How do I attract men on social media? (Page 4)

Anonymous · 2019-08-16T16:31:41Z

I know it's better to meet men in real life. But the type of places where men usually approach a woman, bar or club, are looking for a hookup. And the ones that approach you randomly out in the streets are usually sleezes (disrespectful, bad boy types). But from my experience it's easier to get their vibes and intentions when you do it via social media. First of all you can get an idea of what type of person they are from their feed. And you will be texting and having conversations. A guy looking for a hookup will usually not have serious mature conversations. And if he is it will eventually come out. Like a true example is when a guy asked me out after texting for a while, he said he would book a hotel room. But right now, my friend request's and my dm:s are totally empty. I don't get it honestly. My profile picture is cute, at lest I think so. But I'm not a "insta-baddie". But I know I look good, maybe not a 10/10 but attractive enough. So guys what about a girl makes you request a follow or message her?

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varatharaj1996 Follow
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Hii shall we make a chat

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- Asker
  
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  Hi you're too young and live too far away.
  
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- varatharaj1996
  
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  It's any problem in this two?
  
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- varatharaj1996
  
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  Friendship can make we close
  
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Twenty2 Follow
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What's your Instagram?

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- Asker
  
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  I don’t want to share that publicly. Is it because you want to see my profile pic?
  
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- Twenty2
  
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  Yup! You can text me privately.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Sent you a message
  
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- Twenty2
  
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  Thanks for blocking me!
  
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- Asker
  
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  You’re welcome.
  
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- Twenty2
  
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  I am glad I am not worrying about attracting anyone.
  
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JKingOff Follow
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Selfie, glorious nude selfies!!!

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Anonymous
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Be a beautiful white woman.

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- Asker
  
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  Omg why white?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  I meant average to beautiful white woman. Why white? I don't know but that's how it is.
  
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- Flamdring
  
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  Nah, you can be of any colour.
  
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- Asker
  
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  @Flamdring I agree
  
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- Flamdring
  
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  @Asker, glad to hear! 😊 There is so much diversity and tastes are so different that it is impossible to say which type of women is the most attractive one.
  
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- Asker
  
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  @Flamdring Fully agree. Same goes for men, any ethnicity can be attractive.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  We need be realistic
  
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- Flamdring
  
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  We are realistic. White population is the minority in the world and is not seen as the most beautiful by the vast majority of people on the planet. Even among white men and women tastes differ so much that one will tell you they love milky-white skin and blonde hair while their friend will say their favourites are East Asians, another one will mention they love dark-skinned Africans, and someone will say they do not care about skin colour or ethnicity, they are looking for a specific personality.
  
  This is the reality.
  
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- Asker
  
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  @Flamdring It is for sure. I prefer non white men, it's not that I don't think they look good, but more that they tend to exotifie me, even though I'm white-passing
  
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- Flamdring
  
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  @Asker, it is understandable and it is your own preference. You do not have to like white men if you do not want to. There is no golden rule. 😊
  
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FrenchyRomain Follow
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step 1 : don't be anonymous

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yatharthgupta112 Follow
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Attitude being reflected out of her profile.

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- Asker
  
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  In what way. Usually girls have a quote or a full on bio which I personally think is a bit too much.
  
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- yatharthgupta112
  
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  In the way being genuine, sweet, seems to be calm and have have good sense of humour (memes)
  
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- yatharthgupta112
  
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  by the way i would rather say just be yourself. That's will attract the person in the best way.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Yes true. I just don't meet enough new people in real life.
  
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- yatharthgupta112
  
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  Then go out and meet new people. It will be a lot more fun.
  
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Bmp55 Follow
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Log on

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Slim57 Follow
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Make an account, put up a picture, there.

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8164634040 Follow
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I don't know I stuck at it

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N17RV Follow
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Be a girl

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Anonymous
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Be naked. That is how you meet them

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Anonymous
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Most girls dont use dm anyway

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Anonymous
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Be attractive

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- Asker
  
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  Physically you mean? I am.
  
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owens97 Follow
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just be alive

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Fuentes Follow
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Ru from Cali?

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- Asker
  
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  No, I live in Europe.
  
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- Fuentes
  
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  Wanna smash?
  
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- Asker
  
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  So what if I say yes, would you actually cross continents to “smash”.
  
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- Fuentes
  
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  Just PM me
  
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iFarted Follow
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Umm hii?

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AtramentalIvory Follow
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Pornography.

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