I like strong guys. They don't gotta be beefy, but I'd like to know I can be protected. It's reassuring. But it really all comes down to how much I like his personality because I won't be with a guy if I don't like how he acts.
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I really have gotten to the point where personality is the most important thing to me. Looks are pretty far down on the list for me.
I see, that's where we guys differ from girls. I think I can conclude that most girls have a similar view, of course its not suprising considering most guys I knows aren't really that faithful to their other half...
Okay, not most guys, but a lot of guys between about 18-30 have kissed other girls while in a serious relationship, I know because I've done it before and so have my friends. But as someone has said the age group doesn't mean much when it comes to fidelity
Honestly personality is number one for me I don't care how goodlooking his body or how good he looks I he got a messed up attitude and personality it's done for me.
Bruv, look at J Lo's hubby, I mean Jennifer Lopez of all women! it ain't about looks trust me. I think only shallow airheads go for looks alone. maybe just work on your self esteem & social skills
Your confidence is the problem. The fact that you can't talk to girls is the bigger issue. Everyone likes an attractive partner but how can you get someone if you don't feel good about yourself? Girls don't like guys that are down on themselves.
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Looks, he has to be a 4/10... personality he has to be an 8/10.
you need looks to get me, but you need a personality to keep me around
Looks as in cute face or looks as in big muscles, or both?
overall appearance.
but for the record, I hate muscles
Why?
they intimidate
@MaxAsian9 you can't answer for her.
I like strong guys. They don't gotta be beefy, but I'd like to know I can be protected. It's reassuring. But it really all comes down to how much I like his personality because I won't be with a guy if I don't like how he acts.
I really have gotten to the point where personality is the most important thing to me. Looks are pretty far down on the list for me.
I see, that's where we guys differ from girls. I think I can conclude that most girls have a similar view, of course its not suprising considering most guys I knows aren't really that faithful to their other half...
Really? Most guys? What sort of age group and what kind of relationships are they in?
Age group doesn't matter about fidelity....male or female, it doesn't matter
Okay, not most guys, but a lot of guys between about 18-30 have kissed other girls while in a serious relationship, I know because I've done it before and so have my friends. But as someone has said the age group doesn't mean much when it comes to fidelity
Looks only go so far, personality is the primary target, looks are just a bonus!
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Honestly personality is number one for me I don't care how goodlooking his body or how good he looks I he got a messed up attitude and personality it's done for me.
personality---looks get real old real quick if you'd rather be having a conversation with your wall than him.
personality! looks always always fade :)
i like both a hot guy with a great personality but I had to choose I wld choose looks everytime!
I go 4 da PERSONALITYY :)
Everytime?
Yeaa most of da time :)
I don't believe you :P so you don't care bout his looks at all?
Well da first thingg I look at is da personalityy then looks
Kool.
what if you like a girl who prefers gold?
Girls like looks and only looks.
Ignorant much?
No that is the truth. I am a nice guy but I have always been lonely because of my looks.
Well that doesn't mean that girls ONLY like looks.
Maybe you're just very unfortunate in the looks department. Or more likely, you haven't built enough confidence and self-esteem to chat to girls...
I may lack a little confidence but still I find girls impossible to talk to and I feel like girls just pass me by.
Bruv, look at J Lo's hubby, I mean Jennifer Lopez of all women! it ain't about looks trust me. I think only shallow airheads go for looks alone. maybe just work on your self esteem & social skills
You don't understand how hard girls are to talk to then. I am so scared of them.
Your confidence is the problem. The fact that you can't talk to girls is the bigger issue. Everyone likes an attractive partner but how can you get someone if you don't feel good about yourself? Girls don't like guys that are down on themselves.
If I looked better though I would have a girlfriend though.
PERSONALITY!