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Forget about targeting men, were all as bad as each other. Some women hate men too, we do it all the time "oh that guy/girl hurt me I hate them and all men/women" on both sides it happens unfortunatly.
"Superficiality is the constant of our lives. If you are getting mad at a girl for being picky, why don't you try her less-fortunate looking friend sitting in the corner?" This comment is such a bunch of BS... What she really is meaning by this is her ugly a** friend that's 300 lbs, missing teeth and disgusting. NOOOOOOO we don't effin want your effin "friend"! Don't you get it when were talking to YOU! We want to go out with YOU, not your friend, not your friends friend, not the lady...
This article also leaves out another group of men who have been successful with women and are still growing disenchanted with them (American ones anyway). Such as myself. I've dated many different types of women over the years and so far reading people and playing the cocky a**hole with a few jokes thrown in does the trick the best. Which is what disappoints me. Honesty and sincerity only work with a few, the good ones. And there aren't many of those around.
Your pathetic attempt at condescension is a poor excuse for your lack of reason. Your childish little insults don't effectively mask your inability to compose half decent arguments.
When you're ready to back up and effectively defend what you say, I'll be waiting.
There's no such thing as "the wrong girl". I can go after whichever woman I want to, regardless of what she's looking for or how she thinks. The same goes for women.
It's okay to have your own opinion and push your point of view, but don't ever expect somebody to have the same values as you. There's absolutely no reason for anyone of either gender to blame the opposite sex for their problems. If you can't get laid, it's your own fault, no matter who you are.
You know, I actually agreed with everything you had to say here until you got to "You're looking for the wrong girls". I don't have a problem calling out these "nice guy" idiots who refuse to accept that they're doing something wrong and are bigger cry-babies than women, but you're doing the same thing as them by saying "you're looking for the wrong girls".
If you want to self-rationalize your prudish behaviour, that's fine, but I can go and f*** whoever I want, thanks.
@Epiphanies
I take umbrage to this article. Because this FAILS to explain the rationale of women's behaviour. Also it makes an unqualified view of how men think. Have you ever considered what lies, misinformation that they have been told. Or even what has been withheld from them to make them feel that way.
It's no wonder men these days are kind of reluctant to ask women out these days because so many women are so overly extremely picky and have this false fantasy perception that if they say no to every single guy, that by saying no to every single guy it's going to somehow produce this magical god of a guy simply cause she says no to every guy and think she's an automatic 10 simply cause she's a lady. Also women have way to many "requirements"/lists for their men and no wonder men run. Contd
All of these claims can also be made about women. I don't know how many female face book statuses I see about girls saying that "all men are a**holes" or "all men are the same". I will agree some of this is true about some guys. But some of this is also true about some women. Don't act like men are the only ones that make these mistakes..."
Exactly and actually I would say it's worse with women especially I would have to say the part with single women being so unbelievably picky...contd
Asailum, I'm sorry a girl was rude to you but you don't seem like such a charmer yourself. You don't seem to have anything to say about my article so I suggest you save your ranting for someone else.
Bunny, sorry but it's true.
The author is under the common mistaken impression that women can do no wrong. in the author's opinion, women are perfect and make no mistakes, and women never hurt men's feelings.
I wonder what planet the author is on...but it ain't earth
The downright dou*he bags that could care less about you. Contrary to a lot of womens beliefs the douche bags or as women call them the "cool" guys they are the ultimate cheaters, could give a sh*t about you and the a**holes are just that, a**holes and they are that way for a reason. Plus these "douche bags" young women like usually take their anger out on her (beating her), kicking her, throwing her. Oh yeah sounds like a total winner! Nice guys can have and usually do have all three parts...
""We are 10 times better at reading body language than you are.We might say we want a nice guy but we actually mean we want a somewhat cocky WITH humorous one, which is why nice guys finish last.Nice and shy does NOT build attraction.Cocky builds tension and when you follow it with humor it releases tension, thus building attraction which is not logical but that's how it works.If you make love to our mind you get the body as a bonus" This is funny cause it translates to women want the a**holes..
next to you but we want to go out with YOU. This also flips back onto the women as well cause there are also a ton of women that think they are all THAT and so many talk about we want this "Tom Cruise". A lot of you women are in the same category as in your also shooting way to high on your scale. You want the 11 but reality is your guy is going to be around an 7 or an 8, yes that's obviously still hot but that's your range not the 11. Plus the 10's and 11's do you really want? The 10's and
At least for me the truth is I don't think that my whole life should be a hunt for girls, and that is because I an older person now (27) I understand that when I was a teenager, women and sex was this new and exciting thing but as you get to know women and sex you realize they are just a**holes just like us and that sex is not this magical holy grail that you should direct all your time tryng to get, I believe is just boredom and I think is natural, and I think women go trough the same
Also, pro tip for boys: If you find yourself way too attracted to people that make you feel like shit about yourself, and you don't want to be anymore...
Castrate yourself, and your sex drive will go away. Then it won't really be as much of an issue anymore.
(It also helps with the whole androgyny thing too.)
Ouch
Men act the way that we do because we're deeply hurt by rejection.
It makes us bitter. If every man was equip with a button to destroy the whole world not a single man alive would not have pressed it at least once after getting rejected.
Women don't realize how easy they have it, or maybe they do and they're rubbing it in.
Get emotionally hurt is much worse than getting your ego hurt
@likelyOK same shit
5. Men and women both like attractive partners. If you are going to tell me that you'd rather have (all other things being equal) and ugly man instead of a hot guy. You are lying only to yourself cause no one else believes you.
Oh man, so much hostility. But, honestly, wouldn't it be more productive for you guys to listen to my advice instead of direct defensive anger at some girl on the internet whose telling you something you don't want to hear?
Ossander, I totally agree. I considered writing an article along the same lines for women but I realized it would be exactly the same with a few details flipped around.
The key idea is to not blame "men" or "women" for your love life angst.