She wants to hold hands when she's drunk?

[Anonymous]

I like this girl I'm casually hooking up. We got drunk at a party and hooked up and when we went to bed she grabbed my hand to hold it while we slept in your typical spooning position. I rolled over a little while later to get more comfortable and she went to hold my hand again.

My guess is this mean she likes me, but what do you think? Maybe I'm just looking for positive signs where nothing exists.

[Cassie521]

She likes you enough to hold your hands while sleeping in a spooning position, so it's definitely positive. You have to also be careful on the rebound issue... some girls do that because they miss having their ex around. How are you guys when she's not drunk? Anyhow, I don't think you should base anything on a drunk behaviour...

[Asker]

Thanks for the comment. We're flirty when not drunk and I do know she likes me since she's come out and told me, but obviously she becomes a little more affectionate after a few drinks. I guess my question is more I guess my question is more do you think this means its more than a hookup for her even though she doesn't know if she wants anything more?

[DrownTheCity]

Well, you are hooking up with her. Do you know what her intentions are? does she want a relationship or does she want to mess around? girls don't usually hook up with guys that they are not attracted to in some form.

[Asker]

I know she likes me, but I know she's hesitant to start a relationship. I guess my question is more do you think this means its more than a hookup for her even though she doesn't know if she wants anything more?

[DrownTheCity]

i'm not sure. don't give up on this though. I think it's early to tell. you could ask her though to see what her true feelings are instead of waiting around wondering

[thisGUYknows]

ya you gotta pay attention to see what she's like when she's sober. is she still flirty? have you brought up that night with her since?

[DanteThomas]

She's showing you that she trust you and she is comfortable with you. This is definitely a good sign for you.