I saw this quirky quiet guy at my job who came to visit his mother often and I understand he’s nice to everyone because his mother is in their care. I’m just the housekeeper and he was nice to me, consistently spoke to me, waved from across the room. He started a couple conversations and complimented my shoes and he has tried to be in proximity. Deep down I think I was at times a bright spot in his day especially with his mother… I loved how nice and quirky he is.. or the fact he was so present I thought he was a good guy and I really wanted to talk to him and I honestly thought it was a slow build..
he was all I talked about and I honestly loved seeing his car.. I kind of stepped back because my coworker and him seemed to also be familiar and I thought it was just us…
I ended up quitting and stayed hours waiting for him to come out after I got my check just to say bye and how I felt but he just said bye and drove off leaving me outside in the dark alone outside the facility. He didn’t even wonder where I've been
i I cried and hit major depression and I snooped and found out that he had a wife… she was beautiful.. they had their engagement photos, she proudly claimed him.. he created a haven for her and I just fell apart… he chose her. He loves her.. while I was just a moment in his day. A distraction
I can’t stop comparing myself to her
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I think you mistook his kindness and friendliness for romantic interest. Nothing you've described necessarily suggests he was interested in you that way, and you should also stop comparing yourself to his wife. He didn't choose her over you, she was already his partner… This isn't a competition, and it says absolutely nothing about your worth. I know it's disappointing, but you need to let go of what you hoped this could become and move on
You should be disgusted by yourself.
He has a wife, don't be a depraved animal.
I JUST FOUND OUT. She’s never came up and he never wears a wedding ring
People waving and saying hello is not a big deal. Don't start daydreaming a future over minor things.
Literally chill lmfao holy shit
you get attached way too easily
I waited until I saw true signs of consistency and interest tho
yet you didn't think to look for a ring
He never wore one and she never comes with him I just found out yesterday
Omg I am in the same situation