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Don't move on just show her how beautiful she is, take her out and give her you attention - don't let your eyes roam the room. Look her in the eyes when you talk to her. My guess is she is very deffensive as she's been hurt in the past, she'll get past this but only if you keep trying and be patient it may take months for her to accept you only want her. She probably isn't ready to commit yet but you have to show her you are commited entirley to her.
Yeah, I did take her out although she found it hard to make eye contact with me and seemed nervous (looked like she was biting nails/on phone some times). she told me she's never been that shy before, usually can't shut her up. I took risk holding her hand on way back and she accepted, it felt like she wanted to do same. asked if I wanted to come inside her house but said I'm alright, was bit of silence on doorstep then she stepped forward and we just kissed. guess after time she'll be alright.
This is what I would do :)
Option 1 -
Don't give up on her, stay with her and persist...And make sure she know's your not going anywhere, tell her you won't leave until her heart stops beating.
Option 2 -
Let her go and tell her that you love her but you can see she isn't quite happy, so you will leave because you hate seeing her like that. Let her know at any time she can call you. Wait for her to come back. (if she loves you...TRUST ME...she will come back)
goodluck xoxo
hmm
maybe she think you a player?
or she could be intimidated
m telling you thebest thing is to be straight up and ask her why she's acting like this because come on ...that YOU CAN DO BETTER excuse is just to get attention (believe me its like a subtle way of a girl just trying to get attention)
Be as straight up with her asyou cantell her you like her regardless of her comments
then ask if shell date you just the way you are..yes or no..
lol you need to bringon that pressure to really find out what's going on because if your as good a she says..im wondering why she's not on itt
She's had loads going on in her family (granddad very ill etc) and I do feel like I've presurised her. she really really likes me but she said she wasn't sure if she wanted a committed relationship at this time, wasn't sure if she might do or not. her best mate told me she seems happy with how smooth things are atm etc, but she's had her feelings hurt before. she finds it hard to trust cos' of it, how do I build up that trust? (without going in friend zone)
OH OH OH. OK, so once there was this guy, steven, and I wanted to break up with him and I had no idea how to because I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I did this whole dramatic thing saying how he was better off without me and I was not good enough for him. I don't think this relates much but its a possibility
She told me she really likes me and wants to get to know me, just sometimes it's hard to get close.
man id just get sick of the pity party sh*t. id ask what can I do to prove to you that I really care for you? then id say maybe I should find someone better someone whos comfortable with themselves and not getting swallowed into a hole of their emotions or lack thereof. but hey your all young especially her, a lot of girls are insecure at that age. that being the point their "girls" not confident full grown women that know what they want out of their man. best of luck for your situation
I will say this. Insecure people are a handful.. They will constantly need someone to tell them that they're beautiful and.. not fat. If you like her, tell her that you don't look at anyone else because she's the one you want and maybe add in that looks don't matter to you (even if that isn't true) Usually playing hard to get works.. but since this girl is insecure and thinks so lowly of herself and thinks you can do better, there's no way that would work on her.
two things...she could either be one of those girls who just want to hear that they are pretty cus they don't here it much but they DO know their pretty. OR she cud really be inseceure and if you leave her that will probobly crush her and make her even more insecure then she aleardy is.
Yeah, I unintentionally hurt her with a status which was aimed at some broken friendship of mine, I told her it wasn't her. She sent me a message in day + I was out + didn't read it until late at night and she was annoyed, said we're best being friends + that I hurt her, she said she was confused. thinks I'm too good, I haven't messaged back for 2 days, giving her space. Her status' yesterday were 'hate hate hate feeling like this' and 'I hate it when I don't know if somethings worth risking -.-'
Sounds very very insecure. She needs self confidence. Maybe she needs to get out and do stuff that gives her a sense of achievement, maybe that will build her confidence up. But if you have to try to convince her every five minutes that may tire you.
She sounds like she doesn't have a high self-esteem. Are yal dating? Or just friends? If yal are dating, everything is fine. Just keep telling her how beautiful she is and you wouldn't want to be with anyone else. If your just friends, tell her beauty isn't just looks, its your personality, boldness, everything combined. And you want to be with just her.
hi there,
this is one of the common problems that girls have... its like this when you try to please her she takes an upper hand but it can be reversed if you stop being too nice to her only if your sure that she likes you. this is a general insecurity the girl has to test if her guy really likes her and will do anything for her
yep. insecure. she just wants you to put up a fight for her. And she might not want to end up hurt in the end... tell her to put it behind her and if you don't see these "prettier girls" than neither should she. :)
she sounds VERY very insecure...putting herself down and not accepting compliments..she has some things to work on with herself before she's ready for a relationship
Be her friend, give her time and help to build her confidence up. Eventually she'll learn to love herself and see that she does deserve you.
She obviously has insecurity issues and will end up pushing away any guy that comes her way because of this. Tell her that you like her and if she keeps making those comments its going to push you away too.
self esteem problems. also tell her that beauty is not skin deep. tell her that you like her personality and everything, and that she shouldn't worry so much. personality is more important. tell her she's smart. girls love to hear that.
Wow! She has some serious self-esteem issues or she's intentionally pushing you away. It's hard to tell. Either way, she feels totally undeserving and she needs to work through those personal issues...