I’ve made out with over 30 different girls going out to clubs and there were like 9 where I was really close to smashing it was jus one little mistake I made or the girls friend cockblocked hard so why is this and wats the best way to end up smashing them
1) There are women who go to clubs and “make-out” with a whole bunch of guys. It‘s just next level attention whoring, similar to when two girls who aren’t lesbians kiss each other so that guys will watch. With some of these women you probably weren’t the first guy either.
2) Kissing often releases sexual tension. Sexual tension is what causes sexual arousal, especially for women in clubs. Less sexual tension = less sexual arousal. This isn’t always the case, but it happens.
3) Maybe you’re a bad kisser. Many women will decide whether or not they actually feel a “spark” based on the kiss. If the kiss feels good they can become more turned on and assume that sex with you will be good. If it doesn’t they’ll assume that sex with you will be bad.
4) Women worry about slut-shaming and their reputation. If you’re indiscreet you’re less likely to get laid than if you’re discreet. If you’re kissing her in the middle of the dance floor in front of everybody, that’s a bad idea. Ignore the fact that those women also make-out with guys like that anyway, and tell their friends about their sexual experiences, and how contradictory that all is, we’re talking about chick-logic here. It’s just better if you do these things (kissing, speak about and leaving the club with her) in private/secret rather than out in the open.
5) Her friends will cockblock you because they don’t want her to do something stupid. They’re trying to protect her either from a sexual predator or just from being used for sex, they don’t know you. Even if she wants to get laid they think she’s making a bad decision. Another reason to be discreet and be under the radar.
6) Maybe you seem too over-eager to get laid. Too excited. Strange thing about women, mainly women in clubs who have one night stands, is that they’re most attracted to guys who get laid often. If you seem too overly excited or too eager that’s a sign that you don’t, and it turns them off. They can also, as you know, change their minds at any time. A guy who is over-eager is less likely to take “no” for an answer. He’s potentially dangerous. If not that he’s more likely than the other guy to become overly clingy after sex.
The same reason guys will fk girls, but not marry them... There are certain points past which we're not comfortable with, and as women are the gate keepers of sex it's there prerogative on whether it happens or not. When girls are in clubs, for them to let loose they usually ask their friends ahead of time to "watch out for them," which means that after they drink, and their inhibitions are low, they have friends to stop them from going further than they intended on going earlier.
That's a lot of making out. I mean friends look out for other's specially when drunk because mistakes happen. Maybe they have someone at home and will know they will regret it. I mean why don't you just go in search of a relationship with one instead of trying so many
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Because it’s public and kissing skill set is equally as important than “Tuck” assets 😎
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