Is it normal for a girl to approach a guy?

[Jazz_92]

Is it normal for a girl to approach a guy?Do girls do that? Aren't we the ones that are supposed to play this role?If you think its normal 4 a girl to approach a guy, then by first impression do I seem approachable? or simply a guy not worth approaching xD

[Anonymous]

Women are increasingly approaching guys now, I assume we are just now understanding that to get what we want we have to go after it, and learning that you guys are sometimes clueless when reading signs. The guy just has to meet us halfway :D

I am very traditional and yeah I think men should, but the times are changing :/ But you do you ya know like that girl go to that girl :D

Um you are very cute, and that would kinda make me more nervous, but if you look friendly and open I would approachable. Like, it would help if you see me coming up towards you and you look at me and smile I would be dancing inside singing, "I did it!" lol and feel more confident and comfortable with myself.

[Jazz_92]

i smile at everyone, but no one has approached me. :P

[heatherlu]

Yeah, girls will approach guys, but I think, generally - unlike a lot of guys they won't just see a cute guy some where and go up to him. Usually they'll only approach if she thinks he might be interested - at least this is the case with girls I know.

So if a guys throw a girl a smile, or has appeared to be looking at her a lot and shown some interest just not actively approached her, she'll maybe approach him.

If not - then they probably won't. But hey, I can't speak for all women; I'm sure there are some who are quite aggressive in their approach and will walk up to any guy they like the look of - but I don't think that's all that common in women.

[selfishstars]

Well, traditionally, men tended to be the ones that approached/pursued women. This is changing, but there are still women who hold to the traditional view that it is the male's role to approach them. Some women will approach guys, some won't. There's nothing wrong with women approaching guys and there's no reason why they shouldn't, but I'm not sure exactly how common it is.

[JonDHawk]

It's not normal most girl will wait for the guy to make the first move. I say it needs to happen more often. I'd love it if a girl approached me.

[Anonymous]

It is kind of like a UFO sighting to me. I've never seen it, but I hear about it on the internet.

[lecavlier]

wow haha

[Freetobe007]

I do it all the time. Most of the time I don't even think about it lol It's not like I'm going up to him like "Give me your number! I'm gonna make you mine!" lol or anything like that. But if I have an interest in him, I'l pursue it then back off and give him the chance to pursue me or see what he wants to do if he even wants to do anything. Especially because I know some guys are very shy and insecure just like us girls.

[Skeptic19]

i can confirm, im a shy guy

[JenniferBrown]

I think it's normal for a girl to approach a guy. There is nothing bad with that. I approached several guys myself, and it was quite fun experience. :)

[Jazz_92]

how did you approached them :P

[yagurlnira768]

Not Exactly...Not many girls do it...but some do...i guess majority don't. But when a girl does..its either because she really knows and likes him...or she is just a player...or trying to do what the guy couldn't lol.

[Seannn]

they should do it more here in holland, god I hate taking the initiative

[Anonymous]

Normal? No

But some girls do it and good for them. but the majority does not

[IN5AN1TY]

Yes, its just too rare, it needs to happen more often...for a nice change.

[Dom163]

I think it is becoming more commonplace so it's in the process of becoming normal

[moviedude714]

not really, because if it was normal more girls would be doing it, but I'm all for girls approaching guys

[defytraditiongirl]

not really, but when it does happen it is very rare

[Anonymous]

i think your worth it and yes it is normal.!.. I've just never done it and don't plan on it ima really shy person.

[Anonymous]

If you have ever been to a club, you'll notice that girls are much much much more aggressive than guys

[SnackG]

I've been to a club and didn't see that.

[Jazz_92]

lol I agree with SnakG

[Opinion Owner]

Really? I go to bars every once in a while and I always see girls going after the guys. And I quite admire them for that. Maybe I just live in a really aggressive city

[SnackG]

I'm moving. What city? lol

[Opinion Owner]

come to DC :D

[moviedude714]

are you dead serious? are you being blatantly honest?

[SnackG]

Of course it is. It's just rare.

[frustratedchump06]

are you against girls approachin guys?

[Jazz_92]

lol ofcourse no

[frustratedchump06]

good to hear

[Anonymous]

Yeah, it's normal.