Touching hands?

[Anonymous]

Hi so was really interested in female opinion. Would you touch a guys hands if u didn’t like him? Or you weren’t attracted to him? Barring a handshake obviously or anything necessary. I ask cause my coworker that I’ve known for a couple months has started grabbing my hand with interlock fingers for a few seconds and squeezing before letting go. She’ll also touch my hand unecessarily when I hand her things. She flirts in other ways but I’m mostly concerned with the touching hands cause it feels intimate but I think she just sees me as a friend... 🤷‍♂️

[TooDrunk4Sex]

i really think u guys should take it easy on da analysis and go harder on the talking and charming and asking out part

[TooDrunk4Sex]

correct me im wrong but im thinking da reason u wanna know this is to boost ur confidence in doing something. just do something already. there are people like me who dont read so much into this stuff and just talk 2 the girl longer, get her laughing, and ask her out. u should be doing that instead of analyzing the minutia of a handshake. u will always be watching us date ur dream girl if u spend 2 much time analyzing dis stuff

[Asker]

I think ur right. I am going to ask her out anyway but I am also interested in knowing if a woman will touch my hands if she’s not interested. Appreciate the motivation and I do agree

[TooDrunk4Sex]

i want to give u da encouragement but its so hung up on minutia, u know. if u can't tell where you are in a hand of poker its better to bet. think of what u gotta do. obv u like her. so muster up that bet. unlike poker u dont actually lose money if ur wrong

[Asker]

I lake that last line. True nothing to lose only to regret

[TooDrunk4Sex]

now just 2 be on safe side dont write love letter or confess big feelings or nething like that. u can just ask her out. make goal to get her to smile and laugh and spend more time with u, just the two of u. babysteps, u know. just go for that first one. but dont obsess over what things mean. focus on what u gotta do. fail or succeed, its better to fail doing sumthing than failing to do it and be left guessing over what might have been