because I hate that I have to take responsibility for my situation, I hate taking responsibility because I want things to happen when I want them to happen
I got in a fight to stop a girl being pushed around only to have the guys mates all join in when I went over to stop them and pull her away from him. Suddenly had 5 guys attacking me.
NO! omg then you are a true bitch! Fighting is just... stupid so I rather first hug him and love him and then tell him to never do that again because he is far to precious to lose.
well it's very rare for a girl to initiate, and even if and when girls do initiate, they are not under the pressure, societal-expectation to initiate like us guys are
@Q/A How is that weird? No, I don't think so. I believe both genders can take care one another. Women have a nurturing nature and men are protective of their wives and children.
I hate being objectified, I hate when men try to grab my ass on the bus, I hate my biology, I hate the stud-slut theories (or else the lock- key analogy), I hate being judged mostly by my attractiveness, I do hate society's expectations and stereotypes of what women are supposed to be like, I hate the fear of being raped, I hate that women have to go through sacrificing their body and life when they get pregnant...
I have no control over it.
Wanna trade? I will gladly be the initiator/pursuer.
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Why would you get jealous and with that attitude someone's going to hurt you if you try and start fights.
because I hate that I have to take responsibility for my situation, I hate taking responsibility because I want things to happen when I want them to happen
So if you saw me with a girl you'd try and beat me and the girl up? Is that what you're saying ?
Depends on the couple but no just the guy only
Don't understand why you would fight me?
I got in a fight to stop a girl being pushed around only to have the guys mates all join in when I went over to stop them and pull her away from him. Suddenly had 5 guys attacking me.
NO! omg then you are a true bitch! Fighting is just... stupid so I rather first hug him and love him and then tell him to never do that again because he is far to precious to lose.
you girls expect guys to be strong, too damn strong
In my opinion a masculine man is a man who only fight to protect not a man who fights just because he was told sh*t or was challenged
yeah well often times I feel like fighting to vent out my anger and frustration for how life has to be so cruel and unfair
Their is no fairness with out cruelty gotta have both to make one happen
yeah well girls don't really need much in order to attract or get a guy
True, but we need a lot to keep him interested after the physical attraction passes
how? tell me specifically what do girls need to do in order to keep a guy interested after the physical attraction passes?
She has have personality it depends what the guy / girl is looking for in a partner
well girls don't really need to know how to talk right the way guys do since girls don't have to initiate anything
Some do Initiate because some guys are clue less ; I always have to initiate
well it's very rare for a girl to initiate, and even if and when girls do initiate, they are not under the pressure, societal-expectation to initiate like us guys are
It depends on the individuals , not all girls expect a guy to initiate but most do
yeah that's what I'm saying most girls expect guys to initiate, so much that guys can't be passive if they want success with women
she would, best thing to do is not get into a fight you can't win
if you lose start looking for an new girl
No, I would hug him and take care of him.
riiiight! (in dr evil's voice)
I don't really care about your disbelief. No offense, but I have nothing to prove.
hey lady. be careful. he will brainwash you.
i mean this @CasaNorba will brainwash you.
take care of him? that's weird isn't it the guys job to take care of the girl not the other way around?
@lachrymalmplant Lol
@Q/A How is that weird? No, I don't think so. I believe both genders can take care one another. Women have a nurturing nature and men are protective of their wives and children.
Well sometimes I feel I have to vent out my anger
I completely understand, trust me. I hate being a woman too. Honestly, I wish I were born a man. I would be happy. I know I would.
yeah I hate the cards I was dealt with that I have to be the initiator, pursuer
I agree with Tokusatsu
I hate being objectified, I hate when men try to grab my ass on the bus, I hate my biology, I hate the stud-slut theories (or else the lock- key analogy), I hate being judged mostly by my attractiveness, I do hate society's expectations and stereotypes of what women are supposed to be like, I hate the fear of being raped, I hate that women have to go through sacrificing their body and life when they get pregnant...
I have no control over it.
Wanna trade? I will gladly be the initiator/pursuer.
Never thought of it that way
What, you mean like shopping?
I would hug him.
why?
because he losts a fight; he is hurt physically and mentally. I need to be there for him not leave him.
But isn't the guy supposed to do the taking care of?
He doesn't supposed to do everything by himself in life especially when he is the one who is hurt. He is human, too.
ups, he isn't* supposed to
Yeah well girls expect him to lead
this has crossed my mind many times
I have a huge ego. My pride is always in the way
it depends.