Does it mean anything when a guy gives you something of his?

[Anonymous]

I was teasing the guy I have a massive thing for about him having taken it my bracelet, because it was the same exact one as his and mine went missing mysteriously at my house one day. (This one was most definitely his, not mine though, mine just went missing.) You see here, this bracelet is a bit "coveted", long story short, not many people have them since they're limited edition. However, he handed it over to me no problem, which seriously surprised me!

So, being the over-analyzing person I am, do you think he was just being a nice guy, or can read more into this?

[TigerRoseBear]

Yeah, usually people don't give other people valuable things unless they really care for that person. Lol, I don't even like lending pencils to people I don't like (as friends)... But yeah, this is a pretty good sign. Have you seen any other signs that he might like you?

You should probably start flirting with him more, because guys won't usually make any moves (like asking a girl out) if they don't see any signs that the girl likes them. It can be pretty embarrassing for a guy to be rejected, and it takes a lot of guts to even ask a girl out, so you should start subtly hinting to him that you like him - for example, touch his arm if he says something nice or funny, or if he does something really nice (like giving you his bracelet), give him a hug that lasts longer than usual. If he likes you back, and he sees these signs, he might ask you out or something.

Good luck! :)

[Asker]

Thanks for replying!

I have seen some. He teases me a bit, glances over in my direction quite a lot, will approach me when I'm with my friends for a brief conversation. He's really hot and cold, though; he'll be really talkative one night, and the next night I'll barely be able to get a glance off him. It's somewhat frustrating, haha.

Would it be stupid to wear the bracelet out the next time I'll see him?

[TigerRoseBear]

That's really good that you see him looking in your direction a lot - I'm pretty sure he likes you! You should start flirting with him a lot more, and maybe even say something like, "Ugh, I really want to see ___ (a movie), but none of my friends are free/want to see it, and I don't want to go alone." He might ask you to go with him.

No, that would be really sweet! And you can give him a big hug and say something like, "Thanks so much for giving me this - you're such an awesome guy!" :D

[TigerRoseBear]

Good luck! :)

[Asker]

I'll see if I can squeak some sort of comment like that in next time a situation comes up that it's appropriate to bring something like that up. As for hugging him, we usually are only make contact in subtle ways (like how he made me take off his bracelet rather than handing it over to me). I'm fairly positive a hug would freak him out. Maybe I'll have to try work up to that or something.

[TigerRoseBear]

Okay, sounds good.

Yeah, I kinda have the same problem with girls - I usually don't like hugging them if they're my age for some reason - maybe because if they're older than me or something, it's more obvious that it's just a platonic hug... but yeah. So I understand that. So you can probably start by just being extra friendly around him (but not too friendly - just the right amount), and flirting in general more. :)

[magiusX26]

you already self diagnosed the main issue here, "over-analizing"which is how your wording is a bit wrong. it has you focusing on gender when if you took the gender part out of it and instead asked yourself "does it mean anything if a person gives you something (gift) ?" think of it as just another human, same as yourself instead. an example of why i said "wrong", try it as if asking a more general human way like if say running a temprature. "does it mean anything if a person has a fever?" versus "does it mean anything if (insert a gender) has a fever", do you see how adding the gender is wrong?

[es_annie]

I believe it is more than just being nice.. maybe he likes you!

I personally have gone through this with my husband when we were dating. I asked why he gave me a valuable figure he had and if he ever did this before because he handed it over like nothing.

All he told me is he wouldn’t just do this for anyone.

[Emelina]

He was being nice, and the bracelet sounds like he was done wearing it and didn't care whether it was a limited edition or not. Since you list yours and he knows it meant something to you, then he was being nice to you by giving you his bc he wouldn't be using it anymore.

[Emelina]

Thanks for the MHG 🙂

[ohsheeT]

Yes it means you have to go see a doctor really fast because now you have cooties we warned you we told you not to go out with that guy

This is probably going to be too deep of an answer but anytime a person gives you anything of theirs they are giving you a piece of themselves everything on this planet has energy within it everything we touch has our energy put into it and when we give somebody a gift either we have made or we have bought there is a piece of us that goes into it and we are sharing that with you you will always remember that person when you look at it you will always feel that person when you touch it

[Anonymous]

Well if it's 10 years ago and I'm on my knees in front of him and suddenly he's filling my mouth with something made from his body and causing him to feel much better, then I suppose it means I'm good at sucking dick and he just earned himself an orgasm.

Maybe ask the dude that gave you whatever it is, so you'll have a better idea?

[motownplayer2000]

I think you need to re-read your stuff before you post it. However, I don't know. I don’t know him, or you, or your dynamic. But it’s never just give you something for nothing because he’s a nice guy. There is always a transaction waiting to happen. He just hasn’t communicated it to you yet. But it is coming.

[Citizenkirk]

Yes, it does. If he gives you his favorite jersey or team mug, keepsake, or collectible, than it means that he really likes you. If he gives you a the clap, gonorrhea, or herpes, maybe not so much 🤔
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[DermalPunch]

Doesn't mean he is in love and wants to be with you forever. He is trying to impress you. Take it easy.

[Massageman]

More than just a casual thing, in my opinion. At least it would be if I gave someone a limited Edition ANYthing. (Budweiser beer notwithstanding).

[slatyb]

Definitely flirtatious. What do you want? A date? Ask him.

[PizzaDaddyo]

I only give bracelets out to girls I wanna fuck.
Maybe he means that?

[Billlewis]

I think so. I think it's very romantic for a guy to make that kind of gesture.

[LiamJHayden]

Can mean he likes you. Can mean he is nice and realizes the item means far more to someone else than it does to him. I have given away dozens of guitars due to the latter.

[jshm2]

Usually means he's trusting of you. It's up to you which way you want to develop that trust.

[Legendarylegacy13]

One time I kept my ex phone for about 3 days. And she made up a lie ro why I had it... to tell me I just liked the music... etc... etc...

[lorenzomichael]

How long have you known him? And have you ever lost, or misplaced your bracelet? If not sounds like your having feelings for a thief. I don't know maybe I'm wrong.

[mommymommymommy]

Depends, but usually it means he cares about you

I mean if he gave you a piece of shit, he's still giving you something, right?

[CallmeTheKnight]

It’s significant to him and you’re significant to him

[Matt-G]

Of course, giving a gift is a significant act, one of kindness in this case. Unless he took it tho!

[imfreeze95]

Oh yes it means he likes you and wants you to think of him when you aren’t in each other’s presence

[RingOfFire]

Quite the romantic. Doesn't sound like a friend zone gesture to me.

[Mangospacho]

It sounds like the teaser is getting teased back. 😃

[shades777]

Meaning he's going to be missing another favorite hoodie 😭