Is it wrong for a commited person to have pictures on social media?

[Anonymous]

So, we've been in a relationship for ten months. It's pretty serious. I'm not an avid social media user, nor is he. However, I post my artwork and pets on Instagram. For that, I have always had a profile picture. As most people know Instagram profile pictures are very tiny, so the idea that I shouldn't be doing it never came to my head. And my photo isn't anything obscene, it's just my face.

A few days ago while fighting he told me all of a sudden that he can never think of me as a worthy woman since I have a profile picture on Instagram to attract random men. This made me feel extremely humiliated. He also told me that it's a shame that I have still kept my own photo on Instagram after being in a relationship and it is making him question my commitment. For context, he has his own profile picture too.

It's my first relationship. Is he insecure or I'm ignorant?

[Lionman95]

I would say no as long as they are not intimate pics but pics that were made in daily situations. I think you´re guy is insecure because just showing your face doesn´t seem attraction seeking to me.

[pregananant]

Mediocre men really all have a one track mind. This guy seems like a huge red flag. The fact that something this small upsets him does not bode well for a relationship. He is clearly not ready for a relationship.

[spartan55]

You're dipshit boyfriend watches too much Andrew Tate.

[JustinTheGreat]

Dude sounds like a controlling weirdo…I’d consider breaking it off cause this sounds like it’s just the beginning of toxic behavior from him

[HelpfulWoman]

thats a DROP him and RUN.

[In_Trance]

depends what kind of picture it is