Basically, you want to hit on her hopefully get her to be intimate, right?
If you like that type of person, that means you are a similar type of character.
Birds of a feather flocks together.
Now, it seems that you look like a tough boy on the outside but lack the necessary courage just to ask. What are you afraid of to ask if she is interested in you?
A tough girl also likes a tough guy, not only physically but equally mentally.
Are you afraid of rejection by asking her directly? Well, that is something that you will have to get used to. I know, it is not good for the ego but it is about the only thing you can do if you want to succeed.
Just go ahead and be ready for rejection, just like a large number of regular guys are.
Depending on the situation, you could ask about past relationships, if she has a current SO, etc, and try to pick it up if you want to be subtle/have the time. If you dont have a lot of time to chat or dont care about subtle, just flat out politely ask - "Hey, I think you're wonderful. Are you into girls?" Or whatever fits you to say.
Personally, I wouldn't take offense although I might be a bit uncomfortable if I didn't know the girl asking me mostly because of the fact that I'm talking to a stranger... and I'd figure she was asking because she was interested, am I'm not.
You will not accomplish anything by asking women if they are straight. Unless a woman has actually acted on her attraction to other women, most will say they are straight even though they are sexually attracted to other women, and most women are.
You don't, the question itself is rude. If you would like to date her, ask for a date. If she declines let it go. She doesn't owe you a reason.
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My recommendation is you’re better off assuming they aren’t and asking them out or whatever and finding out the hard way. Otherwise you’re basically telling the future live of your life they look like a stereotypical butch and that probably won’t sit well either so...
If you're interested there's no shame in asking. Chicks like that usually are bi or lesbians I notice but once in a while she's straight. There's nothing wrong with asking as long as your nice about it. But if you don't want to ask directly you can ask other people she knows.
By hitting on them/asking them out. Their sexual orientation doesn't matter really, straight or not, you'll only be able to date the ones into you anyway... so just ask them out or flirt with them and catch the vibes.
Mention that you think she’s cute, and then ask if she’s into guys. That way she knows why you’re asking and doesn’t think you’re saying she “looks lesbian,” whatever that means.
Someone once asked me, "If I ask you a question, do you promise you'll answer it honestly?" Then asked, "Do you prefer males or females?"
I guess you could try that.
Ask her out to get a definite answer or if you want to be a bit more subtle you could ask about her relationship history to share if she’s gone out with girls or guys in the past
I don't think there's a polite way to ask. Just be direct or say something like "if you don't mind me asking, are you into guys" or "I don't mean to offend but are you into guys".
There's no way to politely ask her. However it might be possible if the topic slips into the conversation if it doesn't seem like you're actually asking her. I don't recommend it though, since I'm the last person who would know stuff like this.
Try just asking her out, doesn’t matter if she’s a lesbian Bi or straight if she’s not into you.
Looking at her social media posts may ebe a good way to learn without confrontation
Ask them out on a date. That gets to the bottom of it.
If she dresses like a dude it’s a safe bet she’s gay as Ellen
Just asking straight out would probably be easiest or ask about past boyfriends or something to get on the subject
Flirt and if she reciprocates ask her out.
That’s smoother then interrogation.
You can ask her if she has a boyfriend, that way you’d know. 😁
Ask if you can put your dingle in her donghole, if she says she only likes double dongholes then she's gay.
flirt with her. tell her how manly girls really turn you on. if she is straight she will shy away if not she will reply positively
Just go for it and let them correct you if there's a problem.
Helicocktering is a good technique, just spin your dick around in a circle as fast as possible.. no straight girl can resist a well helicockterd dick
Ask her is she has a boyfriend. Shell correct you with "girlfriend" if she's a dyke
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