we’ve been friends for a while and she (f22) bought it up and we’ve both had small crushes for each other at some point but I’m not sure if it’d mess up our friendship or even how to bring it up
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How do you ask to go from regular friends to friends with benefits?
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If she currently just has a small crush on you, she'll probably start having a deeper crush on you once having sex and all the close feel-good hormones. Are you sure she's mature enough to handle expectations? Be clear that if anyone ever asks you if you're single, you're always going to bluntly say yes, with no beating around the bush with hesitatingly saying, 'um well, sort of'. And tell her that having sex won't make you feel closer to her, and that you'll only ever see her as a friend.
Honestly I’m not sure if she’d be able to handle just being friends after and honestly if we didn’t talk about any of this before I’d probably not even want to make a move so I’ll probably just keep her as friends
Haha, ok 😀
You have open-minded, down to earth friends. Without that, it is probably never going to happen.
Ask the girl if she'd ever consider it, or if she has ever crossed her mind.
It has we’ve talked about it before then she backed out