Why do people think you can't be played when single?

[Monalisa77]

there's loads of examples of being played when single

The main one is obviously being r*ped or something else you didn't ask for

If theyre clearly just after sex and intending to drop you i think thats classed as being played

Then there's lesser extent of getting someones number just to annoy them

Or making you think they like you just to be annoying and getting your hopes up these guys are actually going to ask you out

[MrCommodore]

Getting someone's number or making them think you like them isn't getting played, well not after the age of 30. It's usually a person misreading signs due to inexperience.

[Monalisa77]

As i said before there's plenty of immature people in their adult hood, maybe u haven't met them

[Monalisa77]

and to me it is, they have no intention of asking u out despite them knowing we like them. They should leave us alone especially when asked to

[Monalisa77]

And if ur talking about me u know full well he did a lot, i can tell the difference between someone being friendly and someone flirting. Nearly close to. Blocking u (oh and he read my message and didn't block me)

[Monalisa77]

I watch a lot of tv and romantic films and i read a lot of stuff and i obseeve people in how they are with different people

[MrCommodore]

I understand how you feel, and agree that they should not mislead.
In my experience, players don't simply get thrills from leading a girl on, they usually seek sex and after a short while of using her, move on to the next challenge.

[Monalisa77]

Well we dont know what peoples intentions are.. But its fairly obvious i will not sleep with anyone so early on so theyre wasting their time

[MrCommodore]

I know

[Guy13]

All people, single or not, are manipulative. People looking a back-up plan fo the 💩 you’re talking about because they do not need you. Toss one around like a pile of trash.

[Jennz6]

I don’t think that because I have been “Played” if that’s what you call it

[Monalisa77]

No its just ice seen a lot of comments saying u can't be

[Jennz6]

Oh okay

[Monalisa77]

Do u mind me ask what happened with u? No worries if u dont want to

[TrillXHippy]

I’m not gonna respond to this person’s comment because I’m really gonna do the most. There’s something called playing with someone’s feelings. This person could say a bunch of things and make it seem like there’s a chance when there really isn’t

[BJP21]

It happens especially if you are vulnerable.

[LiamJHayden]

It is harder, but yes, still happens.