Is buying the woman a drink at the bar, still considered flirting?

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For my single friends who hang around bars they take it as a compliment not flirting. They expect it of the guys. Saves them money to use on shoes!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Come onnn man, really? You just expect us to buy you drinks and get nothing in return? I'm not talking about anything sexual, but him offering you a drink is clearly flirting with you, and accepting his offer is validating his advances and telling him you're interested in talking. If a girl isn't interested in talking to the guy then she shouldn't accept his offer to buy her a drink.

I've never had it happen but if I bought a girl a drink and she didn't engage in conversation with me at all then I know damn well I'm taking that drink back for myself. Go find another guy to walk over... My expectation is if I buy a girl a drink she should at least engage in conversation with me until she finishes the drink I paid for.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

It really depends on the guy. I would say in most cases he’s trying to get with the girl. But it really depends. It’s not really something I do, and I don’t really hang around bars.

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

It sounds like flirting to me. If the guy buys you a drink it means he's interested in you and wants to talk to you.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I’d take it as flirting but i dont go to bars so I don't know

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Most guys who buy you a drink expect you to engage in conversation with them, and they are hoping that conversations leads to more than just conversation. And all women should understand that.

KittyKat90210 · Answer

It's flirting. That doesn't mean it will work though :D

Paul09 · Answer

Why else would someone buy a stranger a drink out of nowhere?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I would buy a woman a drink, but I can't drink, but would drink diet pop with her. No problem buying her an alcoholic beverage of her choice.

Phoenix98 · Answer

And that's one of the reasons guys don't really do that anymore.

But from what I remember in my younger days you went up and started a conversation with a girl who was alone to gauged interest and then asked what she was drinking and chatted while you waited for the drink and if nothing really progressed you moved on.

I don't know how it works now.

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

Definitely seems like flirting, I think it depends on whether or not the individual who is buying actually knows the recipient or not.

kingmaker21 · Answer

I alway buy a drink for a women if I find her attractive n alone just to start conversation..

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

In the past flirting it was & it lead to getting to know her & so much more if you two had chemistry. Nowadays it’s not flirting it’s all about free drinks & a lot of girls are all about foodie calls.

katiesmuff · Answer

I get to see it every day and it is just a bit of flirting just to see where it goes.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

Could be, for sure :D Definitely makes me smile

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

If I buy you a drink then I think you’re pretty good looking. Especially cause they’re so damn expensive.

tremendousfern · Answer

These days it's just asking to be treated as an ATM while the woman takes advantage of you for more free stuff. Never give a woman attachment-free money for anything.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Guys buy drinks to break the ice with a girl. Of course, they are hoping it will lead to something.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Zero chance of that with the Price of drinks, you can easily hit £10 for a simple drink on a night out.

molonski2 · Answer

The intent of the action is pretty dam obvious.

ritxi · Answer

No, it isn't. At least in my country, where it's uncommon for a girl to accept a drink from a stranger if there weren't previous flirtation.

JayBones · Answer

I have never bought a girl a drink that I haven't already slept with.

Jennz6 · Answer

I love it when a guy buys me a drink

BraxtonsGf · Answer

a lot of woman flirt with guys to get free drinks

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

yes, it is if the woman accepts the drink because, let's face it, you know what most guys "really" want when they send women drinks, although most of us won't admit to it.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Yes, it is flirting

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Big flirt having said that id never do that lmao

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Definitely flirting.

NYlatefun · Answer

Def a big flirt, I don't buy drinks to random girls unless I'm interested.

exitseven · Answer

It us a big flirt. I hardly e er did it

Djaay · Answer

No , an invitation to relations with that person.

dolemite58 · Answer

Only simps buy girls drinks

RedInnocent68 · Answer

For strangers, yes.

strateguy632 · Answer

7th,

laly520 · Answer

pretty classic

Is buying the woman a drink at the bar, still considered flirting?

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I would buy a woman a drink, but I can't drink, but would drink diet pop with her. No problem buying her an alcoholic beverage of her choice.

Is buying the woman a drink at the bar, still considered flirting?

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I would buy a woman a drink, but I can't drink, but would drink diet pop with her. No problem buying her an alcoholic beverage of her choice.

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