A decent article. but definitely one that needs to be taken with a grain of salt.
Especially with the first one. I have low opinion of my father because of his actions, and we don't always get along but that doesn't mean I'm crazy. A better one would be "watch how she treats her parents" or "she has a bad relationship with her parents". Then edit the content of that one a little.
I need help, I started seeing this girl and well we have a lot of things in common and all, but just recently I asked het out well she said yes but then I find out she needed to think because I was sad all the time she said well I let her decide so it gets to now and well she finds another guy starts holding his hand and all come to find out how it struck me that she did that made me bust my hand through my wall later that night
I know this is an old post but I agree with Miss All Time Low down at the bottom. I happen to be one of those girls without a father who is always trying so hard in relationships but guys seem to prefer girls like the ones you've mentioned in your article.
And 7. What if she doesn't value sex because her guy is so bad at it? May be she loves him but sex becomes a process for her because he doesn't even know how to do it properly? think about that
I love how people are getting mad about his listed reasons without reading the explanation(s). I wish someone would've told me a few of these six months ago.
I think some of your points are too judgmental. Whoever completely follows your guide would never be able to settle down with a girl. Who doesn’t have or ever had an issue? The most import thing is how she deals with it. I don’t think anyone should be judged base he/her past experience. One the other hand, I totally agree No.7,8 &10.
You're right #2 is positive. I've read about many instances where someone noticed their partner was talking to their ex, only for them to cheat on them with their ex later on. Sorry that happened to you.
To make #2 negative would be if she's constantly complaining about her ex or goes out of her way to make her ex miserable or jealous.
i need to vehemently disagree with number 2! my last girlfriend talked to her exes and she ended up cheating on me with one of them and with my friend on the same day so no no no! number 2 is absolute horse shit!
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I’d have to agree with #1 I have issues with my dad but definitely have been in a relationship happy for 12 years 🤷🏻♂️ Maybe most girls but not all I can assure you
It sounds like though you had issues with your father, you didn't take them out on your present boyfriend. That is truly admirable, since this quality is exceedingly rare, takes a lot of maturity and intelligence, and should be treasured.
@Reggieray I mean, I think the past is the past ya know? If I spent all the time wonderin why he wasn’t there, than I would’nt be able to enjoy my life. I feel like a lot of people have trouble putting things past them and I get it, it’s not easy. But we all need to in order to like move past it
#1 is absolutely & positively 100% true and is definitely most important because no female with daddy issues can be in a healthy relationship with a male until she has resolved these feelings or let them go.
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A decent article. but definitely one that needs to be taken with a grain of salt.
Especially with the first one. I have low opinion of my father because of his actions, and we don't always get along but that doesn't mean I'm crazy. A better one would be "watch how she treats her parents" or "she has a bad relationship with her parents". Then edit the content of that one a little.
I need help, I started seeing this girl and well we have a lot of things in common and all, but just recently I asked het out well she said yes but then I find out she needed to think because I was sad all the time she said well I let her decide so it gets to now and well she finds another guy starts holding his hand and all come to find out how it struck me that she did that made me bust my hand through my wall later that night
It sounds like you need to talk to someone who can help you with insecurity and anger.
I know this is an old post but I agree with Miss All Time Low down at the bottom. I happen to be one of those girls without a father who is always trying so hard in relationships but guys seem to prefer girls like the ones you've mentioned in your article.
And 7. What if she doesn't value sex because her guy is so bad at it? May be she loves him but sex becomes a process for her because he doesn't even know how to do it properly? think about that
I love how people are getting mad about his listed reasons without reading the explanation(s). I wish someone would've told me a few of these six months ago.
I think some of your points are too judgmental. Whoever completely follows your guide would never be able to settle down with a girl. Who doesn’t have or ever had an issue? The most import thing is how she deals with it. I don’t think anyone should be judged base he/her past experience. One the other hand, I totally agree No.7,8 &10.
Issues with her mother are gonna be just as bad, if not worse. Also, all of this applies to guys as well.
2. She doesn't talk to her exes
I'm not sure how that's a negative. That's a positive for me. Last time a girl I was with talked to her ex, she cheated on me with her ex.
You're right #2 is positive. I've read about many instances where someone noticed their partner was talking to their ex, only for them to cheat on them with their ex later on. Sorry that happened to you.
To make #2 negative would be if she's constantly complaining about her ex or goes out of her way to make her ex miserable or jealous.
Haha I'm a girl and I gotta say these are pretty true lol
FIRST ONE IS AMAZINGLY TRUE !! omggggggggggggg!!!!
i need to vehemently disagree with number 2! my last girlfriend talked to her exes and she ended up cheating on me with one of them and with my friend on the same day so no no no! number 2 is absolute horse shit!
I’d have to agree with #1 I have issues with my dad but definitely have been in a relationship happy for 12 years 🤷🏻♂️ Maybe most girls but not all I can assure you
It sounds like though you had issues with your father, you didn't take them out on your present boyfriend. That is truly admirable, since this quality is exceedingly rare, takes a lot of maturity and intelligence, and should be treasured.
@Reggieray I mean, I think the past is the past ya know? If I spent all the time wonderin why he wasn’t there, than I would’nt be able to enjoy my life. I feel like a lot of people have trouble putting things past them and I get it, it’s not easy. But we all need to in order to like move past it
Wow, way to describe my ex! Seriously 9/10 of those are a perfect match.
Yes, this is so much more objective and open and so much less judgmental than bittergirl's rants!
Phheww...! 0/10. Thank God!
I guess I'm not so bad after all......lol.
Excellent article! Ha I'm a girl and I kno girls like that...oo those bi*ches lol
I've dated multiple women and many of the things on this list are true.
Nice job
#1 is absolutely & positively 100% true and is definitely most important because no female with daddy issues can be in a healthy relationship with a male until she has resolved these feelings or let them go.
I'm just here to see the amount of female who are triggered by this list. Lol. I do see some honest women here though.
What list?
So here it is in no particular order:
Then it stops. So where is the list?