I can't tell if he's ignoring me because he likes me or doesn't like me. (Page 2)

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I started a new part time job about 3 months ago. I like a guy that is in charge of the cashiers. I had a feeling from the first time I saw him that some feelings would develop for him. I tried to fight it but I have feelings for him. I come off very shy and quiet, but I have made an effort to talk to him and he has seen me joke around with my other co-workers. I'm a good worker. I work hard, help out as much as I can, and do what I'm told. I've wanted him to have a good impression of me which is why I make sure I continue to be a good worker. Anyway, he talks really easily to my other co-workers and will joke around with the other girls. But when it comes to me, we don't really talk. We'll talk when I ask him how his weekend was and what not but as soon as he answers the conversation dies. He also is a shy guy but like I said, he will joke around with my other co-workers. With the other workers that have been there for a while, he talks really easily with them. With the workers that were hired with me, he's still hesitant around them but he will joke around with them. However when it comes to me, silence. The other day it was just the two of us for the first two hours, and we didn't talk a whole lot. It was more just standing around waiting for customers. I know that sometimes a guy will be quiet around the girl he likes. But maybe he just doesn't really like me and therefore doesn't talk? The following things I have a feeling are just me making something out of nothing because I want him to like me, but maybe I'm wrong... -He has a lot of places he can stand within the cashiering area, but he tends to stand behind me a lot. -I can feel him watching me and when I turn to look around just to see if he really is looking at me, I can see out of the corner of my eye that he is. -I have a feeling he's just been doing this one because he is in charge of the other cashiers, but when a customer isn't understanding something, he'll stop what he's doing and listen to the conversation. He won't butt in or cut me off, even if I am catching a tone with the customer or not doing something for the customer I know fully well I can do but won't because they're being rude. I know his reason for not stepping in is because we have the same mindset when it comes to difficult customers and returns without tags/receipts. -When he's on the register next to mine, he tends to kind of invade my personal space. If he's helping another cashier that's standing next to me, he's usually standing next to me while helping instead of on the other side, even if it means he's facing away from the customer. I've caught us standing very close together and neither of us moving. -We've had accidental/"accidental" bumps. Our hands hooked around each others' one time and he didn't say anything but he didn't look at me either. Just acted like it didn't happen. -I'll catch him laughing at something funny I'm saying when I don't even think he's listening.  *I'll continue this in "update'*

Anonymous · Answer

hes avoiding you because he likes you...visa versa...duh...lol good luck sweetie...

TracyF · Answer

Stop obsessing over the guy. Leave him alone. If he's ignoring you he doesn't like you.

jailedlover · Answer

Wow... I love this pre teen novella. I'm having this same issue so help me out and keep me updated. Thanks, good woman helping out other good women.

Anonymous · Answer

Move on he likes you but has not made the proper effort

Anonymous · Answer

my advice: Don't date coworkers!

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