guys at my age (18) never approach me, or are interested in me...but older guys like 25+ are much more interested in me.
but why?
but why?
Guys at my age don't approach me but older men do..
I don't know. I'm kind of the opposite. I'm 20, and girls my own age I don't really have much problem approaching, girls who are 18 I probably would hesitate, but girls that are older than me I have no hesitation what so ever. A girl lets say 24, I would have no problem approaching flirting with and asking out. Probably because they are more mature and know what they want in a guy and don't play games. while an 18 year old girl, even girls my age at 20 don't usually know for sure if they want the guy or not, or if they do they usually will play hard to get. Now that bothers me. If I like a girl, and she likes me there is no need for playing hard to get. All that's childs play. Now I know not all 18-20 year olds are like this, but because the majority of the ones I have met are like this, it makes me a bit hesitant on whether or not I will approach the girl, because I don't want to bother with the head games.
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is that bad I would rather date a girl in the 18-20 age because girls my age are not old but they seem old with me to start dating seriously because I want a good long relationship before I have kids and at that point they are in their 30s and its not very safe to have babies past 35 for a women and I would feel more comfortable them all being out before 33 to be honest so a girl that's 18-20 would be perfect not saying we will get married or anything but that's the age that would suit me best I'm 24 by the way, I would go up to 25 but no more then that then even 25 is pushing it of course if I make it to like 35 or something and am single I will just scrap the marriage and kids idea and just date any aged girl but I'm not going to have kids with her
Because women they're age are looking to settle down (often anyway) and to the you symbolise youth, beauty and fun. they're also more confident after years of rejection and understanding that it has nothing to do with them, they understand themselves better so are not as afraid of being shut down by you. They also might feel that a man at their age is more exciting to an eighteen year old than a woman their age who might think they're not all that amazing.
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lol I get the same thing and I'm turning 20. I mean its not that I never get approached but a lot of older men try to talk to me and I don't get it either.
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i have the same problem and it suckz, I like guyz my age.
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If you want to date guys you're age go for it. Don't wait for a guy to approach you. For those guys you want to date just try laying it on thick, laugh like a total bimbo at everything he says (yes I know it's stupid but I have to admit it works) or do whatever it is you have to do to convey to him that you're not going to reject him. If you can do that they'll come up to you.
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Like what a lot of guys have said on here, it could just be that older guys are just more confident to approach you instead of those around your age. It could also be you appear very mature for your age and older guys can't tell that your 18. Girls are maturing physically much faster nowadays.
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They probably find you to be very attractive. Guys your age probably find you attractive as well, but are not confident in themselves enough to let you know that. I can speak from experience because when I was that age, I was a complete bozo! Do you like older men?
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because the new generation of men don't play by old school rules! welcome to the 21st century!
women need to start asking men out, stop waiting for men to knock on your door! cause they wont -
Older guys have more confidence, guys your age might be intimidated by your good looks or your confidence.
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Its likely that guys your age are as interested, but have less confidence.
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Same is truefor me. I have grown to like older guys though just because they are more mature. Maybe you should approach someone you like :)
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younger girls in your age are more flexible Yummy ! :D
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I don't intentionally approach your age bracket but I do and I seem to attract your age bracket.
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You are mature enough I guess. Simple answer is usually right one.
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Maybe you look older than your real age or look too nice for the guys your age and older ones think that they can take advantage of you. I have the same problem
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I have that problem and always have..there's not you can do except talk to guys your age 1st
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i am 21 now...
i never had the confidence to approach women when I was 15-16 or 18 for that matter
so I won't mind approaching you now.maybe its just something guys gain with age -
Wpuld you say you look a lot older or more mature than your age?
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probably because you look like you're in your early 20's
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Guys your age aren't too sure how to approach girls so they don't try as much
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Im sure your very pretty I'm 28 and would probably approach you.
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I can see why that happens...;)
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I think guys your age are shy
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probably intimidated by your looks
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