I pushed him away, and I regret it, how do I get him back?

[Anonymous]

Will he even take me back? I spoke to him on the phone yesterday about it and things seemed to work out fine but after talking to him on IM he replies basically like "NM", "Kl" etc and I'm a bit confused. Am I over reacting? Or could it be that he's no longer interested but won't say it?

[hippygirl]

I would put it down to hurt. If your not open to some one Especial to a partner you can expect that. In a relationship it is based on honesty and trust say how you feel. You pushed him away and now his hurt by you. I would give him time alone see how things go, sometimes things work them selfs out but if nothing in a week or two maybe you need to speak to him tell him why don't leave him in the dark.

[ellaaa]

some guys are like that, they don't talk much on IM's... but I don't know what kinda person he is so I can't say if he lost interest on you or something.. but why not ask him whenever you two are on the phone again, that why doesn't he talk much on the IM and stuff.. ask him but don't make yourself sounding so desparate.

good luck :)

[Anonymous]

It really all depends on how long you were together and how you pushed him away. Chances are if you had a good relationship and he enjoyed being with you he will give it another chance. Just think about it for a few days, think about why you pushed him away and if you can get over that. If you still really want him back then talk to him about how you feel. In person!