Flirting Does playing hard to get ACTUALLY work? (Page 3) Anonymous (18-24) Follow FacebookTwitterWhatsApp 12 Does playing hard to get ACTUALLY work? Post Opinion Like Share Follow 3 likes
slatyb Follow Master Age: 50 , mho 30% +1 y 981 opinions shared on Flirting topic. Maybe with some people. More mature people will just accept that "No" means "No". 0 0 Reply
nice-girl Follow Yoda Age: 30 , mho 40% +1 y Yes it does, but more than that being a coquette playing hot and cold. 0 0 Reply
Anonymous (25-29) +1 y Yeah right. Let me know when it ever worked for real. I'm talking about more than just one night sex or friends with benefits. 2 0 Reply
TacosRAwesome Follow Master Age: 34 +1 y 555 opinions shared on Flirting topic. Only with dense idiots who don't get the fact that you're never available and yet always online means you don't want them. 0 0 Reply
dragoblack Follow Yoda Age: 31 +1 y Only works if both are aware its a game. Otherwise it makes the guy look like he is trying to force consent, which looks super bad. If you say "no" most will take it as such 0 1 Reply Llinyth +1 y If you're both aware it's still pointless because all you're in for is the short "game" vs life together Reply
ChiPaPa Follow Guru Age: 33 +1 y Honestly, if someone was doing that to me, I would assume they don't like me and move on from my intensions to date them. 0 0 Reply
Nick473 Follow Xper 6 Age: 29 +1 y No it shows how little she actually cares about his feelings and isn't ready for a legit relationship 1 0 Reply
Jintendo18 Follow Xper 5 Age: 37 +1 y Whoever is playing hard to get doesn’t like you enough to begin with, so better to move on to the next person. 0 0 Reply
Anonymous (25-29) +1 y No, and it’s pretty annoying and a complete waste of time. If you want to play childish games you’re clearly not my type. 1 0 Reply
Anonymous (25-29) +1 y No. The only thing it works at is convincing guys that either a woman isn't interested in him or she is a manipulator, which is worse. 2 0 Reply
Riddler1412 Follow Yoda Age: 30 +1 y Works sometimes, if you're a young teen. Otherwise no. 0 0 Reply
Stevefiveo Follow Yoda Age: 53 +1 y I'll will just think she is not interested and move on to someone else. 1 0 Reply
u Iron_Man Follow Master Age: 44 +1 y 2.9K opinions shared on Flirting topic. It doesn’t work on me it’s a turn off but sometimes it works On others 0 0 Reply
doctorwow Follow Xper 3 Age: 28 +1 y Not for me personally. I'm to lazy to be chasing anyone 0 0 Reply
Wise4myage Follow Master Age: 22 +1 y 1.4K opinions shared on Flirting topic. I wouldn't have the patience for it, but I hear its effective. 0 0 Reply
Anonymous (36-45) +1 y Not so far as I can tell. Being ATTRACTIVE works. So your time and effort are better spent becoming as hot as possible. 0 0 Reply
shortster Follow Master Age: 40 +1 y Not with me, if I think that you might be uninterested I typically move on. 0 0 Reply
cookiecrusher Follow Xper 6 Age: 34 +1 y As a guy yes, it works on women doing the chasing.As a guy chasing women, not so much. 0 0 Reply
Paul09 Follow Yoda Age: 42 +1 y Maybe if you high schoolers. In the adult world, playing games is ridiculous. 0 0 Reply
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Maybe with some people. More mature people will just accept that "No" means "No".
Yes it does, but more than that being a coquette playing hot and cold.
Yeah right. Let me know when it ever worked for real. I'm talking about more than just one night sex or friends with benefits.
Only with dense idiots who don't get the fact that you're never available and yet always online means you don't want them.
Only works if both are aware its a game. Otherwise it makes the guy look like he is trying to force consent, which looks super bad. If you say "no" most will take it as such
If you're both aware it's still pointless because all you're in for is the short "game" vs life together
Honestly, if someone was doing that to me, I would assume they don't like me and move on from my intensions to date them.
No it shows how little she actually cares about his feelings and isn't ready for a legit relationship
Whoever is playing hard to get doesn’t like you enough to begin with, so better to move on to the next person.
No, and it’s pretty annoying and a complete waste of time. If you want to play childish games you’re clearly not my type.
No. The only thing it works at is convincing guys that either a woman isn't interested in him or she is a manipulator, which is worse.
Works sometimes, if you're a young teen. Otherwise no.
I'll will just think she is not interested and move on to someone else.
It doesn’t work on me it’s a turn off but sometimes it works On others
Not for me personally. I'm to lazy to be chasing anyone
I wouldn't have the patience for it, but I hear its effective.
Not so far as I can tell. Being ATTRACTIVE works. So your time and effort are better spent becoming as hot as possible.
No, mature people don't bother with silly games.
Not with me, if I think that you might be uninterested I typically move on.
As a guy yes, it works on women doing the chasing.
As a guy chasing women, not so much.
Maybe if you high schoolers. In the adult world, playing games is ridiculous.