Were I in your position, I would try to nip this in the bud. If he truly is a good trainer, I'd let him fulfill that role; but it's not wise- like you said- to conflate professionalism with interest. Especially if the flirting is only coming from you. And since your friendship is transactional, it's all the more reason to cut off emotional connection with him. How to do so is a much harder issue, because you said you have a hard time hiding it. You may end up having to switch trainers after all, I suppose.
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I’ve heard veteran personal trainers talk about this. It’s best to keep things professional. It’s better in the long run. Plus, it can damage his career if you pursue a relationship while he’s still your trainer. Either keep it professional or hire a different personal trainer before you start any sort of dating relationship.
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You know trainers are amongst the biggest manwhores of all, along with bartenders and firemen.
Trainers get hit on all the time so he might enjoy if you suck his cock but probably not much relationship potential there.
Do some warm-ups around him that also simulate sex acts. You probably know what I mean and that will get his attention.
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