How do I attract men on social media? (Page 3)
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Be chatty and funny. But try to kerb the sex side. Tease and flirt be a little naughty...
Men, at least I, typically only get annoyed by women who come on to us on social media.
Really, you're the first one that has said that.
Well then, at least I.
Don't know, I attract without doing anything so I would say just be honest and show your personality that should work.
The problem with social media is you don't know if that person is or a scam artist. You can always hmu im available. Lol
No there are ways to tell if a person is legit.
Im all ears. Cause I'd like to know who the legit people are.
If they have comments from friends and/or family. If they are taggad in other peoples pictures, and if they have picture with other people where they are tagged as well. If they occasionally post to insta story, of themselves or with others. Usually the guys I've accepted live around my area so they is often someone in they're follows or circle that I know of. Also if I do start talking to someone I do look them up on facebook, just to see if they have one. Usually if someones faking on instagram they won't have a facebook account which they created more than let's say 4 years ago.
Good to know
Well it sounds like you are beautiful. So just put a pic out do your profile classey and let nature take its course
Try using hashtags as DM or Dmme or letstalk or talktome in your feed. But remember keep up self respect while talking.
Social media iş a place to to fake yourself
People are real at the real life
True. But I try to keep it as real as I can.
Men start out attracted to women. There is only information that can end that attraction.
Find an Indian they will automatically attracts towards you lol
explain what you mean please
Depends on in what way you want them to get attracted to you.
In a let's get to know each other type of way.
You need to begin to talk with the one that appears to be interesting for you.
Keep the conversation going in a interesting way for the other one, ask about thing's, ask personal thing's on what he have said and answered, especially about thing's he appears to be extra eager about when you talk to the person, the more personal the questions become the deeper it becomes the deeper connection get created.
Also own the silence that many begins to feel awkward, don't feel awkward it is contagious on a subconscious level.
Be thrilled about what you ask about even be interested to know. let him ask and do the same process with you, don't be irritated or annoyed.
Doesn't make up thing's to fitt in as the perfect one.
Be honest.
Don't be afraid of answering wrong or negative or for that matter disagreeing dislikes. they are actually a positive thing for building deep connection with feelings.
Avoid to talk about politics.
in the beginning try to avoid to talk about exes that thing's are unfair you have been been treated bad, gotten in contact with uncomfortable people gotten dick pics and so on or any other poor you.
Try to avoid to turn it sexual sexting and so on in the beginning. it gives for the majority a subconscious signal that you only are after sex and playing around, not interested in anything serious. (it tends to create sex dynamic relationship)
When you don't have more time to talk say it and why, also that you would like to continue what you two was doing next time.
You have to do that to create real trustworthiness, also because majority of female's use the same approach without saying they would like to continue what you two was doing to blow them off.
If you don't want to continue with someone just say it directly to that person without any exuses or painting up a whole story.
Just say you two are a mismatch and which him/her good luck with next one what he/she are after.
If that person have problems with rejection just take it with a pinch of salt and don't reply. some has problems with it and react in funny ways without really meaning what they did say if they are mean.
You have to take initiative to start a conversation.
Don't try to prove you are something. you automatically prove yourself for some by being yourself and showing interest even if that is to take initiative, even taking a lot of it all the time even if the other one doesn't take first initiative with things or at all in the beginning un till you two have the kind of relationship you are after no matter if it's just friends or more. (sometimes do we need to lead it and make thing's happen)
Thats really good advice thank you.
Social media? Just show some boob and your dm will be full at all times.
Real life? Well, Mr. Right will come eventually. Just do you.
Maybe you are too beautiful to be of some randoms's friend click.
What do you mean? I have a pretty normal profile pic, I don’t put one that’s too attractive
Don't wait for guys to come to you. Start to message people.
I don’t mind sending a friend request but I do think the guy should be the one to message first. If it were a social setting, let’s say dinner party at a friends place I would not mind making the first move.
Well if you think guys goota message you first you will probably never get what you want. See with me I rarely do cuz I get accused of being a toxic male and that I'm only talk to a girl to get nudes or something like you don't even know me y assume these things because I'm male. I'm a good guy looking for a relationship
"I do think the guy should be the one to message first."
Why? Does it have any benefits for you? What is the difference between the social setting and an online message?
@TavionRiley I wouldn’t mind if it weren’t for the fact that I know some guys see you as a “slut” if you do that. Even worse is that some guys end up telling others and now you’re suddenly that girl that slides into guys dm’s. This is the type of culture that exists where I live.
Well that's fucked up but if you were to message. Me all of sudden I will take it with human intent. Because it's the right thing to do
It doesn’t benefit me at all, it’s mostly because a lot of guys label you as a “slut” if you do that. And I can’t know which one won't. Last time I did it it didn’t end well.
@TavionRiley It really is. Well you’re not a sexist. Unfortunately sexism and slut shaming is still very much real even in countries that to the outside world is progressive and modern.
Yea it's sad
Don't feel bad i've tried so many apps, an little to no luck, and i use to model
Tell them about your life and hobbies and I'm sure over 80% of them will be interested if it is common enough.
Good idea. I could post pictures of me actually doing things I enjoy.
it's really not hard for ladies to find a guy. just exist and you'll get as many as you want.
Not true.
do you honestly think it's as hard as it is for us?
It's easier for you because the social norm is that a man approaches a woman.
what... you makes absolutely no sense. the shit we have to go through rejections, shit attitude and whatnot just to ask you out is definitely not easy.
Talk about stuff you like and your views.
Make your asshole stink free and let men to sniff that lol hhhh
Inbox them. Don't wait for them to dm
questions like this get me interested
Haha good one
hmu I dare you