Okay here's the thing: My brother and his ex were really close and even had sex multiple times when they were together. Now they are not together and the entire time they were together I have been in love with her. Even before they got together I was in love with her.
She knows how I feel about her and dubs me as her "best friend" but I think this is only because she thinks I'm off limits to her since she dated my brother. I knew they were a bad match the entire time they were together and it took her a long time to realize it. Its been a while since they broke up and if I dated her I don't think my brother will care but I don't know if she's over him. I have to find that out to see if she will at least give me a chance. But lets say she's over him and is ready to date someone new, how do I get her to see me the way I see her and let her know its okay to be with me?
I think she'll think she's a slut if she dates me so how do I avoid that? There are obviously a lot of variables to consider here, but the truth is I believe it should have been me and her together the whole time and I don't want me and her future together to be ruined because of my brother's stupid idea to date her. Me and her have everything in common, so also are there any tips that can make me suddenly more attractive to her? Thanks for all advice :)
She knows how I feel about her and dubs me as her "best friend" but I think this is only because she thinks I'm off limits to her since she dated my brother. I knew they were a bad match the entire time they were together and it took her a long time to realize it. Its been a while since they broke up and if I dated her I don't think my brother will care but I don't know if she's over him. I have to find that out to see if she will at least give me a chance. But lets say she's over him and is ready to date someone new, how do I get her to see me the way I see her and let her know its okay to be with me?
I think she'll think she's a slut if she dates me so how do I avoid that? There are obviously a lot of variables to consider here, but the truth is I believe it should have been me and her together the whole time and I don't want me and her future together to be ruined because of my brother's stupid idea to date her. Me and her have everything in common, so also are there any tips that can make me suddenly more attractive to her? Thanks for all advice :)
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