never understood the appeal about Emma Watson. I find it quite suprising when I hear people say “she is so pretty” because to me she does not look very pretty
Beauty is in fact subjective, I just find it so weird that even the most unattractive people get so much attention. Well with celebrities, they’re automatically deemed as attractive even if they aren’t. Emma Watson was a childhood favorite of many, so many people just automatically found her pretty. I never watched her movies and I think she’s okay.
I do agree though it does seem like some men on here have very low standards. I see them writing comments like so pretty on posts about women who I personally would have rated a 5 at most.
If I see a girl who doesn’t look pretty to me I will tell her ways I think should could improve her appearance because of course it is rude to call others ugly
I don't like fake, high-maintenance girls, so the second one seems better to be. In a general sense, very pretty girls always seem to have crappy personalities and have nothing to offer except her body. Average girls treat people nicer and are more modest. Although exceptions can be everywhere in my personal experience, I have seen this.
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I think it’s just rude to generalize like that because most pretty people I’ve met are actually really kind and insecure. It’s just that they’re portrayed as arrogant bitches when most aren’t. Plus someone being attractive doesn’t automatically mean you’ll be attracted to them.
I haven't generalized , I do know pretty girls with very nice personalities but only very very few of them. It depends on the age too , young attractive girls tend to be very uptight but as they age many turn to sweet... Me personally I live smart cookies if they tern out to be attractive that's a bonus
Could just be that the gorgeous ones will attract other guys that'll try to take her away from him! It's like trying to eat a meal outside. Who wants to try eating while shooing insects away from their food the whole time?
@EnglishEuropean Yes well the best make-up is when you can't tell they are wearing any. The first one is obviously made up heavily or air brushed because you can't see any dermal texture at all.
Girls who are "10's" tend to be very hypergamous, not have much personality, and are overall pretty dull. I dated a couple of 10's and once looking at her wore off I realized there was no substance.
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Yeah but I said by first look without looking at the depth. Just soley face wise. I do get what you mean before, I’ve had the same issue with guys. The hot ones are boring
Yeah I’ve always wonder this too. First girl is a 9/10 (I’m not really into blondes) second is like a 6/10. Anyone who says otherwise is probably blind or just has weird taste. I think it’s an older person thing, I’ve noticed older men prefer mediocre women.
Because most men on here including myself are not good looking enough for hot girls so why bother wasting time approaching someone who's out of your league. Beside that a lot of hot girls have shitty personalities just because they know they can get away with it.
I guess so yeah. And I would but I’m honestly scared to see the result lol. Also because this app is heavily dominated by dominant men. Like when’s the last time I’ve seen a man who’s into women in control on this site? Never. But irl I've met a few. I feel like it wouldn’t be fair but I think I’ll make that poll after a while, can’t post more than 2 questions a day
First, attention seekers suffer the most. Even if they have all the attention in the world, they're not gonna be satisfied. That's why they're attention seekers
With the first girl, there's just something "off" about her nose and her lips. Plus, her hair looks fake a f.
The second girl has a manly jaw, but at least she has a nice smile.
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The first example is magazine pretty, plastic attractiveness. It feels hollow. The second is genuine, a real girl next door kind of feel. Cute and expressive. This is why guys prefer less/no makeup.
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i wouldn't say that's true but if i had to make a guess why this is true, i'd say that people settle for the girl that's more likely to stay with them. and for that purpose, guys don't choose girls that have too many choices.
Based on most of these comments, it’s true. So many people are proving my point lol but yeah probably
i guess it can have another simple logic. if you ask a person out or approach them, you'd like to avoid getting rejected. so you approach those that are less likely to be rejected by. and it's not very likely to get with a girl that you never approached xD
They both look average to me.
Nil Keser or Vika Bronova is somebody I find pretty
These two girls you posted look very plain and boring to me
I agree but most men find blondes attractive so I tried to tailor this question towards them :/
I think beauty is subjective for example I have never understood the appeal about Emma Watson. I find it quite suprising when I hear people say “she is so pretty” because to me she does not look very pretty
Beauty is in fact subjective, I just find it so weird that even the most unattractive people get so much attention. Well with celebrities, they’re automatically deemed as attractive even if they aren’t. Emma Watson was a childhood favorite of many, so many people just automatically found her pretty. I never watched her movies and I think she’s okay.
I do agree though it does seem like some men on here have very low standards.
I see them writing comments like so pretty on posts about women who I personally would have rated a 5 at most.
If I see a girl who doesn’t look pretty to me I will tell her ways I think should could improve her appearance because of course it is rude to call others ugly
Vika Bronova looks fake, too, though.
Emma Watson is extremely hot.
I don't like fake, high-maintenance girls, so the second one seems better to be. In a general sense, very pretty girls always seem to have crappy personalities and have nothing to offer except her body. Average girls treat people nicer and are more modest. Although exceptions can be everywhere in my personal experience, I have seen this.
I think it’s just rude to generalize like that because most pretty people I’ve met are actually really kind and insecure. It’s just that they’re portrayed as arrogant bitches when most aren’t. Plus someone being attractive doesn’t automatically mean you’ll be attracted to them.
I haven't generalized , I do know pretty girls with very nice personalities but only very very few of them. It depends on the age too , young attractive girls tend to be very uptight but as they age many turn to sweet... Me personally I live smart cookies if they tern out to be attractive that's a bonus
Could just be that the gorgeous ones will attract other guys that'll try to take her away from him! It's like trying to eat a meal outside. Who wants to try eating while shooing insects away from their food the whole time?
The first woman just looks fake. I would have the feeling, I would not recognize her anymore, once all of that makeup is removed.
The second one is just honest, no need to hide anything. Honesty is appealing.
Both are very beautiful but the 2nd one is much more so because she doesn't need any make-up to achieve her look.
The second one probably is wearing make up but fair play, she didn't put it on with a trowel.
@EnglishEuropean Yes well the best make-up is when you can't tell they are wearing any. The first one is obviously made up heavily or air brushed because you can't see any dermal texture at all.
That's very true!
Girls who are "10's" tend to be very hypergamous, not have much personality, and are overall pretty dull. I dated a couple of 10's and once looking at her wore off I realized there was no substance.
Yeah but I said by first look without looking at the depth. Just soley face wise. I do get what you mean before, I’ve had the same issue with guys. The hot ones are boring
Probably because guys think she will be a real bitch to him if they approach her.
I’m not sure but I prefer the second girl too. The first girl does have really nice features though.
1st one looks fake/deceptive (in matter of looks.
2nd one looks more real.
They’re both okay. Number 1 is prettier though in my opinion
I think number 1 as well
Yeah I’ve always wonder this too. First girl is a 9/10 (I’m not really into blondes) second is like a 6/10. Anyone who says otherwise is probably blind or just has weird taste. I think it’s an older person thing, I’ve noticed older men prefer mediocre women.
Loyal, long lasting, loveable, caring, trustable these are some qualities which you mostly find in normal girls
Padon , i am not telling some one is good or bad but is kind of bitter truth.
Both are so pretty, just in two different ways. Some men are probably more attracted to the second one because she's smiling
Haha well I meant just in general ofc, the photos are just examples!
Because most men on here including myself are not good looking enough for hot girls so why bother wasting time approaching someone who's out of your league. Beside that a lot of hot girls have shitty personalities just because they know they can get away with it.
I know. I'm pretty average and I got called attractive quite a few times.
Well I don't know if you’re actually average or if you’re just humble but same lol and I don’t get it.
Less chances of rejection, assuming those are "easy" women, assuming they're "submissive, docile" women interested in homemaking and children.
Guys dig that.
well i agree with you on at least the 'perception' of there being less of a chance of rejection. i just feel way less intimidated generally.
See, or of them just agreed with me.
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If you keep a poll on this honey, which do guys like better : submissive or dominant women...
The former is going to win by default.
Because guys just don't want to fuck you. They also want to keep you grounded.
*Exceptions apply
One of Them? Lol thanks
And I didn’t say anything about submissiveness lol
I guess so yeah. And I would but I’m honestly scared to see the result lol. Also because this app is heavily dominated by dominant men. Like when’s the last time I’ve seen a man who’s into women in control on this site? Never. But irl I've met a few. I feel like it wouldn’t be fair but I think I’ll make that poll after a while, can’t post more than 2 questions a day
First, attention seekers suffer the most. Even if they have all the attention in the world, they're not gonna be satisfied. That's why they're attention seekers
Because they are trying to get that girl they rated to like them. Very simple
It looks like the same girl. Only with lip filler and makeup.
With the first girl, there's just something "off" about her nose and her lips.
Plus, her hair looks fake a f.
The second girl has a manly jaw, but at least she has a nice smile.
The first example is magazine pretty, plastic attractiveness. It feels hollow.
The second is genuine, a real girl next door kind of feel. Cute and expressive.
This is why guys prefer less/no makeup.