If a girl won't reply on Tinder?

[Anonymous]

I get it all the time, I message a girl that matches me but never actually talks to me back. It's dumb. But the thing is, half the time, I've super liked the girl if she ends up matching me in return. So I'm interested.

Whats the best way to try and charm a girl that's hard to get? I'm thinking I'm gonna just start sending texts where it's like I'm singing my message to her lol. Singing text tunes how she's cute and won't reply to me and stuff. At this point I really don't know I've tried everything and I just don't care anymore xD

[Essengiles]

It's just Tinder, don't take it to heart. I joined Tinder and had over 60 matches within 2 days and within those people, less than 10 messaged me and only 2 people got my number. I didn't text one back and the other didn't text me back. I'd message some people first but they wouldn't respond. I really don't understand the point of liking someone if you're not going to communicate but that's what happens. My main reasons for not replying to someone is because either 1. They were being dry/ boring
2. I was more interested in someone else
3. I'm not interested at all.

[Asker]

Especially when I super liked her too lol, shooooot mannn. xD

[BrittBratt2416]

They don't respond cause they may not be interested or some of these women treat dating sites like Twitter and Facebook but just have a account to upload pictures cause everyone else has one but have no real intentions of meeting men.

[BrittBratt2416]

Another reason is shyness/scared cause they feel they may not be up to the guys standards if they think the guy is really handsome or too outgoing for them.

[Chanel1981]

If they don't answer just let it go and move on, trust me.

[Asker]

Meh, but what if you know? Girls playing hard to get isn't exactly unheard of.

[Chanel1981]

No one plays hard to get on Tinder. If they don't answer it's because they don't want to

[Asker]

Then she shouldn't have matched my super like

[Chanel1981]

Just because she is doesn't mean she has to be interested in you.

[kingvegetaa]

This is why some people say some girls on tinder, no most girls on tinder are way shallow, why do girls match someone if they have no interest in talking to them?

[Chanel1981]

@kingvegetaa maybe they match with them according to interests or on paper but they're not attracted to the man's picture

[JDavid25]

Yeah I can't stand Tinder.. A few girls talked to me, but they all stopped.. LOL.. One girl was even plannin to meet up with me.. But, she ain't never followed up.. haha.. In the end I deleted that dusty a$$ app, and my account... LOL..

[WalterRadio]

Tinder is for hookups. As a consequence, a handful of guys will have sex with a whole lot of girls.

It doesn't sound like you are among that handful of guys.

Try a different site.

[kikisand]

My biggest peeve is when people don't respond. About anything. It's not that difficult to send a quick response.

All you can do it try. If they choose to ignore your attempts, then that's their loss.

The ones who are interested will respond.

[miserybusiness]

Some people just use Tinder to swipe

I'm guilty of that lol, sometimes I forget there's more to it than swiping pictures

[Asker]

That's why I'm going to sing her a tune via text message xD

[miserybusiness]

that's a cute idea

[Anonymous]

Right. Because every woman wants a clingy obsessive man.

She doesn't have to explain herself. Maybe she's not even really using the app anymore.

[Asker]

Sending 1 message and not getting a reply and then trying to show a little bit of persistence with another message isn't clingy.

[Opinion Owner]

True, but singing to a girl you don't actually know, is creepy.

[Asker]

Remember, I'm trying to sound interesting via text messaging. It's not easy.

[Daniel3035]

Move on you see these girls are low lifes they're on there because when you message them it gives them attention something they lack in real life. Not worth it one bit. Don't go online it's all bad.

[Browneye57]

Validation queens. They have NO intention of ever seeing you. Period.

[nay15219]

how u come on to them... or y'all might match but it looks may not be up to par or their style

[Anonymous]

Maybe they want something more than hey?
One of friends does
When i was online I'd reply as long as it wasn't something stupid he said

[Chantel77]

They probably read your bio and thought y'all weren't a match after all

[samsmoove]

Give it three days. If no conversation comes out of it move on bro

[StickStickity13]

Tinder is a massive numbers game. The more attractive you are, the easier it becomes

[missbelieverr]

who knows.. maybe she's not too interested or she's busy?

[SmoothTalk]

please don't do that. she will find it creepy, not cute. Bumble is probably what you're looking for.

[CorruptedDocument]

She is either a troll or spam, report the account and get over it.

[Bonnie12I27I12]

maybe dont use things like "xD"

[Asker]

Lol really?

[Bonnie12I27I12]

honestly, yeah. things like that do make a difference. you're a grown man, not a 13 year old

[Asker]

Wow so I guess ever popular emojis are off limits huh?

[Bonnie12I27I12]

usually grown men and women dont really think it's attractive to use emojis. makes the person seem kinda immature. it's just a suggestion tho!

[Asker]

Hmm alright

[Anonymous]

She isn't interested. Stop being so obeseesive

[zagor]

Maybe go on to the next one?