Guys, what are some subtle ways you flirt with women?

[Anonymous]

Maybe more subtle forms of physical contact besides just touching arms/back?
Or any other forms of subtle flirting to see if the woman is interested?

Guys, what are some subtle ways you flirt with women?

[Kaazsz]

This is what I do:

I “accidentally on purpose” touch her. And I have noticed, girls do this to me as well, even more than I do it to them sometimes!

Let’s say she passes something to me. Ill “accidentally” touch her fingers with mine. Next time I’m near her, usually she will do something like this as well, playing it off just as I do. Then I find a way to touch her a bit more than just the tips of my fingers. We kinda go back and forth escalating more and more until who knows what. Some girls I’ve kissed despite never even speaking a word to them cuz we just touched more and more till I felt I could just grab her and kiss her. It always works!

The thing I do most though, is to not move away when a girl “accidentally” bumps into me or touches me. Let’s say it’s college class and a hot girl is sitting next to me. She will lean into me with her arm or shoulder, doing some other task like rummaging through her bag. She acts like she doesn’t notice that she’s touching me, but I let her without moving away. Then, later, I’ll do the same to her. And it just builds up like that and we don’t even have to talk. There’s this nice little connection between us before we even speak!

[Kaazsz]

Maybe I’m just lucky. But girls are CONSTANTLY doing this shit. It may be my own “game” to use these subtle touches. But girls always do it more now that I really think about it.

At work, at a standing computer desk, I had a girl help me with a program on the pc. So I stand stock still in front, she has space to point and use the mouse or w/e. But as she’s showing me, she shifts her weight and leans into me. Her whole arm and shoulder is up against my ribs bellow my shoulder. As I said before, I won’t move. I let her do it. And what happens? She just leans into me more and more. We start smiling and giving eachother better eye contact and talking.

I dunno if other guys get this treatment. Apparently I’m attractive but I’m only recently realizing it due to a horrible childhoood which left me feeling like absolute trash. But this stuff always makes me feel happy and good. To touch and be touched and receive eye contact and warm smiles. I love women lol.

[Asker]

This is exactly what I was talking about. The guy I'm crushing on brushed fingers against mine when he passed something to me and then held onto my hand for a little after a bro handshake. And then he was standing next to me and his arm kept brushing up against me and then he leaned in a couple times. I felt like he was testing the waters with me to see if I'd pull away.

[Kaazsz]

Yup, he likes you :)

[Anonymous]

Joking with them as a way to compliment them and find out what they are like.

[Anonymous]

Ewww. Touching people without consent? Not good. Don't.

[MusicMayhem]

I don't do subtle. It makes you look weak and unsure. Better to flirt all out so she knows you like her so you either get rejected and not waste more time with her, or you set up a date before 5 other guys do.

[theharlequin]

My wit. Lighthearted teasing, sarcasm, play arguing, creative flattery

[SAVAGEDANK]

glancing over, smiling through out conversations, making her laugh as much as i can, being polite (bit not overly), teasing, flirting , trying too break touch barrier (maybe go for a hug & sneak a subtle touch) &genuinely showing interest

[StephenCF]

The more I crack unnecessary jokes with a girl, the more you’d know I like her. I’m a bit of a Chandler Bing

[No_Archons]

Oh we dont touch women, at least not in north america. This feminism shit has gone too far, you can be branded a rapist for touching a girl on the arm if u do it wrong, w/e the fk that means

[shinka1y234]

Why do you have the need to touch her? Just talk to her directly

[No_Archons]

Im going off the question that was asked, the asker referenced touching.

[shinka1y234]

Oh ok sorry

[MarketData]

I'm not really into random touching, at least I would let her initiate that. Light-hearted innuendo is my approach, she can't complain without exposing herself as as humourless bitch.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Small touch on the arm or shoulder. Eye contact while smilling. Teasing her.

[Danny_dan92]

Eye contact. Send butter flies to her stomach, and make her tingle with excitement upon doing so.

[gomalley411]

I do subtle occasionally to see if she reciprocates, but mostly stay away from it if I’m sure she likes me.

[Tomsta]

I dont be subtle generally. But itll be things like compliment the smaller things like how their sneeze is cute etc.

[55fttz]

i won't because these women now scream. false sexual harassment or rape me this is why we men should fear all women

[ryryryan]

I'm not subtle when I flirt. I'm bold and hard hitting, some say reckless

[Cristian97]

Give the girl a wink and look good for her to notice you

[BrokenEmpathy]

I don't use subtle ways. It's insecure and dishonest.

[sexaddict1]

Fuck, I have absolutely no idea! I know how to fuck a woman, but...

[Anonymous]

Doing minor things for them and escelate from there

[snasirmehdi]

Just keep looking into eyes and keep smiling..

[Texaskid1]

I show her just the tip...

[EuropeanChick]

I'm here to see the comments

[shinka1y234]

Hahaha same

[JerryPaggart]

I offer money for sex.