How to stop guys from flirting/hitting on my girlfriend?

[chiil_dudee]

I love my girlfriend very much she's perfect for me but I have one problem because she's really gorgeous and hot guys hit on her non stop it's really annoying and I can't help but to feel jealous, she's kind of slow so she doesn't even notice, but I'm a guy and well I know my kind. As much as I wanted I can't pick a fight with every guy that flirts with her, how to deal with this.

One other problem is that it seems like black dudes wanna kill me when they see me with her, she's black and I wanted to know why is that?

But that doesn't bother me as much as my first problem. Can somebody help me

[ALWAYSclassy]

lmao she's SLOW? I'm over here cracking the f*** up, lmao how did you just call your girlfriend slow?

Anyways a hot girl is always gonna get attention. That's one of the things you have to deal with when dating a pretty girl. Cuff your chick when you're with her. AKA- keep your arm around her, hold her hand, just do what you can to exhibit body language that shows she's your girl. And tell her to ignore guys and not be so friendly in your presence, it is disrespectful but if she doesn't know then give her the benefit of the doubt but tell her how to handle it

In general black Americans are not fans of other people taking "their women/men" especially if she is good looking. They feel that a pretty black girl should be with a black man. Oh well they will get over it

[chiil_dudee]

lool I am not trashing her maybe I didn't use the rigth words she doesen't get almost anything she's too naive, not slow in a retarded way xD

[Anonymous]

okay I'm going to hide my identity as people will think I'm an ass. My boyfriend always had the same trouble with me (I don't think I'm hot but...) he used to hate men flirting and hitting on me and emailing me, sending me mail, randomly touching me (yeah it happens), commenting and looking. He soon realized he couldn't 'beat up' and threaten every guy who gets a glance and decided he was going to take everything as a compliement...a compliement to him...cos 'they can look and comment and flirt all they want, but at the end of the day I'm the person he's laying next to in bed' ...i found it quite adorable haha!

the truth is you can't stop it hun, you just got to deal with it, without upsetting yourself

[slipslender]

just put your hand around her waist or shoulders...maybe even hold her hand. they might look, but if they flirt...well that's just retarded. even if they hit on her, what's it to you? she wants to be with you, end of story :p

also, some people don't approve of interracial dating. don't pay attention to that.

[NothingGoldCanStay]

LOL @ calling you girlfriend slow.

A) Make sure if it doesn't work out you don't break her heart... those same black guys might show up at your door step and beat the sh*t out of you (blacks have a lot of hate for white men with their women).

B) I would either avoid going out to places where a lot of guys socialize and flirt like clubs. If you do I would suggest bringing close friends makes it harder for others to come in to the group and try to flrit with her. They will look like a tool flirting in front of many people.

[Anonymous]

Show her a little trust. I'm sure she's a big girl and can handle herself. She's leaving with you, so what are you worried about, well until you become a jealous mad man that gets in fights with everyone, and then she'll probably leave with someone more mature. Something to think about.

[FierceMegan]

You can't stop other guys from looking at her. That will never happen. You just have to be confident in the relationship you two have. She is not looking at anyone else, so be happy. Also, about the "black guys want to kill me" comment, they are just jealous of you and are territorial. They think cause she is black that she should be dating a black guy. Especially, if she is gorgeous. Just be happy that she chose you. Embrace it! :)

[Anonymous]

Where do you two go that all these guys are flirting with her? Most guys will take the hint if a girl is with a guy (her bf) that she is of limits and will only look... Take it as a compliment, she isn't looking at anyone else so just grin when you see a guy doing that... you the man!

[TouchTheSky]

when you are with her hold her hand they will look but can't flirt with her because they will feel stupid if they don't feel that they are really stupid

[johari]

You can't stop it think of it as how lucky you are to have her

[Anonymous]

Consider yourself lucky those guys didn't beat you up

[stillagoodgirl]

They might think you two are just friends

[cyrus7]

tell them off ... be a man