What do you usually do when you've enjoy flirting with someone but finally see how they look and lose interest?

Question

This can be either flirting with an anon online or when you saw only a pic but then meet them in person and realize they showed you an old pic of themselves. #Cockfished

Ghost em

Try to keep liking them for more than their looks

Tell them you've lost interest

Make up an excuse like you've met someone else

Say you're getting back with your ex

Fake your death

Confront them for not looking the same/like they described

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Answer 1

Jamie05rhs | 199 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Guru

I'm pretty sure a person's DNA doesn't change. Whatever they looked like before they can look like again (unless they lost their hair or something like that.)

Asker

20 d
I dont even think its the same person tbh
Jamie05rhs

20 d
Hmm. What are the differences between the two photos?
Asker

20 d
The face looks different. He claims he aged up but the nose and eyebrow shape looks diff. Thats rare
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Jamie05rhs

20 d
Interesting.
Asker

20 d
Yea i feel cockfished for real
Jamie05rhs

20 d
So did you meet this person IRL?
Asker

20 d
yes He doesn't look like the pic i was sent
Jamie05rhs

20 d
Oh, okay. He made a mistake there. He should have sent an updated photo before meeting.
Asker

20 d
No the nose shape and eyebrows look diff. I dont think its the same guy at all. I think he sent a pic of his sibling
Jamie05rhs

20 d
I can see myself doing that. Sending the "best" photo first, so that they see your potential. And then sending the "honest" current state" "reality" photo later on just as a disclaimer. So they can see both sides of the spectrum. (Like, "Okay, so he falls somewhere between x and y. Good to know.)
Jamie05rhs

20 d
Oh, he sent a picture of someone else? Then that's fraud.
Asker

20 d
I can't tell. He claims its a younger him but looks diff
Jamie05rhs

20 d
Okay. Well, some people do change in appearance as they age. It's a natural thing.
Asker

20 d
Nose shape does not change unless broken
Jamie05rhs

19 d
Oh. Well, I got punched in the nose once. Not sure if it was broken or not. (I don't think so, though.)

Answer 2

Asker

I dont even think its the same person tbh

Answer 3

Jamie05rhs

Hmm. What are the differences between the two photos?

Answer 4

Asker

The face looks different. He claims he aged up but the nose and eyebrow shape looks diff. Thats rare

Answer 5

Jamie05rhs

Interesting.

Answer 6

Asker

Yea i feel cockfished for real

Answer 7

Jamie05rhs

So did you meet this person IRL?

Answer 8

Asker

yes He doesn't look like the pic i was sent

Answer 9

Jamie05rhs

Oh, okay. He made a mistake there. He should have sent an updated photo before meeting.

Answer 10

Asker

No the nose shape and eyebrows look diff. I dont think its the same guy at all. I think he sent a pic of his sibling

Answer 11

Jamie05rhs

I can see myself doing that. Sending the "best" photo first, so that they see your potential. And then sending the "honest" current state" "reality" photo later on just as a disclaimer. So they can see both sides of the spectrum. (Like, "Okay, so he falls somewhere between x and y. Good to know.)

Answer 12

Jamie05rhs

Oh, he sent a picture of someone else? Then that's fraud.

Answer 13

Asker

I can't tell. He claims its a younger him but looks diff

Answer 14

Jamie05rhs

Okay. Well, some people do change in appearance as they age. It's a natural thing.

Answer 15

Asker

Nose shape does not change unless broken

Answer 16

Jamie05rhs

Oh. Well, I got punched in the nose once. Not sure if it was broken or not. (I don't think so, though.)

Answer 17

Gedaria | 506 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Master

With flirting, you can only go so far.
If they are dating or married. There will be a cut off point.
It's just having a , is flirting, that can. go further. If not just move on...

Asker

21 d
I knew better not to fall for him before having seen how he looked. But i really liked him
Gedaria

21 d
That is what I said, I've had some dates that started just on having a laugh and a bit of flirting...

Answer 18

Asker

I knew better not to fall for him before having seen how he looked. But i really liked him

Answer 19

Gedaria

That is what I said, I've had some dates that started just on having a laugh and a bit of flirting...

Answer 20

MannMitAntworten | 190 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Guru

This is a large reason why I prefer meeting people in person versus online. Zero mystery.

Asker

21 d
Yea 🙈
MannMitAntworten

21 d
Definitely.

Answer 21

Asker

Yea 🙈

Answer 22

MannMitAntworten

Definitely.

Answer 23

Anonymous

Maybe he has put on some lbs due to stress. Ask him if that was really him in the pics. If it was and you really like him talk to him about working out. y'all could start going to the gym together. Dont just stop talking tho

Asker

15 d
His nose and eyebrow shape was different. Extremely rare for that to differ
Opinion Owner

15 d
Well i recently gained a lot of weight and I can tell you everything changes when you get bigger. Also has he has any major surgeries that stuff effects you a lot too.
Asker

15 d
haven't asked
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Opinion Owner

15 d
Well ask!! If y'all were flirting there was obviously something there Don't let something good slip away just because he doesn't look the same especially if it's just his weight. Guys always shape up when the time is right trust me he probably got fat on some depressed shit
Asker

15 d
He was depressed at a point. But im telling you the face looks like a totally different guy. Like maybe siblings but not the same guy
Opinion Owner

15 d
I don't think he would give a picture of his siblings because you would eventually see them. Do you follow him on social media? Maybe try adding his insta to see if it's the same guy. Also beards do change guys looks
Opinion Owner

15 d
Another thing did you actually look at face up close or just seen from a far and made your decision
Asker

15 d
Neither of us have social media
Opinion Owner

15 d
He might have been really into himself before but he let it go. I know i quit getting my eyebrows and hair done due to covid. You probably just seen him with a mask on and he looks different.

Answer 24

Asker

His nose and eyebrow shape was different. Extremely rare for that to differ

Answer 25

Opinion Owner

Well i recently gained a lot of weight and I can tell you everything changes when you get bigger. Also has he has any major surgeries that stuff effects you a lot too.

Answer 26

Asker

haven't asked

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

Well ask!! If y'all were flirting there was obviously something there Don't let something good slip away just because he doesn't look the same especially if it's just his weight. Guys always shape up when the time is right trust me he probably got fat on some depressed shit

Answer 28

Asker

He was depressed at a point. But im telling you the face looks like a totally different guy. Like maybe siblings but not the same guy

Answer 29

Opinion Owner

I don't think he would give a picture of his siblings because you would eventually see them. Do you follow him on social media? Maybe try adding his insta to see if it's the same guy. Also beards do change guys looks

Answer 30

Opinion Owner

Another thing did you actually look at face up close or just seen from a far and made your decision

Answer 31

Asker

Neither of us have social media

Answer 32

Opinion Owner

He might have been really into himself before but he let it go. I know i quit getting my eyebrows and hair done due to covid. You probably just seen him with a mask on and he looks different.

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