What to do after getting her number [College]?

[Anonymous]

Met this girl at a career fair and I decided just to walk around with her and meet other companies with her. After we got done I asked for her number to stay in touch. She asked where I parked at and I told her I take the transit bus. I then asked her if she wanted to go eat at a sandwich shop with me on campus and she said sure. I buy her a meal and we share fries and I ask her about her family, hobbies, etc. I then asked her if she wanted to walk around campus and she said sure and then asked her if she wanted to go to a school club with me on Monday and she said she has to check her schedule. I then told her I had to leave and then we departed ways with her saying “ I’ll let you go now” This was Thursday and I haven’t texted her and was wondering should I just wait to see if she hits me up on Monday about the club or should I hit her up right now to hang or chat?

[Guy13]

Phase 1: You need to be the one with first Contact ‼️ Sunday afternoon text her for a little bit…how weekend was etc. towards the end of bull 💩 chit/chat. “Can you speak on the ☎️ “. If no, reach out to me when you’re available please.

[Guy13]

When you get her on the phone have two completely planned proposals. Where Fun 🤩, When date and time she needs to be ready, How (transportation). I assume you know what she likes. Not too fancy but definitely sunflower 🌻 or something 💐 🌺

[Guy13]

Give her a proposal then let the pressure hit… you can tell in her voice or sudden lack thereof. IF she does NOT sound SOLD then CHILLED…like you are just coming up with it the other option. Don’t let her off the phone without commitment to one of them.

If she’s Wifey material she will appreciate the provision of second option. It’s a high standard though. From here forward she will expect you to be a Plan A, B, and sometimes C guy.-This and he makes me laugh (corny but thoughtful jokes) is what she tells the Girls 💪

[Jacobbbb]

I mean she was down to hang out and spend time with you, and she did do that, so it doesn't sound like it'd go bad if you wanted to text her. Just go for it and see what happens

[Asker]

I feel like I would be needy since I asked twice to go to the club with me and then I also bought her food. Shouldn't she get my subtle hints?

[Jacobbbb]

Yeah fair enough I think it'd be kinda needy. Also weird that she's not really initiating anything. But the only two options you have are leave it or make a move

[LazerBean]

Does she have your number, too? You can text her and see what happens I guess.

[Asker]

Yeah I do, but I would think if she had time to go to the school club on Monday, she would have told me by now :(

[Anonymous]

"Don't save her; she don't wanna be saved"

[Iron_Man]

Call her and have a nice conversation