Throw A Player A Twig But Give A Trunk To The Shy Guy. An Article On Shy Men For The Ladies (Page 4)

[Pandatoast313]

You are my f***ing hero lol! I have wanted girls to relize this for so long, fortunatly I have found a girl who has and I want other girls to relize that shy guys are awesome too, it is great to know that there is a girl that will finaly shed some light on this. Also let it be known that shy guys don't last forever, and depending on how he thinks, he could turn out to be a great guy with a bit more confidence(like me lol) or lose all hope in girls and turn into an ass. I've seen it first hand.

[itssimplekeepitreal]

Snackeyg - cheers, ha ha well - here is a good start!

tech - thank you! and definitely! they are worth it - as I'm dating one atm.

cali - fab :) I'm happy for you! honestly, just be straight up - since you've known him for a while - do something cute, like a cd of all his fav songs. tell him in a creative way - cause I can tell you - 'i like you' will not scare him - he'd probably do a little happy dance in his head! mail me. x

[itssimplekeepitreal]

Nashton - girls who will take from this article are ones who are looking to settle down - hang in there bbs :) she'll save you soon! x

jbird - cheers mate :) hah, you mean a huge shove :P it's really a small step but it is absolutely petrifying but DEFINITELY worth it! x

[Nashton]

Hmm...i guess I should just wait and meditate and see what happens...haha

but is hard to believe because in High School its hard to get over all that happened...

alot of ones ideals get instilled then weather you want or not.

girls from my end have alway looked over nice and shy guys...

i had a horrible story based on this fact/myth fyth?

so hearing this is like a mindfck...

[Neeceeb7]

So I'm angressive bisexual women who flirts aggressively with all women. Has nothing to do with their sexuality. And I will tell you they all love it. I'm almost six foot and very charasmatic. I love to pick women up literally off the ground. Everyone has told me it's a huge turn on to be handled that way. So I say manly men are gonna win. Handle that ass and they will be in love.

[SirRexington]

I liked this. It is very thoughtful and appreciated. Your mind seems to be opened. I'm not the shyest guy on Earth but I do lack some confidence with women for whatever reason, my anxiety disorder is likely to blame. I am very lonely and I'm not interested in slutty women. I need a friend, a companion, a loyal partner in crime.

I will open up eventually. I will also give you the affection you deserve, I won't let you do ALL the work.

[Dylan1989]

Wow, I absolutely love you! I know I'm late because I read this just now lol. But yeah, you bascially described who I am in every aspect. Too bad the kind of girls who think like you do are very rare to find. As well as you have written this, still not many girls will take the initiative to make the first move (which is also because us shy guys are just too shy). Nonetheless, this was a great article. Kudos to you!

[Gopnik]

i'm shy and withheld for a reason, i've had too much to deal with throughout my life not necessarily in the dating scene but more as a whole, i find it hard to come by someone who can relate to me, it's why i'm so specific with the personality of my "ideal" girlfriend.

[bellybuttonlint]

Clearly this article is written by a guy...NO GIRL EVER THINKS LIKE THIS. This IS IMPOSSIBLE. Do you realize how many chivalrous women will put a target on you?

But my gosh...this is an article that I've been looking for...too bad girls like you are like 1 in a million.

[JBird1000]

Oh man, I saw this and I had to read it. Its probably the best thing I've read today. me being somewhat of a shy guy, I had to comment on this. its true girls, if you talk to us and we talk back it means we're interested. You just have to give us that little nudge, or at least I usually need one lol. itssimplekeepitreal, you rock. probably because your from Australia, but still you rock for writing this.

[DakotaNorth]

My favourite sexy shy man's name is Michael. I try and try and try to connect with him. I'm his for the taking. I wish he would have given me his phone number. How long until I declare myself up for grabs? I met Jonathan just yesterday. He doesn't turn me on like Michael does, but he's sweet and he likes me. He's also shy.
Maybe I've been looking for love in all the wrong places.

[fueledbythc]

im the definition of a shy guy but im worse. i know the signs on when women are interested. i have a fear of having a girl get too personal with me. i just dont want to care because im too caring and passionate. ill get stressed and put too much for my own good that i need to be alone.

[onekindofgurl1]

Actually I just commented on this a minute ago..but I accidentally sent a message to this shy guy I like but he wasn't supposed to read it and in it he now knows how I feel and yeahh I don't know what's going on now lol

[crazy8000]

You need to be the one taking initiative, take charge, be the seducer, make the direct moves all the way to he begins to make them and still keep on doing a lot of initiative and direct moves just like you two already are what your after.

[sp33d]

So, what does that make you? An opportunistic sociopath libtard (love that word) bitch? (I'm just playing)

Shy guys are fine. We have a problem with an infestion of the pretentious assholes who just love playing the victim card. And who can blame the women? How can you tell the difference just like that? So she goes for something that, at least on the surface, looks, let's say, promising.

[pavlove]

Good article, but, please, stop with the "insecurities" talk. Every guy has a thousand insecurities the difference is shy guys believe in social caution. For instance, fat guys must have obvious insecurities, but they often are gregarious. Why? Because social caution was never an option for them. They realized early on that it sucks to put yourself out there and get rejected, but its even worse to isolate. Just some food for thought.

[Anonymous]

I would say nice article but the shy guys NEVER get the girl, took me about 10 years of working on myself to get rid of my shyness, and trust me as a former shy guy women are repulsed by shy men, they sent just not attracted to us they are litterly so repulsed by shy men’s existence, once I got over my shyness women started to take interest in me and now I’m super good with the ladies but ya being shy is worse than being morbidly obese in the dating world

[lost_soul]

Haha I'm a shy girl and its the same for us :) if people talk to me then I will talk back I just worry about how someone I don't know will react if I just start talking to them :| a really good article btw

[eSHkidd]

Fantastic article really. But I'm trying to be the best of both worlds. Strong, confident, and a leader in the relationship, while still caring about the girl and wanting to spend romantic time with her.

[CaliGirl27]

Best thing I have ever read!

This honestly gave me the courage to tell him!

I am not sure how though?

He follows everything you have said.

Do you know how I sould go about telling him without "scaring" him?

Great article!

[cth96190]

I was the type of man described in the article.
About age 30, I took the black pill and walked away.
Women are hard wired to crave abusive, emotionally unavailable, sociopathic bad boys.
The bad boys can have them. They deserve each other.