There is this guy that everytime I leave the dancefloor he immediatly goes in and this happened 3 times to say its just coincidece?

[Anonymous]

so at this weddingparty there is this guy (30 y) that everytime i leave the dancefloor he immediatly goes in and this happened 3 times to say its just coincidence... we only talked a little when he handed me an invitation months ago and smiled at each other, he is not a total stranger, after that little talk i saw him at weddingparties and there it looked like he eyed on me and is intrested in me wants to understand my feelings towards him perhaps I don't know but at the last party he just did that... it was his cousins wedding so even when he's other cousins were dancing next to me he didn't join them im almost sure he would if i wasn't there because he likes to join and dance.. okay i have to admit that i totally was avoiding him that day from the start, pretending he is not there... because of me not feeling comfortable enough to meet his eyes... (dumb me i told myself to look and smile but that didn't go as planned) i felt that he sometimes looked at my direction maybe because he thinks im looking at him (because i was looking at his directions but acted like he was not there) or he wanted to meet my eyes to give a hint...
is it because of me ignoring him that maybe he was like okay if you do that ill do this... but that means that he got his eyes on me? so is that something positive?

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1 y

he could join his cousins to dance and perhaps a chance to make eye contact but he didn't join is it because i ignored him that day?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if you notice, but you were laser focused on this guy, recalling every interaction and watching all his moves. Like you literally wrote a play by play of all the things he did. On top of that you made things uncomfortable by purposely avoiding him, and even if you have these explanations, he’s not getting that and all he sees is you just watching and avoiding him on purpose. It may not make you feel good to hear my perspective but that’s what it’s genuinely looking like. If you hadn’t behaved as you did he wouldn’t have avoided you like the plague.

[Asker]

Actually i disagree that i was laser focused on him its just happened that when i sat down everyone turns their head to the dancefloor because there is action and when i sat down i turn my heqd to the dancefloor and suddenly he stands there… and i agree with you that my behaviour caused his reaction

[Asker]

Most likely…

[Opinion Owner]

It’s fine that you don’t agree with that; and my point is saying it wasn’t to offend you or make you feel some sort of way. But from an outside perspective, as I read that’s just all I could think. You described his actions as if he was all you focused on, even if that wasn’t your intention and I’m sure he noticed. But this wasn’t the main point in what I was saying. It’s that your actions are likely what made him avoid you, and that’s assuming he was even doing it on purpose and it wasn’t a coincidence...

[PositiveNote]

Guys don't normally follow girls around... at least, not those who are confident in themselves. If he really is following you around, he could be trying place himself in your path to maybe get a chance to talk. Just head his way and and ask him the time of day to see if he'll talk. You'll find out real quick if he's wanting to get to you!