Why don't girls approach guys in bars and clubs or anywhere in general? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

Because sexually assertive women risk being slut shamed.

[emerald77]

It's becoming more common now.

[Asker]

Not common enough haha. its just hella sexy when you get approached by a girl

[Sha84]

because it is totally unnecessary and demeaning for a woman to make the first move

[BeastinAir]

I think we are societally trained to be the prey, not the hunters. Demureness in us is often (not always) valued.

[Anonymous]

I personally don't because I have social anxiety LMAOOO

[HHHHIHHHHHIHHHH]

should we?

[Asker]

Absolutely!

[HHHHIHHHHHIHHHH]

ok, i'll remember about it the next time i go to the bar

[Asker]

Definitely. just approach him instead.

[HHHHIHHHHHIHHHH]

you know that his ego gets in the way and he doesn;t care?

[Asker]

be smooth about it. i know it might be totally different but ask him if he'd like a drink. worked on me. i was totally stunned

[Ellie_copter]

I'm too scared of rejection. lol

[bedroomeyes]

People (mostly other girls) give you shit for it.

[Angel_Kat]

Maybe they are shy I don't know

[Asker]

Fair Enough. but still when a girl approaches a guy its damn nice

[Angel_Kat]

I know, confidence is always something to admire :)

[Asker]

oh yeah! a girl with confidence is sexy as hell. a girl with vision for her future and a goal in life is an automatic turn on for most guys (some guys are just d#cks who dont care but some do)

[Angel_Kat]

Ikr, I'm trying to approach guys more :P

[Asker]

that's good 😁 I've only been approached a few times but i can rememeber them crystal clear. thats how much it impacts when you can rememeber everything

[Luana83]

Never get a chance too. they approach me.