Why Guys Are Confusing To Us! (Page 4)

[GoodManDave]

I wish GAG would let us type more than 500 characters, because there are so many points that I want to get into with this article.

1) When I've shown interest in girls, or asked them out, many have laughed in my face. Most have been really nasty, and then avoided me, to the point of ridiculousness. I can't say "Hello" because they've "run" to the other end of the hall because I asked her out to coffee?

A guy who shares his feeling is considered by most be be a wimp by BOTH genders.

[Forgetable]

Okay, 500 characters is not nearly enough to respond to this, but I have a respone that's not harsh or anything, because you kind of sound like you've recently been hurt and are just speaking out of that hurt and I can respect that, but I have a complete response to everything you said that I'm going to send to you.

[StringofFate]

This is very opinionated, unpleasant to read due to the author's venomous attitude and barely even an article, most of this is not fact aside from the statement "we are from different genders". lol. This should be removed, I found it on the front page.

To the author- I hope you get some help and your future relationships go better for you.

[Mesonfielde]

To 15.), Silent Treatment = you are not willing to share your feelings because you're too busy trying to hurt the guy you're with. Thanks for the hypocriticism with 1.). If you don't like this done to you, why would you do it?

Anyways, what I wanted to add originally was that YOU'RE getting confused because you're attempting to apply generalized behavior on half of the planet's population. Of course you won't understand the individual that way. Gender does not define your personality. Period.

[MacTyson]

Ok I don't think its all guys because I'm not like this so shut up because you obviously don't have much exp. with guys. Its not all guys just like not all girls are confusing or sluts! We send mix signals and don't share our feeling as often because we feel insecure about it becuase of years of the "men don't cry" sh*t. Id give you a fork so you could eat your words but I can't do that virtualy.

[rachelrox505]

This sounds like a 13 year old wrote it...I mean it starts with "why guys are confusing to us" and ends with "But, we are from different genders. that's why we confuse each other." Well, I didn't need to be a rocket scientist to figure that one out, and surely you couldn't have written all that, just to prove THAT thesis. So many grammar and spelling mistakes. I tolerate it with questions, but articles are supposed to be formal. sorry but I can't take you seriously

[diabloknk]

Why girls are confusing to us, continued:

13. They don't care about us, period.

14. They are into you one minute and then forget you the next.

15. When you get pissed off at us, you girls give us silent treatment. You mistake our not caring with not noticing.

16. They want to keep us guessing!?!?! WTF!

17. They get bored and leave us if we don't act cool. Really?!

18. Girls think that we don't know how to think without our d***s. Yes we do, we're quite good at it.

[diabloknk]

Why girls are confusing to us, continued:

7. Do the weirdest/creepiest things to get us to ask them out, instead of making the first move.

8. They reveal way too much personal info.

9. Change the subject to relationships when we want to talk about something else.

10. Send us f***ing mixed signals.

11. She looks like she likes you but the next day she gets a boyfriend but still ...idk.. but why? idk

12. Some women are cheaters, bitches, gold-diggers, etc.

[diabloknk]

Why girls are confusing to us:

1. They are indirect in speech and action.

2. They go after the guys that are already taken.

3. You try to have some casual sex with them, and they try to turn it into a relationship.

4. We are from different planets.

5. Women are "Financial Creatures" - meaning that all they look for are their sugar daddy/baby daddy/ you get the picture.

6. All they care about is shopping, their hair, dieting, basically anything that isn't interesting to us.

[virgininla]

The problem is guys who don't do a lot of these things get dumped by girls. That is why guys don't or do do them. I knew a guy, a really nice guy, an ex-Marine. He loved his girlfriend dearly. He treated her like a queen. He was willing to talk about his feelings, relationships, etc. And you know what. She treated him like s**t. She "hung out" with her ex-boyfriend in her apartment. She didn't sleep with him, despite them being in a "relationship" for two years. She walked all over him.

[Whim_Q]

So... essentially what you did was watch one terrible romcom, take every single stereotype therein, and write them down with an obnoxious amount of superfluous punctuation. Brava.

And might I ask how you can possibly still like Twilight at 17? Lay off that insipid rot and maybe you'll be less prone to unjustified oversimplification.

Oh, and how

[rachel_myers]

18.) Guys think that we are bunch of air heads when we know how to solve our own problems. We aren't that stupid..actually we aren't stupid at all. Read what you said about THEM in #6. Guys are not as complicated as girls think. WE make them complicated, guys are simple, uncomplex and wonderful. Message me, I'd like to share some other thoughts with you on your story.

[chadwickc2]

some of these are true, but most aren't. About number 1. Men don't share their feelings, because being emotional is not masculine. Plain and simple. The men who do share their feelings usually get FRIEND ZONED.

There are men who are nothing what you listed above. But these are the guys you girls label BORING. Admit or not you want a man who is a challenge. That's why the attractive men display the some of the listings you put above.

[shyguy007]

From what you've written I can say you don't know much only that you've had the misfortune of meeting multiple douche bags. You sound angry and resentful. Get over it we all have to whether we male or female you always going to get the bad apples so stop your whining and move on already.

[micricjac]

15) guys do the same( go silent)

16) depends what your talking about guessing? getting to guess can be fun if your trying to work out where were going

17) not sure on that but doesn't sound cool to me

18) yup you girls are intelligent no argument there

19) so don't want to be in that situation

20)its down to confidence plus if your in a group its harder for us

[ryanrhino]

I think your article should be titled "Why BOYS are confusing to us." It sounds like you or another woman you know has been hurt by a boy, not a guy. I hope you realize that some women display some of the behaviors above.

It's OK to be angry, but please don't hurt all of us good guys out here. :D

I hope you find peace with your anger and pain. And none of us really knows everything, and we're wrong frequently!

[carlo]

don't think you girls kow more than you think. that's a myth. girls are pretty stupid if you ask me, but they have the arrogance to keep saying you know better and we men should be meausered by your standards. I thought girls were clever, maybe better than men, what a sorry discovery to hit reality. you girls should stop saying you're more mature or so much better than men (as you hint but don't say openly, how typical and hypocrite: e.g. point 6) , you're just full of sh*t, bye bye

[colemex43]

What? Girls find "guys" confusing? Wow. I never thought I'd see a girl admit that.i go after single girls only and when I like a girl,i walk right up to her and say so.in terms of number 11, assuming a guy likes because he's checking you out is the dumbest thing you can do.if he likes you he will tell you so in a letter,through his best friend,or directly to your face.otherwise you just caught his eye and nothing more

[brunettebelle]

Guys are logical and not as emotional but they do feel emotions, most don't express them. Women can be logical but emotions can get in our way, and kill our actions and judgement. Sometimes the genders are vice versa. The best thing todo is to try to think logically about it, no person is straight forward all the time.

[advicegiver]

You're generalizing grossly. Not smart. This article just makes you look like a man-hating idiot.

In addition, for the most part, guys say what they mean. Most of us are direct. Most girls aren't. Thus, you're actually more confusing and you're confusing yourselves about guys.