He flirts with me
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Has his WIFE told you that they have an "open" marriage? Any guy can say that to convince a girl to have sex. But it may not actually be "open" according to the wife.
If all you want is sex, and you would be okay with another girl in the future having sex with your future husband, then go get laid. But that's probably all that you will get out of this. . . and this always has the potential for creating a problem in your workplace, so be prepared to lose your job, also.
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Honestly the open marriage thing is usually someone just saying that to get a little extra on the side and giving a false narrative to talk the outside person into it. If you view it as only fun and nothing more than why would it even matter if they were open or not. It is him that has the attachment and not you. However, for the sake of argument, I would suggest if he is pursuing you for some fun that you get him to have the wife admit it in person or video call that they are in an open marriage.
You can flirt but that doesn’t mean do anything more! I mean my coworkers probably think I flirt with them and no I just have questions and trying to do my best. I have my eyes on some other guy that doesn’t work out there at all.
i think beinh a friend of a married person is fine. there's a married person i wanna befriend with especially because my dream is instructinh me to do so but i assume he doesn't wannq be my friend at least i trier
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You can flirt with him if you want, but please realize that he's married and that you will just be a temporary third wheel in his open marriage.
I'd think yes but why would you insert yourself into that mess? What's the point... what's your goal in life.
I know girl (s) that just ended up pregnant... surprise surprise the strangest things happen when mating, even with "protection"... that fails all too often. That's only one issue that can occur, and now the "drugs" of mating are turned off, the guy... he can't/ain't gonna help and the pain and suffering starts. The family takes the load probably. This is just stupidity if you think it through. Wake up!
Run... don't walk away. That you are asking this question says you need beaten before he does. Find a good God... fast. Our society is sooooooooooo screwed up... God help us from our selfish desires!
P. s. this is "work". you work for an employer, and this causes issues in the workplace. Very not appropriate. Repeat above paragraph...
Do whatever you want. It's up to him to worry about his obligations to his wife. But keep your expectations low.
I had multiple female coworkers flirt with me. One single. Another married. In all circumstances, it ended with emotions getting involved. I terminated the relationships and it resulted in both women quitting their careers.
Food for thought.
So you want to end up being a side chick? You could've just PM'd me and showed me what you're working with.
I'm joking if that's not obvious.
You're getting talked into sex... that's pretty much all you're going to get out of that deal. There is probably some other guy watching you that would've dedicated his life to you... but after he watches this shit play out, he won't touch you with a 10-foot poll.
Yup! I sleep with married men all the time.
Married women are a joke. They’re just wearing a ring. They’re not actually married. 🤡
You sure are! Thought with it being a coworker I would be cautious
Open marriage according to who? Him? Did you talk to his wife about their 'open marriage'? I'll bet anything he's lying. Find a single guy. You don't want that hassle.
Yes, if his wife and he both ageed that they are in an open marriage it's ok
Why get involved with something so complicated and messy with potentially no future? I don't know if I'd trust his word, but I guess all you can go by is what he says is true unless proven otherwise. I wouldn't do it though.
An open marriage? Sooo you’re single but with a ring and more responsibilities. Awesome. Yes that means by definition you can do whatever you want.
Don't shit where you eat.
Now get back to work and save your flirting , dating , and tomfuckery for when you are off the clock and with men that you don't work with.
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No. Do not endorse this!
you're going to have to get that statement straight from the wife's mouth that they are in fact really in an open relationship because that guy could have totally lied... guys are scum.
you can flirt with i guess? that is a weird situation to be in
Stay away, you don't want deal with that mess. You should want a good relationship.
Its still committing adultery. I wouldn't want to partake in that
You really want to be the side chick? How about value yourself more than that
The marriage has nothing to do with it. You can flirt with whomever you want.
Are you okay with him having a wife
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