Guys, why is he staring at me like he’s jealous when I talk to other guys? Why care when he has a girlfriend now?

[Anonymous]

We Were never together but he liked me and wanted us to be but i didn’t really feel the same, and there was a lot of drama because we work together..
and still now when he has a girlfriend he can’t seem to act normal twords me..
what could he be thinking?

[JustSomeGuy11]

Probably because he is jealous, sounds like he's still protective over you or still likes you to some degree. Having a girlfriend wouldn't necessarily change that.

[Asker]

I always thought that he didn’t like me for real, but does this kind of comfirm that he did? Cause why else be jealous now when he has a girl?

[JustSomeGuy11]

I would say so yes.

With a girlfriend I think is more about the 'what if'/'could have been me' scenario or the 'he had better back off'/'he's not good enough' scenarios. I don't know bit tough to figure out why he would care without knowing your history together.

[Asker]

Well i kind of crushed his ego.. and at times he was so mad at me but then he always forgave me, and then he got mad again for the smalest things and on it went.

[MrCommodore]

It sounds like jealousy or territorial pissings.

Is he likes this when you talk with all guys or only when you talk with one or two specific guys?

[Asker]

Usually with all guys, but mostly with this one guy that work with us me and him have a special connection and get along very well and he know him outside of work.

[MrCommodore]

Does this one guy with whom you have a special connection, flirt with you in front of your jealous colleague?

These two guys are friends outside of work?

[Asker]

Yes he does, and yeah they knew eachother before we all worked together but the do not hang out much outside of work

[Asker]

But how come he’s acting jealous when he moved on and has this new girl now? He even put out on fb for everyone to see that they are in a relationship

[MrCommodore]

Because many guys want every girl to themselves, he wants his girlfriend and he wants you.

[Asker]

But if he want me and like me why not at least be friendly and talk like normal? He’s acting super weird twoards me

[Asker]

Like he doesn’t care if we talk or not

[MrCommodore]

Are you currently single? I ask, as I seen jealous guys act like this when a girl they liked started dating somebody. But it could be because the other guy and you have a connection.

Do you work with them both?

[Asker]

Yeah im single, he always been very jealous about me and this guy, but since he ”moved on” and has a serious girlfriend now i thought he would stop being jealous... yeah we all work together.
But so you think he still likes me or have feelings for me even tho he has a girlfriend?

[MrCommodore]

Yes, I think he does, but do be cautious. It could also be more to do with his possessive nature, rather than him simply having feelings.

Its clear he is possessive of you, in that he doesn't want to see you with another guy.

[Asker]

I understand what you are saying, but i don’t get why he would even care to be possessive of me when he has a girlfriend.. like why even care? What could be the reason behind that?

[MrCommodore]

Well maybe he is in love with you, and no other girl he is with can compete with you.

[Asker]

Haha that would be nice but i highly doubt that, we fought all the time and we barley knew eachother, he always told me that i was playing mind games with him, i wasn’t i was just not sure about how i felt cause he wanted everything to happen so fast..
This new girl he only been dating for 3 months and after 2 months he had a braclet with her name, 1 month in on dating her he actually kissed me and told me that he was only sleepig with her and he didn’t want anything serious with her

[MrCommodore]

Ok, that bracelet seems very full on by him.

If he is genuinely crazy about you and not her, why is he still with her?

Be cautious, to me it seems he wants to play you both.

[Asker]

Im not saying that he’s crazy about me lol
He don’t trust me cause he thinks that im not serious that i’ve been playing him and we got nowhere.
I don’t really know, but so you don’t think he’s very serious about his girlfriend either?
And what do you mean about the braclet?

[MrCommodore]

No, if he was serious about her, he would not behave this way with you.

I meant it's full on to have a bracelet with her name engraved on it, after just 2 or 3 months. Usually the first 6 months is about getting to know each other and hanging out.

[rishisethi3]

He likes you and he is trying to you to jealous by playing with that girl who is his girlfriend and he did not love her and even like her. He is stubborn towards you , you can not do anything except ignoring and ignoring, he should understand himself.