Why does he only talk to me late at night?

[Anonymous]

So I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now, and we have been flirting a little. We mainly Snapchat, but he ONLY responds or talks to me at 11:00 PM or later until 3 or 4 AM. I know he's on his phone during the day because he posts to social media. He has also mentioned hanging out before but says he just wants to stay at his house and "chill" and not go out anywhere. What does this mean? Why does he only talk to me so late?

[Arkid]

Unlike girls who talk a lot by phone, guys dont find enough energy to talk to people. They just skip and get into another task just not to talk even if there's no disguise. Since girls lack the ability of bringing topics into chats, guys find it tiring too although its our job so we might just as well better leave it for later.

[Arkid]

Idea is get learned to making interesting chats and not leaving it down to him. Or he might just be writing you because he has nothing better to do, simply he doesn't finds you interesting enough so you can make up his day.

[Asker]

Ok, thank you

[jacquesvol]

Maybe is wife goes to bed early. Or he's in a different time zone. you can guess which one looking here:

https://c.tadst.com/gfx/timezonemapdateline.jpg

[jacquesvol]

edit *His (typo, sorry)

[Asker]

No problem, but we live in the same city so I know it's not a time difference

[TheMoroccangirl]

He is a fuckboy

[Klajdi98]

Maybe cause he works? Maybe cause flirting/chatting is more easy when you are trying to sleep on the bed?

[Anonymous]

sorry to grass the guy up but if he only talks to you late at night and never in the day. He probably only finds you attractive enough to fuck.

[Nahid1234]

You seriously don't understand the Last part in your description?

[Asker]

He says for a first date he prefers to stay home and "get to know the person" before "going out"

[Nahid1234]

That is bullshit and you seem like the easy types 🤦‍♂️😂

[Asker]

No im not I just didn't know for sure

[Nahid1234]

He wants you to come over and fuck. Seriously?

And why does he message you late at night? Because he sees you as an easy girl, a side chick and you respond to him. 😂

[Asker]

Well I'm going to quit talking to him if that's his only motive

[Nahid1234]

I'm sorry not sorry if I was mean and harsh. But as I said, you are so easy 😂🤦‍♂️

Message him during the day to have a look and you'll find out.

You must be young! 😂

Well, it seemed you were interested in him in some way.

[Asker]

He's my ex's friend tbh so I knew of him but I'm not interested in just hooking up.. and I'm 19

[Nahid1234]

I'm 19 in a few days.

Well, you learnt a lesson girlie.

[UpAtDawnAndy]

he is looking for booty call

[emerald77]

He wants you as his booty call.

[leechylad]

he's tryna get nudes, or a quick shag