When the guys body language is stiff and hard to read. It's hard to think of things to say when he is so tense. It makes me uncomfortable and I just want to go home.
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Actually I never face this because I don't talk to anyone apart from fews that's it..
All talks & conversation are fine but in boundaries. Respect level should be maintained.
Things that end conversations with me: Especially poor grammar, constant misspellings, particularly divergent ebonics or anything that makes them difficult to understand, particularly for the sake of their own laziness...
They may just be very knowledgeable or passionate on that subject, and are looking for a way to spread the word. They may see how common lack of knowledge of that subject by others is harmful, and wish to rectify the wages of such public ignorance, and assume you'd be a good launchpad for that crusade.
Good intent; just misguided in approach. Can happen rather easily.
@aggrofauster well that might backfire on you.. if she is interested with you, keep the momentum going. Play the volleyball 🏐 game of back and forth asking and answering… the nervousness will melt away as you go along. 😀
Mental health topics (my mental health specifically) I usually bring them up because I’m under stress and then regret it cuz it feels like everything that’s being said is all the same
When I have to carry the whole conversation. Rudeness. No eye contact or expression. I'm not a big texter, I'd rather call or better yet see them in person.
When they say something that sounds crazy out there like they might be a stalker mut had a few girls like that 1 throated a girl I worked with that was a friend she thought she wanted a date with me an told her I'm going to kick your butt if you talk to him again I had to tell crazy chick were friends an I wouldn't date a girl that threatened my female friend
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When the guys body language is stiff and hard to read. It's hard to think of things to say when he is so tense. It makes me uncomfortable and I just want to go home.
Actually I never face this because I don't talk to anyone apart from fews that's it..
All talks & conversation are fine but in boundaries.
Respect level should be maintained.
I'm sorry I'm old school. I believe in respect.
✊ yes 🙌
Things that end conversations with me: Especially poor grammar, constant misspellings, particularly divergent ebonics or anything that makes them difficult to understand, particularly for the sake of their own laziness...
Basically not knowing what to say. I don't really know what to talk about or say half the time so I'm not very good at conversations. Just small talk.
Doesn’t that make you guilty of the same thing though? You want the guy to carry the conversation?
If they keep wanting to talk about something that I couldn't care less about.
They may just be very knowledgeable or passionate on that subject, and are looking for a way to spread the word. They may see how common lack of knowledge of that subject by others is harmful, and wish to rectify the wages of such public ignorance, and assume you'd be a good launchpad for that crusade.
Good intent; just misguided in approach. Can happen rather easily.
What cues do you give that you aren’t interested in the topic they are talking about? Curious
@Still-alive I don't know, I guess I either give short replies or don't reply at all. But I also do that in most conversations, so 🤷♀️😂
hey do you wanna talk about your cars extended warranty?
@Jouth 🤣 do you sell those?
@Pinay_ako if you buy those ;)
@Jouth 🤣 you’re in the wrong business 😂
$$$$
lol what business should I be in?
When he keeps on talking about how great he is or when we start complaining about his ex or the people that surround him.
if someone isn't invested to getting to know you, as you are then bye bye. I won't wait when I see you don't care.
If she starts asking me personal questions about my money. It's really rude.
Yea that one, she looking for some sugar daddy
@Pinay_ako Yeah. I'm not looking for that type of relationship. I'm looking for a soulmate.
I even had someone ask to borrow money in the first couple of weeks. Not only a conversation killer, an acquaintance killer.
@PJH359 Wow
One word answers like how am I meant to work with that?
Tbf i do that when im attracted to a girl. I get really nervous and don’t know what to say, i even forget to ask her the question back she asked me.
@aggrofauster well that might backfire on you.. if she is interested with you, keep the momentum going. Play the volleyball 🏐 game of back and forth asking and answering… the nervousness will melt away as you go along. 😀
Too much teasing that it gets pressing when they don't have that of a good or long relationship with me
U were amongst wrong people then
Talking about any weird shit that would feature on embarrassing bodies. Close minded people on any topic
Mental health topics (my mental health specifically) I usually bring them up because I’m under stress and then regret it cuz it feels like everything that’s being said is all the same
Women with no personality are exhausting to be around.
They bore you to death ☠️?
Evangelizing to me. Or talking so called "the christian view" of politics. Not all Christians believe in that shit!
Inquisition texts that should be asked face-face... screams NOT BRIGHT !!
When I have to carry the whole conversation. Rudeness. No eye contact or expression. I'm not a big texter, I'd rather call or better yet see them in person.
A person who is too opinionated and either wants to prove you wrong or does not even care that his opinion is contrary to yours.
Gun supporter defending his/her stance.
Trump supporter AKA maggot. (Not that I support either party; although I will die but not vote Republican).
Any person believing that American news is correct news and all his/her general knowledge is moulded by American media.
When a person stops replying. Otherwise I am open for any conversation.
If someone makes a woke remark or virtue signals I know it stops there.
When they say something that sounds crazy out there like they might be a stalker mut had a few girls like that 1 throated a girl I worked with that was a friend she thought she wanted a date with me an told her I'm going to kick your butt if you talk to him again I had to tell crazy chick were friends an I wouldn't date a girl that threatened my female friend