Did I give him the wrong idea?

[Alexandria_2]

So my friend has invited me to a few of his house parties, and I met one of his other friends there that I thought was really good looking from the start. Well, at the third party I went to I got very drunk and when I get drunk like that I’m very bold. Him and I were talking inside the living room and I asked him if he wanted to make out. He said yes and then we made out for a little bit and just returned to the party afterwards. He texted me the next day and said he thinks I’m pretty cool and he’d love to hangout with me soon and invited me out to bowling.

I was crushing on him from the start, but the fact that I initiated the make out I feel like I gave him the wrong idea and he thinks I just want to have sex and so does he. Do you guys agree as well?

[Rosexøxø]

Ermm it’s possible we are brutally honest when drunk, so somewhere deep down you WANTED TO MAKE OUT LOL and maybe subconsciously other intimate OR wild things.

Don’t deny your inner humanity lmao

If you both vibe and seem compatible then that’s a win. You both already have a mutual friend, and drink in common lol

🤷‍♀️

Bowling- as said by others here- is “respectful.” I wouldn’t know, as I never got invited by friends (guy or girl) to go bowling 🎳. I just think of the movies where he gets to stare at her bum lol

So anywaysss

maybe that was an opportunity for him to see if you’d “flirt” and “ask for help” with form LMAO while being NOT-UNDER-THE-INFLUENCE 😂 I’m not yelling I’m emphasizing😌 🤌

I think both of you in that situation is adorable. Do I ship it? Yes. Am I a stranger and should you avoid any and ALL forms of external or self peer pressure? YES 🙌💯

If you want wild fun- consider him a ‘go.’

if you want something serious.. probably wait for someone who initiates things with you 🤷‍♀️

[Rosexøxø]

Best to you!

[KrisPW]

He invited you bowling! Bowling... Not exactly netflix and chill vibes there. Unless of course you drunkenly told him that funky, worn a thousand times, bowling shoes get your nipples hard. lmao.

[David_Kek]

Possibly, but it's not exactly a big deal. Just hang out with him as friends, tell him you was a little embarrassed making out with him while drunk, and you enjoyed it but you'd rather get to know a guy first over a period of time sober before you do stuff with him. If he's mature enough he'll understand and hang out with you and whatever happens over time will happen. Besides, bowling is hardly netflix and chill. He might make a move on you and try to kiss you maybe, yet that is the kind of dating thing people do.

[EricSummer]

You appeared quite easy-going, but it does not have to continue that way. Just slow things down and go back a few steps. Make it clear that you were under the influence of alcohol at the party. You are not generally at a kissing stage, yet.
And then just start dating normally. Bowling seems a nice start.
It's fine for a woman to initiate things, but it is a different thing when the alcohol makes you act overly bold and not in line with your true self.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yeah! That's probably what he's expecting.

[Finchie40]

Actually when a girl makes the first move like you did , your chances of keeping him by your side increased big time , when a guy feels a girl desires him and wants him it’s a huge turn on to a guy and he appreciates her more just as long as you aren’t the kind of girl that jumps from cock to cock. Every girl I been with that made the first move the relationship lasted a long time so that’s something to think about if you really
Like this guy

[Boomchakalaca]

If someone were to kiss me like that at a party, i would think they are easy to get. As in, temporary connection.


He invited u to bowling which is a respectable date then the movie theater. I think he wants u long term then short term.

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

Bowling doesn’t sound like “let’s bit the bed, yeah?” so just try it and make it clear you’re intent on taking things slow, you were drunk when you tried to kiss him after all

[ShellyB]

Yes he probably thinks you will have sex within a date or two. Is that what you want? There is nothing wrong with that but, anyway that is probably where he thinks this is going! JMO!

[exitseven]

He probably thinks you will be a slam dunk but you are master of your own destiny

[PaulPanda8]

You like him sexually. Be honest with him. As much as it kills for a guy to wait a bit. Once you two have sex, he'll want you more and develop stronger emotions.

[jshm2]

You were both idiots.

This is why you always have a wingman/woman to keep you from doing stupid shit you'll regret later.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Just admit you just want to have sex with him already... gaw!

[Anonymous]

Let him know ahead of time you won't go past making out

[Stevefiveo]

Tell him how you feel while you are bowling. Good luck.

[QuietRunner]

I agree that you went for what you wanted and now need to choose what to do

go for and see what happens.

[Anonymous]

He already start dreaming of eat ya pussy 😂

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

She was drunk so god knows

[noohair]

Getting drunk is a turn off for me.

[robocop666]

why did you ask then?