What do you usually do when you've enjoy flirting with someone but finally see how they look and lose interest?

[Anonymous]

This can be either flirting with an anon online or when you saw only a pic but then meet them in person and realize they showed you an old pic of themselves. #Cockfished

Ghost em

Try to keep liking them for more than their looks

Tell them you've lost interest

Make up an excuse like you've met someone else

Say you're getting back with your ex

Fake your death

Confront them for not looking the same/like they described

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm pretty sure a person's DNA doesn't change. Whatever they looked like before they can look like again (unless they lost their hair or something like that.)

[Asker]

I dont even think its the same person tbh

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. What are the differences between the two photos?

[Asker]

The face looks different. He claims he aged up but the nose and eyebrow shape looks diff. Thats rare

[Jamie05rhs]

Interesting.

[Asker]

Yea i feel cockfished for real

[Jamie05rhs]

So did you meet this person IRL?

[Asker]

yes He doesn't look like the pic i was sent

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, okay. He made a mistake there. He should have sent an updated photo before meeting.

[Asker]

No the nose shape and eyebrows look diff. I dont think its the same guy at all. I think he sent a pic of his sibling

[Jamie05rhs]

I can see myself doing that. Sending the "best" photo first, so that they see your potential. And then sending the "honest" current state" "reality" photo later on just as a disclaimer. So they can see both sides of the spectrum. (Like, "Okay, so he falls somewhere between x and y. Good to know.)

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, he sent a picture of someone else? Then that's fraud.

[Asker]

I can't tell. He claims its a younger him but looks diff

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. Well, some people do change in appearance as they age. It's a natural thing.

[Asker]

Nose shape does not change unless broken

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh. Well, I got punched in the nose once. Not sure if it was broken or not. (I don't think so, though.)

[Gedaria]

With flirting, you can only go so far.
If they are dating or married. There will be a cut off point.
It's just having a , is flirting, that can. go further. If not just move on...

[Asker]

I knew better not to fall for him before having seen how he looked. But i really liked him

[Gedaria]

That is what I said, I've had some dates that started just on having a laugh and a bit of flirting...

[MannMitAntworten]

This is a large reason why I prefer meeting people in person versus online. Zero mystery.

[Asker]

Yea 🙈

[MannMitAntworten]

Definitely.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he has put on some lbs due to stress. Ask him if that was really him in the pics. If it was and you really like him talk to him about working out. y'all could start going to the gym together. Dont just stop talking tho

[Asker]

His nose and eyebrow shape was different. Extremely rare for that to differ

[Opinion Owner]

Well i recently gained a lot of weight and I can tell you everything changes when you get bigger. Also has he has any major surgeries that stuff effects you a lot too.

[Asker]

haven't asked

[Opinion Owner]

Well ask!! If y'all were flirting there was obviously something there Don't let something good slip away just because he doesn't look the same especially if it's just his weight. Guys always shape up when the time is right trust me he probably got fat on some depressed shit

[Asker]

He was depressed at a point. But im telling you the face looks like a totally different guy. Like maybe siblings but not the same guy

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think he would give a picture of his siblings because you would eventually see them. Do you follow him on social media? Maybe try adding his insta to see if it's the same guy. Also beards do change guys looks

[Opinion Owner]

Another thing did you actually look at face up close or just seen from a far and made your decision

[Asker]

Neither of us have social media

[Opinion Owner]

He might have been really into himself before but he let it go. I know i quit getting my eyebrows and hair done due to covid. You probably just seen him with a mask on and he looks different.