He flirts with everyone and ignores me?

[Anonymous]

There is this guy I fancy a lot however he is very flirty and suggestive with other girls. A friend of mine told me she thought he liked me however I'm not one of the girls he flirts with. Infact I don't really speak to him, sometimes he looks at me and that but overall he's very off with me. He seems a bit uncomfortable around me tbh, and up close never used to look at me directly. These are all negative signals though aren't they?

There is this one girl who he is very suggestive with and I'm concinved he likes her in that way. However part of me thinks that you wouldn't act that way or be that comfortable around someone you fancy but on the other hand like I said I think he fancies her. This girl does have a bit of a repuatation and so he might just be seeing what he can get out of her do you think?

Do you think he does like this girl and I shoud give on him?

Thanks

xxx

[XRabbitHeartX]

Firstly, why do you want a guy who is so flirty with a lot of girls? I also used to like guys like that but then I realized how on earth would I ever be able to trust a guy like that. I know that's maybe judgmental as I don't know this guy but from what you explain he sounds's kinda player to me. Especially that he likes girls because he wants to get something outta them. That's not very good behavior and I know us girls sometimes have a thing for the bad boys but be really careful. Those guys mess you up for a long time, at least from personal experience. Think this through.

Secondly if you are getting vibes that he's not into you then I would take that as a sign from karma and leave things here while you're not completely all in. Let him have his fun this girl and tell yourself one day you'll get a decent guy who will treat you much better.

[Kaizun]

I can see how he is because that's what I feel! I can look at her talk to her but I can't seem to start a good conversation with her its always a frozen blurr. I also think I make here uncomfortable too! But the feeling is still there the others see this and I'm like damn how can I break this barrier? But anyway back to you! He does fancy you don't believe in the negative signs its only because you think there is! so take it slowly and start to convers with him.