What does my gym crush want from me?

[Anonymous]

So after 2 year of looking at each other (I think) . I finally talked to my gym crush. I asked her for her name and IG and told her hit me up in the gym sometime. She gave me her name and typed her IG on my phone. Never added me back never hit me up. So that’s it right? We’ll she keeps looking me. And to be honest I don't know if it’s just me noticing her at this point or if she looking and following me. But every time I move around the gym she always on the machine next to me or steps away from me. I try to ignore her. And the most recent was the weirdest. I was on the machine with my buddy and she walks up and asked if we were using the machine next to us. She hops on and pushes off a 45 plate off the machine and almost breaks my ankle inch away. I turned around and told her what her problem was. She didn’t even look at me or say anything to me. Weird asf then she does 1 set then leaves. But last week was weirder. I normally do abs on the crunch machine and then get up and do curls in front of the mirror maybe 15 steps from mirror. Some how every time I do ab crunches she on a hip thrust machine right next to me. So this time I got up from the ab machine and she looking right in the mirror arms crossed kicked back on machine looking right at me (I mean I think I have no idea no more) not going lie almost broke out in laughter. What she want from me already tried adding her told her to say wassup nothing. Maybe it’s just me I don't know does that seem like weird behavior. What should I do.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yeah, shit sounds sus and already acting like some jealous girlfriend or something. I'd stay clear of whatever kind of crazy you'd end up mixed with if you get involved with her.

I'll add this story (your story) to my reasons to justify spending thousands on a home gym. Best money I've ever spent especially after this TikTok trend of chicks trying to "me-too" dudes for just having eyeballs. Fuck that shit, I'm out.

[Asker]

Yeah I don't know why I asked for IG but no add back yet all this stuff after sounds extremely sus like damn I tried already

[TheSpaceGnome]

She's trolling you with harrassment, report her behavior to the manager of the gym.

[Asker]

Lol for staring and possibly trying to snap my ankle (no way to prove that). Working around me. Yeah bro I’m look like a nut if I say that. I don't know if it’s her or it’s just me that’s over analyzing it

[TheSpaceGnome]

She constantly stares at you and always follows you around and goes next to you, if a guy did that to a girl he's be reported for stalking.

[TheSpaceGnome]

he'd*

[Asker]

I here u but u tell that to management there going be like ok nothing more

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah the double standard is real unfortunately.

[Asker]

But u agree definitely out of the normal. Like bro it’s happening so much I’m like am I just over seeing things

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah it's not normal at all.

[tamarax7]

I think its part of her wanting you to literally ‘chase’ her. I think she is extending it far too long as you have already showed your intentions so I think she is playing childish at this point. You can do one thing by simply asking her what is going on between the two of you to get clarity on the tension between the two of you. If she replies with ‘nothing’ then I would start to forget about her (not easy I know) as she has made it clear to have no intentions in any type of relationship.

[Asker]

Yeah just kind of don’t want to extend the olive branch again

[Miristheiss]

Jimmy's new in town. Jimmy doesn't have any friends. Jimmy doesn't like misunderstandings.

[Asker]

Lmao. I really could use real advice

[Spongebobssocks]

She's a woman. She wants you to text her first. In my mind if a man doesn't do the move it means he doesn't like me. Thats how the female brain works. All through time men are the ones who ask the woman out. Just DM her.

[Asker]

Lol I don’t even have her ig no more. I forgot it lmao

[Spongebobssocks]

Well, is there any other way you could contact her?

[Asker]

None but in person

[Asker]

So u think this is weird behavior?

[Spongebobssocks]

Not from her side. Its commen. From what you did yeah kinda.. am just trying to help

[Spongebobssocks]

If you tell me her name and explain what she looks like I bet I can find her for you

[Asker]

What did I do?

[Asker]

Haha she had a very different name can’t even remember all this happen 2 months ago

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah doesn't matter I could still find her but if you wanna go out with women you need to start making moves.. can't wait for years

[Asker]

Had a girlfriend last year

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay cool

[TheSpaceGnome]

That is not normal behavior for a woman, and guys don't always need to be the one to make the first move.

Also by walking up to her and asking for her number and IG, he already made the first move and stated he is interested, so now its her turn to initiate a message or call first to show she's actually interested instead of just being overly polite in public.

[Spongebobssocks]

@TheSpaceGnome im just refering to human nature, its not always fair but its reality

[TheSpaceGnome]

The reality is she's trolling/harrasing him and isn't actuallu interested in him.

[TheSpaceGnome]

actually*

[TheSpaceGnome]

Also human nature is far from any of what transpired 😂 human nature is walking around naked and seeing someone who looks attractive and humping them and leaving. Not phones, internet, or social media, and not trolling in a building.

[Spongebobssocks]

@TheSpaceGnome there is still human nature in psychological behaviour. I suggest you read about it because it will take too long to explain since you aren't aware of it

[TheSpaceGnome]

Why are those 2 words hyperlinked? This site is dumb.

[Asker]

What i don’t get is spongebobsocks said what I did was weird and not her. What did I do weird?

[strateguy632]

if a lady did that to me i would guess she thinks "he i am pretty but not dating material" i say let her enjoy the view and not consider her a stalker.

[Asker]

Not consider her a stalker? Lol she coming off as one

[Anonymous]

I stopped reading at IG.

This is not going to go anywhere.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Iron_Man]

It took you two years to have one conversation with her, my gosh man talk about shy

[Iron_Man]

Well now you have your opportunity work on her get things going

[Asker]

Haha I had a girlfriend last year.

[Asker]

U think what she doing is weird? I don't know bro it might just be me thinking this in my head

[Iron_Man]

Do you have a shot here go for it

[Iron_Man]

I mean you have a shot

[shades777]

gym crush wants the machine your working on

[Asker]

Lol 24/7

[In_Trance]

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