You sound like you’re drunk on ice cream or whatever women drown their tears with when they realize dudes have choices.
Feminism told you that you could sleep with hundreds of dudes, treat men as disposable & focus on not caring what men want... and times would be great till you’re 105 years old. The fact that the woman who created Sex & the City renounced it & everything the show said when she got older should be a hint for ya.
You see, I would agree with you but you are missing out on one vital thing- in real life, you really DON'T have choices and standards that you make out to be. Listen, I can understand that there are some nasty women that treat men as disposable, but your other sin is thinking that we are all like this. I also stated that not all men feel this way.
But considering you feel personally attacked, well you should think about why. Carry on
There is a little bit of truth to this post, as there are plenty of women in their older years who are being pursued by lots of guys especially younger ones, myself included before I got into a relationship.
However, there are still plenty of bad looking guys out there who are getting chicks, because it's how they play the game. I'm appalled by some of them myself and their slimy ways, but the fact that these guys can get chicks says more about the chicks than it does about the guy. I think one of the big problems with women and their egos today is that it bothers them that guys could ever get a woman so easily. Women feel threatened by it because they think that's how it's supposed to go for only them, and feel that their ability to attract is now challenged. But as much as they would like to believe that they can always get a guy more than vice versa, plenty of guys are getting plenty of chicks without much effort.
@nelly83 80% of the time, that's true. But the top 20% of men are attacked aggressively by women as a whole. Imagine the lead singers in bands, women throwing panties on stage. That kind of thing.
In general, men chase women. But high value men are chased, and they can also chase if they want, making them the most privileged in the realm of dating.
I'm fairly high value, myself. I don't really have to chase. I wait. At my level, women don't pounce, but they do linger and subtely attempt to catch my attentiob
@nelly83 That doesn't really matter. Regardless of whether a guy is chasing or not, if his game is good- even if he's bad looking or an asshole - he still gets the chicks.
@ManOnFire, your game can only be good if you Aged well into your 30s. There are also many guys who haven’t aged well. This is when girls call them creeps or attack them.
@ChurchOfSteel most men are not high value unless you are super duper handsome and aged well into your 30s. You may think that looks don’t matter but good looking guys get girls approaching them.
The rest of the average looking dudes or even slightly below average looking ones need to approach women in order to get noticed.
Men think that their looks don’t matter, but trust me, from my experience, if you’re gorgeous , you will have women throwing themselves and hitting on you all the time. You will be able to sleep around so much without lifting a finger. I had a guy friend who had 7 women lined up for friends with benefits right after breaking up with his girlfriend
@ManOnFire, here’s the thing about women: they must find something intriguing about you which either can be looks, personality , or being a bad boy. You must have one of these 3 in order to attract women. Generally speaking , good looking guys get hit on. The rest of the guys must approach. I can tell you from experience, gorgeous men do not have to approach. They already get approached.
And guys think that showing off their money will help them find love. 80 percent of the time, it’ll just attract gold digger wives. Kinda like you show your breasts to find love. Sure it can get a mans attention but most of them would just be perverts or people who want one night stands.
These preferece studies are valid from a hypothetical point of view only. Probably for fertility reasons men of any age appear to prefer on average 23 year old females as (sex) partners. In their men's phantasy world that is. In reality us men try to prefer the best woman we can get. When it comes to serious relationships beauty/age are one factor among many. Little use to invest heavily into a 25 years younger wife that will leave you anyway once she finds a better match. After all, if we only want a young and attractive sex-partner, we can simply pay for sex.
Also: Men who see themselves as less attractive will rarely attempt to hit on highly attractive females. This actually holds true for both sexes: "Try to punch just a little above your own wheight" appears to be the dominant mating strategy among humans.
Wow someone sure is triggered your points doesn't even support what you're saying hell your first two points is just bashing men lol. You can say what you want, but when you put a woman in her 20's with a woman in her 30's or older the woman in her 20's will be more desirable.
And you're talking about how older women can get guys. Well no crap pretty much any woman can find a guy. If you're talking about a long lasting relationship tho that's a different story.
Cause then most men start taking into account a lot more things than just looks. For example age, your body count, if you have kids, and so on.
Guys are horny so if they just want to get laid then you age isn't a factor. Hell looks might not even be a factor either.
It's just like getting a job. You might have an impressing looking resume, but you might fail the interview.
Why should a woman want your worthless and undesireable ass by your logic then? You think we as young women in our early 20s date men over 30? The women who date older men mainly do that for their money and nothing more.
Haha name calling? Well not all young women are desirable.
Well did I say young women only date guys in their 30's? Did you even look at the article the op posted?
I'm saying most guys prefer younger women. And then I listed reasons why.
Haha I don't think you should be generalizing all women like that. Saying women in their 20's going out with guys in their 30's gold diggers is a big insult to women.
I have a friend that's 30 and his wife is 26. They're happily married with a baby.
So.. hey if you want to only date guys younger than you go for it. Just make sure they're not a minor.
The age gap is only 4. Actually the average age gap in couple is 2 years or max 5. It is just pathetic to see men in their 30s thinking that they are entitled to degrade women over 30 and can date women in their early 20s
@hi_it_is_me123: Plenty of women on their 20s date guys 10 years older. Why? Because we aren't the same person at 35 that we were at 25- we are more experienced, confident and interesting, nothing per se to do with money.
@hellacracy Did you idiot worthless idiot delete my comment? I am saying that no woman date that older man for love lmao. They use them either as toyboy or for money. Nobody like fugly old creeps
@Avicenna statistics disprove with you. "Plenty of women on their 20s date guys 10 years older. Why? Because we aren't the same person at 35 that we were at 25- we are more experienced, confident and interesting, nothing per se to do with money." Same for women. You just date younger women because they are naive and innocent and can't stant stronger mature woman
@hellacracy it is also funny that male cunts care about woman's bodycount. Or maybe because they are afraid and dont want women to see their terrible sex performance. I just have enough that old creeps think we are interested in them. Go fucking date someone your age.
@hi_it_is_me123: Nope, I actually prefer a woman in her 30s for a serious relationship and childbearing, but you're mistaken about the younger women's alleged naivete and the reason guys date them. Beyond the more youthful appearance lies a more important reason- women under 25 are much more likely to be single than women in their 30s, and even less likely to already have a kid. Furthermore, tha younger women often don't want anything serious at all, which shows they know what they want and certainly aren't naive. They generally know they can exploit their looks and age.
Again I'm just telling you why men prefer younger women through a man's perspective. You don't have to like it if you don't want to.
But insulting men for having a preference and opinion I've got to say is pretty immature and pathetic.
If you want a man that's your age or younger that's also a virgin. Well good for you. I'm not going to throw insults at you if that's the kind of guy you want.
Again assuming the guy you want isn't a minor. If you're interested in underage boys well... That's a different story.
You dont understand it. Men like you should not complain then if women want handsome, young wealthy men. Why do women get shamed for their preferences while you can make fun of womrn over 30s. You can prefere wtf you want but degrading women just because of her age is pathetic and disgusting of you.
Anyway it does not even matter what guys want. In the end women dont choose that old guys since the age difference is statistically max 2-4 years. So women mainly marry someone in their age range and so men over 30s also date some their age. I just have enough getting called shallow and bad by guys for rejecting them although they are the one who want me due to my age and youth. It is fucking hypocritical. You should not decide what is desirable or not. By doing that you are objectifying women. Do you also do that to men? If not, you are hypocritical
@hellacray. Just so you know @hi_it_is_me123 is a sex worker, yet she comes on here and bitches about men wanting younger women... basically she is complaining about the men who pay her bills.
@KrakenAttackin shut tf up pedophil bastard. I am not a sex worker. You are the only cunt here. A single dad aka an used worthless shit with baggage. You are just mad that no woman want you due to your baggage. I am sorry for your daughter that he has a pedo das talking to young women like that. Fuck off you old creep
I've stopped reading when you said "a hole is a hole". Pathetic feminist bullshit trying to make men look like all they want is to fuck. You want a "wake-up" call? Most of us guys are looking for love and a good partner as much as girls. But if you have the same attitude with the guys you talk to than you have in this... thing, no wonder none of them would want more than a quickie.
Oh you big mad. Well sweetie if you are so desperate for love then how come you dont have it then? Oh wait, you are going to go for either the: 1) I already have a fiance/girlfriend 2) Because you women are evil so it leaves me no choice.
How did I do?
When I crudely said that a hole is a hole, I was merely implying that you men don't really have standards. From what I have been seeing in real life, my God- you wouldn't know what standards are if it bit you on the ass.
Then you actually lie to yourself and others saying that you have standards and prefer perky 20 year old women? HA!
As expected, you're nothing more than a bitter and hateful bitch, who's here only to complain about those evil, terrible men who are so stupid and horny, unworthy of such a queen like you. Well guess what, with an attitude like that, a take like that, and a reply like that, all you've proven is that you're not even worth the attention of a man with no standards :) Look at the poor little princess, who can't get herself a submissive dog that she can use to her will and is mad about it. Stay mad, bitch.
Ohhhhhhh HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA! Oh I am a bitch. Hey gentlemen and ladies, this is what a fuckboy looks like! How funny that your true colours come out.
Tell me something, do you sleep with HAND-gela more than actual women ;)
Sweetheart I would rather not be able to come up with a single comeback than being unable to read- I said BIG MAD!!! Oh this is hilarious. Go cuddle a dictionary
Oh I can totally read. And you've written quite a lot of bullshit here :) Just because you vaguely tried to put a cliché line in there to pretend you didn't aim at all men doesn't mean the reality of what you mean isn't obvious. And all of your replies, to me and other men so far, proved that you're indeed the bitter, hateful bitch I expected to find.
Listen sweetie, here is the deal. I see many many MAAAAAAAANY "butt hurt" (is that the word you like to use?) men here that bitch, moan, complain about how ALL women are bitches, whores and what have you because of their past experiences. I just read and move on and at no point did it ever occur to me that they were speaking to me because I know myself that I am not their exes.
The reason why it didn't offend me is because it just didn't speak to me nor did it hit home with me.
But the fact that you went all psychotic and called me a bitch and what have you, it shows that this does speak to you. That you ARE a grown boy. Not a man.
Now maybe you will one day meet the right woman and you will change, but considering that you are showing psychotic and toxic behaviour is a sign that the following fates will come of you - Either you will be in jail for rape and murder -You yourself will get killed by someone because of your stupidity. - You will die very old and alone
Now I hope neither comes about but I am just saying that it clearly shows you are the type who is a very toxic individual. You need to change <3
Oh but I was moving on, you know, before some crazy enraged bitch started ranting about how men are bad and how they're just horny animals :) And please, don't try me with that "I'm not offended" crap. You've proven that you're in fact ultra mad, and that you couldn't accept that I'm not buying into your pathetic hateful and sexist take. How about YOU move on, since you're supposedly not offended? :) Or will you just keep vomiting your insults? Also, I've never talked about all women. Just you. You're trying to make it about all women because you don't want to be alone, drowning in your own mediocrity. You're mad, you're a bitch, and that's all there is to it.
@Guanfei I don't understand why you are attacking her. She is just saying that older women should have more confidence in themselves and relay less on men for validation. This is bc older, single women face a lot of prejudice in society. We are told that we have no value, are infertile, and my favorite: "spent our 20s going to college and being sluts" all of which are Misconceptions and likely derived from watching too many pornos. I'm sorry that you can not understand this by this post
@Julietchicago Nope, that's not what she said. All of her rant is attacking men, even when adressing women, it's still to tell that men are bad. And I'm tired of reading the same bullshit over and over again.
@Guanfei I so agree with you... You didn't start attacking her first she did like she did anyone not agreeing... People need to know the difference between offended and disagreeing... Just another person that wants to blame the opposite gender for why they can't find someone. Med aren't the problem her attitude about and to men is... You can't communicate with someone like that because she can't hear past her own thoughts she thinks are facts... Ain't worth arguing with someone with deaf ears...
@Brainsbeforebeauty and @Aak1980 perhaps I shouldn't have said "a hole is a hole" I said that out of anger and passion which I can definitely admit and it was very gross of me to do so. I am sorry
I think it all depends on what your intentions are when dating to. I mean I don't think older women are useless or washed up or anything like that.
But for someone like me who's wanting to have a family younger women are preferably simply because being younger makes that whole process easier. Because whether you like it or not the older you get the less eggs you have the harder it is to get pregnant and the more dangerous it becomes for both you and the baby. And those things only increase with age.
But for me personally If it wasn't for the above facts I wouldn't have any issues with dating an older woman. And ideally I prefer someone my age or a few years younger or 2-3 years younger. But because life is unpredictable I'm not gonna flat out say I couldn't end up with a older women either.
Every time I see a female say "a hole is a hole" in reference to how men think, I can't help but get a little offended that you honestly would believe that men are that simple. Yes, we desire women, and yes we desire most women, but we still see you as individuals and not just a hole. Maybe some men do, but certainly not the majority of us. I just wish that most men have to bear the stereotypes because of what a few men do.
This Take isn't meant to offend those who don't fall into the category. I dont get offended when some women do stupid things because I am not those type of women. SO there is no need to get offended.
Well... I. NOT SURE I COULD HAVE PUT THAT ANY BETTER... BUT FOR REAL.. you women need to stop being so damn self-loathing and just believe in your power and self at all times. Men are animals.. Me being one myself.. we sense weakness, feeling of self doubt. Most guys will pray on that and try to take advantage. You are no less attractive or desirable in your 30s than in your 20s... men perfer 20s because women are less aware of out tactics in trying to get a new toy. As many younger women are seen... but in your 30s. You are more keen to our bullshit and so more guarded and less likely to just give it to temptation. That being said... being too standoffish is your main downfall. Be careful about us... But not OVERLY CAREFUL... FOR NO RISK PRESENTS NO REWARD..
1. All women can get phone numbers because all women have a pussy. How many high quality attractive men want to marry you is the measure of your desirability. Id fuck a cute 30 or 40 year old but i wouldn't marry her under any circumstance because she's old as hell.
2. If men lose their value too. Why am i 33 with a 22 and a 24 year old girlfriend? Obviously im at a top sexual value to women and i chose 20 something year olds because i far prefer them to older women.
3. If older women had nice attitudes about being old and were more realistic they wouldn't be so undesirable. For example where you said about how men should be an accessory... yeah. you're undateable in my opinion. However if you said here's how i fucked up and yeah im not at the top of my game and here's how im making up for it... well that older woman probably got a decent boyfriend.
@bamesjond0069 dude let's assume for a second that what you are saying is true. 1. You either trash because you are cheating on them or they are trash becaus ethye know about each other and continue with this. 2. Since fitness culture kicked in I can easely go to instagram and find fitness models that will be over 30 and way hotter than any of the girls you are dating. 4. I remember you saying on another question that you didn't dated girl with jobs, so either you lied or they are gold diggers. 5. You are the kind of guy that would feel his dick get smaller the second he wouldn't fell like he had full power in his relationship. So anyone you have is probably a no brain, jobless bimbo with no capacity or inteligence. 6. All of this assuming I believe you. No one here does.
@ThisIsMyOpinion 1. They know about each other and are friends. They are both church girls who never would have done something like this except for me.
2. Yeah right. We all go to the gym together. One is a chef and specializes in healthy eating.
No 3 so 4... no girl im with will have a job with a boss or one that takes a lot of time. girlfriend 1 is an independent writer and works about 3 hours a week and makes about $2000 a month. Gf2 is new and still has a job but i expect her to work a couple hours a week scheduling my appointments for my work or something similar.
5. you're the bimbo who couldnt count to 3. So no they aren't that dumb.
@bamesjond0069 1. So they know about each other? Then they are trash.
2. They know about each other and you all go to the gym together? 😂 A big happy family you have there in your imagination. Come one you really expect anyone to believe this?
3. Ya I leap right into 4 before. Still to actually accept to share a partner like that, they are far dumber than someone that can't read or count. Asides fr no self respect.
4. So they know about each other, they go to the gym together with you and they match their job hours to match your needs? Did you buy them at the slave auction?
5. You don't need to say anything. The more you talk the more I realize those two girls came from Narnia! Either that or they are being threaten with a gun. Last chance is they are gold diggers. Because no good woman will ever submit herself to that.
@bamesjond0069 do u even know what you sound like? You sound like you have the maturity of an angry 8 yr old boy. Now how can a Mature Sane grown women be interested in you
@bamesjond0069 I don’t think you have any woman who loves you in your life. You don’t have a job either. You’re most likely a bald old man aging , exiting his prime , living on disability income with your Mother still washing your dishes for you
@bamesjond0069 everyone on gAg knows you're a fraud. You are obviously unemployed and single. Here:
1. You said before that you have one girlfriend, so where did the 2 come from? Will it be 3 tomorrow?
2. Writers working 3 hours a week don't make 2k... more like 200. Another lie.
3. You said on another post that you worked in porn, yet you couldn't name your production company or city.. you said this because you are against sex trafficked victims and wanted to discredit them
4. You claim to be religious. Religious men don't fuck 2 women unless they are occult leaders like David Keresh, which you are not
5. You claimed to have fucked a ton of girls while shaming girls who sleep around. Again, religious men don't sleep around. That's hypocrisy.
6. Most likely you are a 22 yo virgin and you live w your folks
@6suejsjsj nahh most people wanna get married. When they say they don’t get married , it’s cus most men are complete crap nowadays , like you. Nobody wants to marry your crap and if they do, they divorce u 5 years later
@6suejsjsj I am married. It's not about marrying, it's about who you marry. Many men chose the wrong women to marry and end up unhappy. You need to be sure of who she is and that your marriage will not be different from your dating days.
@6suejsjsj What did marriage had before that it doesn't today? Still the same thing. Two people make a religious and/or civil contract to stay faithful and together.
@bamesjond0069 yo, we already know you're a fake. You don't have a girlfriend. And you weren't a porn star...2 of your prior claims. Stop trolling and get a fucking life
Honestly I think guys are more desperate for validation from women though. Why do you think guys are so hell bound about getting ass and it's not just about sex but the ego stroke competition wise to other men, getting their approval and getting the validation from feeling sexually desired by women. Men depend on women to get this validation though
You make a point I always thought those types were animals who are motivated by hormones and not consequences, but men who need an ego stroke as well are out there, interesting.
My girlfriend left me for a 28 year old guy saying I am immature. Which I am not. I don’t waste my time playing games. Can cook , clean and others things all by myself. She defined my maturity based on my resources. I was 23 , in uni getting masters , I can’t get more resources than some guy 5 years older than me. There’s a huge lie women love to tell the self and others than women are more mature than men in younger ages. They become sexually mature , but not mentally.. So there will always be plenty of girls who will leave their same age bfs for 30 year old guys
The good news is you have something to look forward to. I can remember my dream girl in college who hooked up with a guy 10 years older than me. He was chubby and short. The only thing he had going for him is he graduated from law school.
To be fair I had conversed with him before I knew about this. He actually was a nice guy of all things and treated me cool. So I can’t disparage him for being a “d bag”.
Anyway in my late 20s I started getting LOTS more action with girls 19 to 23. As long as you don’t become a fat ass slob you got more to look forward to. Late 20s and early 30s is hook up primetime for guys who at least have SOME game and keep themselves in shape.
I am sorry she left you for him. But don't kid yourself thinking she left you jsut because he already had a job and resources that you didn't have. That is not a reason for a girl to leave you. Not a good girl at least. My wife and I were dating when I was just a year older than you. She already had a job and I was on my last year of university. Not only she didn't leave but also was a great support for me. Why because she really loved me. You simply have to find one that also loves you. Trully loves you.
@bluetoblack99 is right bro. Women get the power in the sexual marketplace when they're young, men get it when we're 30-35+. We also don't lose much: we get hotter as time goes on.
Take this time to build yourself. And to understand women. And, when it comes down to it, you have to learn how to pump alpha traits. But in a nice, "unaffected' way. Check out 21Studios on Youtube, if you have some wisdom.
Fundamentally, if you would have given your girl what she needed and wanted, she would never have left for a 30 year old guy or more.
@heartonmysleeve88 you are right older guys are not more mature. They just know how to play the game better bc of experience. Also, they get more desperate, so they have to be nice. Some girls are dumb enough to buy into this
I'm sorry that happened to you. It sounds like saying you were "immature" was an excuse to leave you for a guy with more money (since you said she blamed your so-called "immaturity" on a lack of resources) without sounding like a gold digger. The good news is you probably dodged a bullet with her.
@aWes0MeNeSs no she was right , I was immature. Otherwise why would I cooked for her days even when I was ill, bought medicine at night , took care of her when she was ill or had an accident... in return she mostly treated me poorly , bad words , judging , saying bad if cooking was delayed by some time... men should never give a fuck... I am not falling for stupidity anymore... Guys should always treat women like they don't give a fuck that's what most women like much...
@OpinionOwner, sounds like she was bipolar. I had an ex who treated me the same. Please don't let that experience taint you from finding someone nice and being abusive in return does nothing but continue the cycle of anger
Just take this as a lesson. by the way if a girl never says thank you or worse complains about you doing nice things for her then you need to respect yourself and ditch her ASAP. Easier said than done But there is no substitute for respect. I once ghosted a girl who never said thank you when I paid for meals. I kept an eye on her. After she did this 3 times in a row I made my decision. Don’t regret it at all.
@bluetoblack99 after she left , I also stopped contact , after several months the guys left her and she tried to contact me saying all sorry and blah blah... sent several texts... I never replied or picked any calls... I forgive people easily but if I am done... I am done and never going back... no matter what
Funny how men over 30 think young women in their early 20s would date them. Like who tf are you to degrade women due to their age. This is why I often use these old motherfuckers for their money and then they cry and threat me with suicide bullshit but they are the one who date me for my age and youth and shallow reasons. I mean young women dont want your old ass and the mgtow male cunts use kids as an excuse to not be seen as shallow. Kids my ass. Just say you are shallow and prefere young women although you are old and fugly. If older women were the only ones who are more attractive and seem youthful, all these meninazis would prefere older women although they are not fertil more. This is why only prefere men my age or younger
@TallJess then there's a lot of trash to wade through to begin looking for anything. Besides men value youth and beauty while women value resources and security in general.
@t-8900 don't think that women don't want an attractive partner. If what you say was true we would all want an old rich man. We don't. We want an equal partner. More than ever today women want an equal partner. Not a guy that reminds us of our dads!
@t-8900 anybody with money can get good looking men and women. I know good looking men marrying older richer women. Statistically women marry someone in their age rank. The max age gap is 2-5 years. So yeah women do marry older men but only 2 years older not 10+ years older fugly old men
That's something biological. The purpose of a heterosexual relationship is having kids, and women are more fertile from 20s to 30s. As rational beings we have of course gotten over the mere biological goal of marriage and are able to stick to one partner and cherish and value them regardless of many things. But it's also pointless to pretend that there is no biological basis to prefer a 20 something woman that a 30 something. I believe your text is very degrading. Who are you to say that a woman is desperate, or that a man is not the prize? You live your life and let other women live theirs without unfair stereotypes where we need to live as men in order to have value. Smh.
I simply wonder; why did you read the article and internalize it so? Certainly, being 32 and possibly resembling some of the attributes therein must have apparently “got your goat.” Transexualized women are the real reason many are wondering; “where are all the economically attractive men?” Try applying your own advice to yourself and some common sense irl over reaction to internet articles.
Oh you big mad. Want a lollipop? There there. You obviously are too mad to make sense of what I was trying to say. I was trying to encourage women to uplift themselves and not think that they are expiring which in turn they say "where are the economically attractive men". It is sad that when a woman finally had enough of all this whinging and whining because it will obviously threaten you and hold you accountable in the future (I hope it does, oh I hope it does) that you believe it is "transexualised".
And I wonder too, you also read my article and internalised it. Good :) Have a good day
I scanned it (didn’t open the article) and just spoke my first impulse is all. It has nothing to do with “mad” as in anger, but maybe as in insanity for dropping in. Threatened? How? Because you are going to cut me off? Oh.. No!
You angry critters have been screaming at the wind now for 50 years. Nothing has changed recently as you infer.
The problem is, society tells women to place their value in looks and for men to place their value in their income. It is easy to get lost into the entire standard of how a man or woman is supposed to live and that is why knowing who you are and your purpose will help you flourish. Prime example, social media.
It doesn’t matter. Men can say they prefer anything they want, but can they actually get what they want? Most men simply don’t have the options. Women have the upper hand when it comes to options for dating, relationships, and Yes even marriage. This is true for women at any age.
That kind of shit never happens unless she has some kind of mental illness. There's so many swinging dick's in this world, the only thing a lady has to do is bounce-her-booty and those male-dogs will follow her anywhere!
Like I said on my post here... While it's true that women can get guys way easier than the other way around. But that is because of the riddiculous amount of desperate guys that are out there. Quality guys don't really follow that "A hole is a hole" mindset.
@ThisIsMyOpinion / You're talking about a quality mindset in "America"; when the president is bragging about grabbing pussy? It's about time for you to step away from the orange Kool-Aid, my son.
You can get but not keep. Any guy would sleep with any hot girl but will not stick around in the morning. If you wanna keep you got to try harder than think all men want is a "a hole" because is not all men want. If you think that that then that's what you gonna get.
@ThisIsMyOpinion "While it's true that women can get guys way easier than the other way around."
Correction... Women can get "sex" way easier then Men. But when it comes to marriage, that's all Men!!! Take an ugly Man with a job, and he can find a single mother to marry in a heartbeat. Now take an ugly woman with a job, and she may never find a man to marry her!
I've read many of your posts. Sorry, but I've just got to say: "In My Opinion," you're an attention-seeking douche. I imagine any male acquaintances you have, likely think the same thing.
@Baronace Actually not just for sex for a relationship too. If you wnat to even hope to start an relationship you need attention. That someone gives you the time of day otherwise you don't even have the chance to have a relationship. Girls get that attention easy from a no number of guys.
There are many desperate guys around. Single mothers don't just throw themselves around waiting for someone to say yes, unlike many guys do.
This is a site about questions. So my name fits, if you have any issue with it, well to bad.
You are 50. I am not surprised with you views about this.
@ThisIsMyOpinion - "Single mothers don't just throw themselves around waiting for someone to say yes, unlike many guys do."
What planet do you live on? You couldn't be more wrong. Single middle-aged mothers are like cats in heat. They are looking to put their hooks into anything they can get their hands on. Conversely, most 30-somthing men are avoiding commitment until they find the perfect match.
"You are 50. I am not surprised with you views about this."
And you're only 28. And your comments verify it...
@Baronace Same as you, but I don't just read stuff morons put online and believe it instead of actually looking around or thinking for a second. If you really think that single mothers lose all their standards just because they are single mothers? Having a kid doesn't make them lose all sense, reason, desire and pride.
I have a desired age range, + or - 3 years from my age. I've been attracted to women 30+, but that doesn't change anything. I want a woman physically my age, but mentally older. That may sadly take until I am that age to find, but I haven't given up. If I were in my 30s and single, then I might expand my search up to 5 years difference as this is the max difference before adverse effects start to show in marriages. If I miraculously was never married by 40, then I would only look younger, because I still would like to start a family. So yes, youth has a longer advantage, but it matters while your young. I expect to be with a woman in her late twenties or early thirties while I'm in my early thirties. Your not my age, but I still think you look pretty at 32. Marriage statistics show an increase risk of divorce every year past 5. So I weigh that into my decision with women, but what truly matters is her faith in God.
The age gap is max 2-4 years. So a young woman is going to marry someone in her age range. Anyway why should a young woman marry someone old? Dont use kids as an excuse
They could not really have a choice when it comes to partner. None would marry a fugly old creep if they had the choice like today. It is the minority who marry 7-10 years older man
@hi_it_is_me123 I completely agree. I’m not attracted to most 35 yr old men. Many of their skin look like crap , white hairs , balding , gaining weight. And then the woman haters in here like to spread lies that we find that shit attractive.
@hi_it_is_me123 many guys here fail to realise that women want good looking men too. Most likely ugly dudes who think they will get all the women they want when they are over 30 😂
@TallJess True, most girls DO want good looking men. Actually, looks are being underestimated. I can say looks matter as much as the inside if not more.
@TallJess I know girls of my age who date dudes in their 30s. Not sure where you got those statistics from, from your ass apparentely lol. But yes, most girls in their 20s date guys their age and slightly older
@TruthBringer You are either making stuff up, or you are making stuff up. I have for sure more female friends than you and they don't date guys in their 30s
@TallJess Nope, I know them personally. I used to be in class with them. I also got them on social media and see them in the gym sometimes. So conversations happen. And I can assure you, they are dating dudes in their 30s. They also moved in with them. Just because you got female friends who don’t date guys in their 30s, doesn’t mean there aren’t women who do. Bringing exceptions to the rule doesn’t disregard the rule, sweetie.
@TruthBringer You think that me insulting you is because you triggered my emotions? On your own words, I did it because I can honey. It's easy to know that you don't have a graps on reality just like many guys here and it's fun to poke you with a stick to see what comes out xD
"A hole is a hole." But what's in her mind, what are her values, what are her beliefs, ethics, goals, etc... determines whether or not she makes the picture a greater WHOLE! And I care much more about that, than I do about getting the willy wet.
The fact that you got offended by my Take signifies that you may identify with those fuckboys that I stated. I obviously didn't mean ALL men. But hey, I just put the words there. You took it upon yourself to be offended. Wy is that? :)
Because most of my life, I've been mistaken for a f*kboy. And then when the girl learns to truth of what I'm after, she can't process it; so she goes back and defaults to the only mindset she knows. And I get frustrated that in spite that pretty face, there is nothing but a lizard underneath. So I move along, and only find more lizard women. Or I find one who isn't a lizard in hiding; and then she dies suddenly. It's a tragic loop, from which I can't ever seem to escape.
Yeah, I walk on eggshells now. There's a vendor gal for Coke that I kinda like, but she's super shy, and got rid of her Facebook account because of it. Then there's the other one, who's a little too bold. I see the shy one as potential wife material in a pinch, if I can convince her to open up. The other one? Has her good moments, but comes off like a jail yard shotcaller. Not a safe bet. She also seems to prefer talking to the bad boys. A fiery redhead, but I fear behind those Gray eyes, just another lizard.
At least she isn't a cowardly Potiphar wife, pulling MeToo BS on anyone who looks at her funny. I can't stand women like that.
Even so, when my options are a timid mouse and a psychotic woman-child, I'm probably better off single for now.
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You sound like you’re drunk on ice cream or whatever women drown their tears with when they realize dudes have choices.
Feminism told you that you could sleep with hundreds of dudes, treat men as disposable & focus on not caring what men want... and times would be great till you’re 105 years old. The fact that the woman who created Sex & the City renounced it & everything the show said when she got older should be a hint for ya.
Carry on.
You see, I would agree with you but you are missing out on one vital thing- in real life, you really DON'T have choices and standards that you make out to be. Listen, I can understand that there are some nasty women that treat men as disposable, but your other sin is thinking that we are all like this. I also stated that not all men feel this way.
But considering you feel personally attacked, well you should think about why. Carry on
There is a little bit of truth to this post, as there are plenty of women in their older years who are being pursued by lots of guys especially younger ones, myself included before I got into a relationship.
However, there are still plenty of bad looking guys out there who are getting chicks, because it's how they play the game. I'm appalled by some of them myself and their slimy ways, but the fact that these guys can get chicks says more about the chicks than it does about the guy. I think one of the big problems with women and their egos today is that it bothers them that guys could ever get a woman so easily. Women feel threatened by it because they think that's how it's supposed to go for only them, and feel that their ability to attract is now challenged. But as much as they would like to believe that they can always get a guy more than vice versa, plenty of guys are getting plenty of chicks without much effort.
I think it’s the other way around. Guys are always the ones asking girls out and doing all the approaching and chasing women. Women just sit and wait.
@nelly83 80% of the time, that's true. But the top 20% of men are attacked aggressively by women as a whole. Imagine the lead singers in bands, women throwing panties on stage. That kind of thing.
In general, men chase women. But high value men are chased, and they can also chase if they want, making them the most privileged in the realm of dating.
I'm fairly high value, myself. I don't really have to chase. I wait. At my level, women don't pounce, but they do linger and subtely attempt to catch my attentiob
@nelly83 That doesn't really matter. Regardless of whether a guy is chasing or not, if his game is good- even if he's bad looking or an asshole - he still gets the chicks.
@ManOnFire, your game can only be good if you Aged well into your 30s. There are also many guys who haven’t aged well. This is when girls call them creeps or attack them.
@nelly83 I think you need to get out more.
@ChurchOfSteel most men are not high value unless you are super duper handsome and aged well into your 30s. You may think that looks don’t matter but good looking guys get girls approaching them.
The rest of the average looking dudes or even slightly below average looking ones need to approach women in order to get noticed.
Men think that their looks don’t matter, but trust me, from my experience, if you’re gorgeous , you will have women throwing themselves and hitting on you all the time. You will be able to sleep around so much without lifting a finger. I had a guy friend who had 7 women lined up for friends with benefits right after breaking up with his girlfriend
@ManOnFire, here’s the thing about women: they must find something intriguing about you which either can be looks, personality , or being a bad boy. You must have one of these 3 in order to attract women. Generally speaking , good looking guys get hit on. The rest of the guys must approach. I can tell you from experience, gorgeous men do not have to approach. They already get approached.
And guys think that showing off their money will help them find love. 80 percent of the time, it’ll just attract gold digger wives. Kinda like you show your breasts to find love. Sure it can get a mans attention but most of them would just be perverts or people who want one night stands.
These preferece studies are valid from a hypothetical point of view only. Probably for fertility reasons men of any age appear to prefer on average 23 year old females as (sex) partners. In their men's phantasy world that is.
In reality us men try to prefer the best woman we can get. When it comes to serious relationships beauty/age are one factor among many. Little use to invest heavily into a 25 years younger wife that will leave you anyway once she finds a better match.
After all, if we only want a young and attractive sex-partner, we can simply pay for sex.
Also: Men who see themselves as less attractive will rarely attempt to hit on highly attractive females. This actually holds true for both sexes: "Try to punch just a little above your own wheight" appears to be the dominant mating strategy among humans.
Wow someone sure is triggered your points doesn't even support what you're saying hell your first two points is just bashing men lol. You can say what you want, but when you put a woman in her 20's with a woman in her 30's or older the woman in her 20's will be more desirable.
And you're talking about how older women can get guys. Well no crap pretty much any woman can find a guy. If you're talking about a long lasting relationship tho that's a different story.
Cause then most men start taking into account a lot more things than just looks. For example age, your body count, if you have kids, and so on.
Guys are horny so if they just want to get laid then you age isn't a factor. Hell looks might not even be a factor either.
It's just like getting a job. You might have an impressing looking resume, but you might fail the interview.
Why should a woman want your worthless and undesireable ass by your logic then? You think we as young women in our early 20s date men over 30? The women who date older men mainly do that for their money and nothing more.
Haha name calling? Well not all young women are desirable.
Well did I say young women only date guys in their 30's? Did you even look at the article the op posted?
I'm saying most guys prefer younger women. And then I listed reasons why.
Haha I don't think you should be generalizing all women like that. Saying women in their 20's going out with guys in their 30's gold diggers is a big insult to women.
I have a friend that's 30 and his wife is 26. They're happily married with a baby.
So.. hey if you want to only date guys younger than you go for it. Just make sure they're not a minor.
The age gap is only 4. Actually the average age gap in couple is 2 years or max 5. It is just pathetic to see men in their 30s thinking that they are entitled to degrade women over 30 and can date women in their early 20s
And who are to decide when women are desirable or not. You are just reducing woman's on her age which makes you shallow.
Lol did you even read my post? I'm telling you how men think. And you're the one that pretty much called women gold diggers for dating older men.
If anyone is shallow it's you hun.
Like I said before if you're into younger guys good for you. Well I prefer younger women.
A lot of guys prefer women younger than them.
@hi_it_is_me123: Plenty of women on their 20s date guys 10 years older. Why? Because we aren't the same person at 35 that we were at 25- we are more experienced, confident and interesting, nothing per se to do with money.
@hellacracy Did you idiot worthless idiot delete my comment? I am saying that no woman date that older man for love lmao. They use them either as toyboy or for money. Nobody like fugly old creeps
@Avicenna statistics disprove with you.
"Plenty of women on their 20s date guys 10 years older. Why? Because we aren't the same person at 35 that we were at 25- we are more experienced, confident and interesting, nothing per se to do with money." Same for women. You just date younger women because they are naive and innocent and can't stant stronger mature woman
@hellacracy it is also funny that male cunts care about woman's bodycount. Or maybe because they are afraid and dont want women to see their terrible sex performance. I just have enough that old creeps think we are interested in them. Go fucking date someone your age.
@hi_it_is_me123: Nope, I actually prefer a woman in her 30s for a serious relationship and childbearing, but you're mistaken about the younger women's alleged naivete and the reason guys date them. Beyond the more youthful appearance lies a more important reason- women under 25 are much more likely to be single than women in their 30s, and even less likely to already have a kid. Furthermore, tha younger women often don't want anything serious at all, which shows they know what they want and certainly aren't naive. They generally know they can exploit their looks and age.
Oh ok
@hi_it_is_me123 Ah, the sex worker is lecturing us on being shallow.
@KrakenAttackin stop mistaking yourself with me.
You old fugly creep
Disgusting how you speak with young women although you have a young daughter. So fuck off pedo
@hi_it_is_me123 So who do you actually want? Your virginity and youth are spent like a man's money. When it's gone, it's gone.
So you are measuring your worth on money? You are insulting yourself. Majority of men are not wealthy
I actually want a man like me. I dont care about his money. I want a virgin like me
Lol just stop.
Again I'm just telling you why men prefer younger women through a man's perspective. You don't have to like it if you don't want to.
But insulting men for having a preference and opinion I've got to say is pretty immature and pathetic.
If you want a man that's your age or younger that's also a virgin. Well good for you. I'm not going to throw insults at you if that's the kind of guy you want.
Again assuming the guy you want isn't a minor. If you're interested in underage boys well... That's a different story.
You dont understand it. Men like you should not complain then if women want handsome, young wealthy men. Why do women get shamed for their preferences while you can make fun of womrn over 30s. You can prefere wtf you want but degrading women just because of her age is pathetic and disgusting of you.
Anyway it does not even matter what guys want. In the end women dont choose that old guys since the age difference is statistically max 2-4 years. So women mainly marry someone in their age range and so men over 30s also date some their age. I just have enough getting called shallow and bad by guys for rejecting them although they are the one who want me due to my age and youth. It is fucking hypocritical. You should not decide what is desirable or not. By doing that you are objectifying women. Do you also do that to men? If not, you are hypocritical
I am just age that women over 30w also can have lasting relationships.
@hellacray. Just so you know @hi_it_is_me123 is a sex worker, yet she comes on here and bitches about men wanting younger women... basically she is complaining about the men who pay her bills.
@hi_it_is_me123 You want man like you? Do, you want a dumb cunt... got it.
@KrakenAttackin shut tf up pedophil bastard. I am not a sex worker. You are the only cunt here. A single dad aka an used worthless shit with baggage. You are just mad that no woman want you due to your baggage. I am sorry for your daughter that he has a pedo das talking to young women like that. Fuck off you old creep
@hi_it_is_me123 How many underage "John's" have you serviced?
I've stopped reading when you said "a hole is a hole". Pathetic feminist bullshit trying to make men look like all they want is to fuck.
You want a "wake-up" call? Most of us guys are looking for love and a good partner as much as girls. But if you have the same attitude with the guys you talk to than you have in this... thing, no wonder none of them would want more than a quickie.
Oh you big mad. Well sweetie if you are so desperate for love then how come you dont have it then? Oh wait, you are going to go for either the:
1) I already have a fiance/girlfriend
2) Because you women are evil so it leaves me no choice.
How did I do?
When I crudely said that a hole is a hole, I was merely implying that you men don't really have standards. From what I have been seeing in real life, my God- you wouldn't know what standards are if it bit you on the ass.
Then you actually lie to yourself and others saying that you have standards and prefer perky 20 year old women? HA!
As expected, you're nothing more than a bitter and hateful bitch, who's here only to complain about those evil, terrible men who are so stupid and horny, unworthy of such a queen like you.
Well guess what, with an attitude like that, a take like that, and a reply like that, all you've proven is that you're not even worth the attention of a man with no standards :)
Look at the poor little princess, who can't get herself a submissive dog that she can use to her will and is mad about it.
Stay mad, bitch.
Ohhhhhhh HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA! Oh I am a bitch. Hey gentlemen and ladies, this is what a fuckboy looks like!
How funny that your true colours come out.
Tell me something, do you sleep with HAND-gela more than actual women ;)
Get outta here ya big mad mad ;)
Oh look who can't even come up with a single argument except "MEN BAD!", go cuddle your dildo, that's the only affection a bitch like you could get :)
Sweetheart I would rather not be able to come up with a single comeback than being unable to read- I said BIG MAD!!! Oh this is hilarious. Go cuddle a dictionary
Oh I can totally read. And you've written quite a lot of bullshit here :)
Just because you vaguely tried to put a cliché line in there to pretend you didn't aim at all men doesn't mean the reality of what you mean isn't obvious. And all of your replies, to me and other men so far, proved that you're indeed the bitter, hateful bitch I expected to find.
Listen sweetie, here is the deal. I see many many MAAAAAAAANY "butt hurt" (is that the word you like to use?) men here that bitch, moan, complain about how ALL women are bitches, whores and what have you because of their past experiences. I just read and move on and at no point did it ever occur to me that they were speaking to me because I know myself that I am not their exes.
The reason why it didn't offend me is because it just didn't speak to me nor did it hit home with me.
But the fact that you went all psychotic and called me a bitch and what have you, it shows that this does speak to you. That you ARE a grown boy. Not a man.
Now maybe you will one day meet the right woman and you will change, but considering that you are showing psychotic and toxic behaviour is a sign that the following fates will come of you
- Either you will be in jail for rape and murder
-You yourself will get killed by someone because of your stupidity.
- You will die very old and alone
Now I hope neither comes about but I am just saying that it clearly shows you are the type who is a very toxic individual. You need to change <3
if it is bullshit, just move on :)
Oh but I was moving on, you know, before some crazy enraged bitch started ranting about how men are bad and how they're just horny animals :)
And please, don't try me with that "I'm not offended" crap. You've proven that you're in fact ultra mad, and that you couldn't accept that I'm not buying into your pathetic hateful and sexist take.
How about YOU move on, since you're supposedly not offended? :)
Or will you just keep vomiting your insults?
Also, I've never talked about all women. Just you. You're trying to make it about all women because you don't want to be alone, drowning in your own mediocrity. You're mad, you're a bitch, and that's all there is to it.
Whatever helps you sleep at night mad mad ;)
I'm sleeping well, thank you :)
I don't need to write bullshit about the other gender to feel superior :)
ok mad mad ;)
@Guanfei I don't understand why you are attacking her. She is just saying that older women should have more confidence in themselves and relay less on men for validation. This is bc older, single women face a lot of prejudice in society. We are told that we have no value, are infertile, and my favorite: "spent our 20s going to college and being sluts" all of which are Misconceptions and likely derived from watching too many pornos.
I'm sorry that you can not understand this by this post
@Julietchicago Nope, that's not what she said. All of her rant is attacking men, even when adressing women, it's still to tell that men are bad. And I'm tired of reading the same bullshit over and over again.
O dear god again
A hole is a hole!!
Rofl
@Guanfei I so agree with you... You didn't start attacking her first she did like she did anyone not agreeing... People need to know the difference between offended and disagreeing... Just another person that wants to blame the opposite gender for why they can't find someone. Med aren't the problem her attitude about and to men is... You can't communicate with someone like that because she can't hear past her own thoughts she thinks are facts... Ain't worth arguing with someone with deaf ears...
@Brainsbeforebeauty and @Aak1980 perhaps I shouldn't have said "a hole is a hole" I said that out of anger and passion which I can definitely admit and it was very gross of me to do so. I am sorry
@Aak1980 Perhaps I shouldn't have said that. I said it out of anger and passion for which I am sorry and please forgive me
I think it all depends on what your intentions are when dating to. I mean I don't think older women are useless or washed up or anything like that.
But for someone like me who's wanting to have a family younger women are preferably simply because being younger makes that whole process easier. Because whether you like it or not the older you get the less eggs you have the harder it is to get pregnant and the more dangerous it becomes for both you and the baby. And those things only increase with age.
But for me personally If it wasn't for the above facts I wouldn't have any issues with dating an older woman. And ideally I prefer someone my age or a few years younger or 2-3 years younger. But because life is unpredictable I'm not gonna flat out say I couldn't end up with a older women either.
And I think that's a fair opinion to have.
Every time I see a female say "a hole is a hole" in reference to how men think, I can't help but get a little offended that you honestly would believe that men are that simple. Yes, we desire women, and yes we desire most women, but we still see you as individuals and not just a hole. Maybe some men do, but certainly not the majority of us. I just wish that most men have to bear the stereotypes because of what a few men do.
This Take isn't meant to offend those who don't fall into the category. I dont get offended when some women do stupid things because I am not those type of women. SO there is no need to get offended.
Well... I. NOT SURE I COULD HAVE PUT THAT ANY BETTER... BUT FOR REAL.. you women need to stop being so damn self-loathing and just believe in your power and self at all times. Men are animals.. Me being one myself.. we sense weakness, feeling of self doubt. Most guys will pray on that and try to take advantage. You are no less attractive or desirable in your 30s than in your 20s... men perfer 20s because women are less aware of out tactics in trying to get a new toy. As many younger women are seen... but in your 30s. You are more keen to our bullshit and so more guarded and less likely to just give it to temptation. That being said... being too standoffish is your main downfall. Be careful about us... But not OVERLY CAREFUL... FOR NO RISK PRESENTS NO REWARD..
1. All women can get phone numbers because all women have a pussy. How many high quality attractive men want to marry you is the measure of your desirability. Id fuck a cute 30 or 40 year old but i wouldn't marry her under any circumstance because she's old as hell.
2. If men lose their value too. Why am i 33 with a 22 and a 24 year old girlfriend? Obviously im at a top sexual value to women and i chose 20 something year olds because i far prefer them to older women.
3. If older women had nice attitudes about being old and were more realistic they wouldn't be so undesirable. For example where you said about how men should be an accessory... yeah. you're undateable in my opinion. However if you said here's how i fucked up and yeah im not at the top of my game and here's how im making up for it... well that older woman probably got a decent boyfriend.
Sure love...
If you’re so hot and rich, wouldn’t you be married already at 33. You’re gonna be out of your prime in 2 years.
@nelly83 my pussy ain’t open for ducking no body u men. Where your momma taught you nothing
@nelly83 why would i be married when i can have two hot much younger girlfriends? 😁
@bamesjond0069 or do you only attract gold diggers? She’s in love with you money, not you
@nelly83 do you believe what he says?
@ThisIsMyOpinion of course not. I think he’s unemployed cus he’s on here so much. Too much time on his hands.
@nelly83 well right now im taking a shit tbh. And how are they gold diggers? I dont buy them much of anything at all.
@bamesjond0069 dude let's assume for a second that what you are saying is true.
1. You either trash because you are cheating on them or they are trash becaus ethye know about each other and continue with this.
2. Since fitness culture kicked in I can easely go to instagram and find fitness models that will be over 30 and way hotter than any of the girls you are dating.
4. I remember you saying on another question that you didn't dated girl with jobs, so either you lied or they are gold diggers.
5. You are the kind of guy that would feel his dick get smaller the second he wouldn't fell like he had full power in his relationship. So anyone you have is probably a no brain, jobless bimbo with no capacity or inteligence.
6. All of this assuming I believe you. No one here does.
@ThisIsMyOpinion 1. They know about each other and are friends. They are both church girls who never would have done something like this except for me.
2. Yeah right. We all go to the gym together. One is a chef and specializes in healthy eating.
No 3 so 4... no girl im with will have a job with a boss or one that takes a lot of time. girlfriend 1 is an independent writer and works about 3 hours a week and makes about $2000 a month. Gf2 is new and still has a job but i expect her to work a couple hours a week scheduling my appointments for my work or something similar.
5. you're the bimbo who couldnt count to 3. So no they aren't that dumb.
6. you're problem. I don't know what else to say.
3.
@bamesjond0069
1. So they know about each other? Then they are trash.
2. They know about each other and you all go to the gym together? 😂 A big happy family you have there in your imagination. Come one you really expect anyone to believe this?
3. Ya I leap right into 4 before. Still to actually accept to share a partner like that, they are far dumber than someone that can't read or count. Asides fr no self respect.
4. So they know about each other, they go to the gym together with you and they match their job hours to match your needs? Did you buy them at the slave auction?
5. You don't need to say anything. The more you talk the more I realize those two girls came from Narnia! Either that or they are being threaten with a gun. Last chance is they are gold diggers.
Because no good woman will ever submit herself to that.
@bamesjond0069 do u even know what you sound like? You sound like you have the maturity of an angry 8 yr old boy. Now how can a Mature Sane grown women be interested in you
Only immature adults date other immature adults.
@bamesjond0069 I don’t think you have any woman who loves you in your life. You don’t have a job either. You’re most likely a bald old man aging , exiting his prime , living on disability income with your Mother still washing your dishes for you
@nelly83 nah... my girlfriend washes it though
@bamesjond you don’t have a girlfriend and you’re unemployed
@bamesjond0069 everyone on gAg knows you're a fraud. You are obviously unemployed and single. Here:
1. You said before that you have one girlfriend, so where did the 2 come from? Will it be 3 tomorrow?
2. Writers working 3 hours a week don't make 2k... more like 200. Another lie.
3. You said on another post that you worked in porn, yet you couldn't name your production company or city.. you said this because you are against sex trafficked victims and wanted to discredit them
4. You claim to be religious. Religious men don't fuck 2 women unless they are occult leaders like David Keresh, which you are not
5. You claimed to have fucked a ton of girls while shaming girls who sleep around. Again, religious men don't sleep around. That's hypocrisy.
6. Most likely you are a 22 yo virgin and you live w your folks
@Rebeccalions Rebecca is getting ALLLLLLLL the receipts!
This is why I hate those fuckboys, they can't do anything BUT lie
@Rebeccalions lol
@heartonmysleeve88 don't give him that much credit. Fuckboys actually fuck. He's a virgin who hates girls bc he can't get them.
@nelly83 lol #truth
@nelly83 no intelligent person wants to marry anymore
@6suejsjsj nahh most people wanna get married. When they say they don’t get married , it’s cus most men are complete crap nowadays , like you. Nobody wants to marry your crap and if they do, they divorce u 5 years later
@nelly83 great
@6suejsjsj I am married. It's not about marrying, it's about who you marry.
Many men chose the wrong women to marry and end up unhappy. You need to be sure of who she is and that your marriage will not be different from your dating days.
@ThisIsMyOpinion it is about marrying since that is a useless thing in modern society.
@6suejsjsj What did marriage had before that it doesn't today? Still the same thing. Two people make a religious and/or civil contract to stay faithful and together.
@ThisIsMyOpinion do you actually know anything at all? Lol
@6suejsjsj You didn't answer my question. Maybe you don't have an answer...
@bamesjond0069 yo, we already know you're a fake. You don't have a girlfriend. And you weren't a porn star...2 of your prior claims. Stop trolling and get a fucking life
Honestly I think guys are more desperate for validation from women though. Why do you think guys are so hell bound about getting ass and it's not just about sex but the ego stroke competition wise to other men, getting their approval and getting the validation from feeling sexually desired by women. Men depend on women to get this validation though
Men seek more sexual validation, and women seek more non sexual validation.
@Truthatanycost yep
You make a point I always thought those types were animals who are motivated by hormones and not consequences, but men who need an ego stroke as well are out there, interesting.
My girlfriend left me for a 28 year old guy saying I am immature. Which I am not. I don’t waste my time playing games. Can cook , clean and others things all by myself. She defined my maturity based on my resources. I was 23 , in uni getting masters , I can’t get more resources than some guy 5 years older than me.
There’s a huge lie women love to tell the self and others than women are more mature than men in younger ages. They become sexually mature , but not mentally..
So there will always be plenty of girls who will leave their same age bfs for 30 year old guys
The good news is you have something to look forward to. I can remember my dream girl in college who hooked up with a guy 10 years older than me. He was chubby and short. The only thing he had going for him is he graduated from law school.
To be fair I had conversed with him before I knew about this. He actually was a nice guy of all things and treated me cool. So I can’t disparage him for being a “d bag”.
Anyway in my late 20s I started getting LOTS more action with girls 19 to 23. As long as you don’t become a fat ass slob you got more to look forward to. Late 20s and early 30s is hook up primetime for guys who at least have SOME game and keep themselves in shape.
I am sorry she left you for him. But don't kid yourself thinking she left you jsut because he already had a job and resources that you didn't have. That is not a reason for a girl to leave you. Not a good girl at least.
My wife and I were dating when I was just a year older than you. She already had a job and I was on my last year of university. Not only she didn't leave but also was a great support for me.
Why because she really loved me. You simply have to find one that also loves you. Trully loves you.
@bluetoblack99 is right bro. Women get the power in the sexual marketplace when they're young, men get it when we're 30-35+. We also don't lose much: we get hotter as time goes on.
Take this time to build yourself. And to understand women. And, when it comes down to it, you have to learn how to pump alpha traits. But in a nice, "unaffected' way. Check out 21Studios on Youtube, if you have some wisdom.
Fundamentally, if you would have given your girl what she needed and wanted, she would never have left for a 30 year old guy or more.
Check out ToddVDating too. He's a genius.
@heartonmysleeve88 you are right older guys are not more mature. They just know how to play the game better bc of experience. Also, they get more desperate, so they have to be nice. Some girls are dumb enough to buy into this
I'm sorry that happened to you. It sounds like saying you were "immature" was an excuse to leave you for a guy with more money (since you said she blamed your so-called "immaturity" on a lack of resources) without sounding like a gold digger. The good news is you probably dodged a bullet with her.
@aWes0MeNeSs no she was right , I was immature. Otherwise why would I cooked for her days even when I was ill, bought medicine at night , took care of her when she was ill or had an accident... in return she mostly treated me poorly , bad words , judging , saying bad if cooking was delayed by some time... men should never give a fuck... I am not falling for stupidity anymore... Guys should always treat women like they don't give a fuck that's what most women like much...
I am sorry for you. Your ex was shit. Personally i think men mature earlier than women according to my experiences
No, maybe idiotic women like that, but no one of quality. If she truly believed that she was a nut, but I really think those were excuses.
@OpinionOwner, sounds like she was bipolar. I had an ex who treated me the same. Please don't let that experience taint you from finding someone nice and being abusive in return does nothing but continue the cycle of anger
@Rebeccalions I am not angry , I am tired...
Ha me too
Just take this as a lesson. by the way if a girl never says thank you or worse complains about you doing nice things for her then you need to respect yourself and ditch her ASAP. Easier said than done But there is no substitute for respect. I once ghosted a girl who never said thank you when I paid for meals. I kept an eye on her. After she did this 3 times in a row I made my decision. Don’t regret it at all.
@bluetoblack99 after she left , I also stopped contact , after several months the guys left her and she tried to contact me saying all sorry and blah blah... sent several texts... I never replied or picked any calls... I forgive people easily but if I am done... I am done and never going back... no matter what
Good!
Funny how men over 30 think young women in their early 20s would date them. Like who tf are you to degrade women due to their age. This is why I often use these old motherfuckers for their money and then they cry and threat me with suicide bullshit but they are the one who date me for my age and youth and shallow reasons. I mean young women dont want your old ass and the mgtow male cunts use kids as an excuse to not be seen as shallow. Kids my ass. Just say you are shallow and prefere young women although you are old and fugly. If older women were the only ones who are more attractive and seem youthful, all these meninazis would prefere older women although they are not fertil more. This is why only prefere men my age or younger
But why they can't have standards? Women have height standards and is totally acceptable
Women with heigh preferences get hated and also women usually dont see heigh a reason to not date a man otherwise majority of men would be single
Looks like your trash can is full (with this post). Garbage of garbage.
Lmao the only garbage is you, you fugly worthless old man.
if a man has money women will chase him if he's 50 or 60. So it's hilarious you would say that dumb shit.
@t-8900 Trash women will.
@TallJess then there's a lot of trash to wade through to begin looking for anything. Besides men value youth and beauty while women value resources and security in general.
@t-8900 don't think that women don't want an attractive partner. If what you say was true we would all want an old rich man. We don't. We want an equal partner. More than ever today women want an equal partner. Not a guy that reminds us of our dads!
@TallJess I see lots of young women gravitating to older men so I don't know wth you're talking about. It's not a secret.
@t-8900 Again, trashy girls.
@TallJess really? what made you the authority on that? If a guy said it he'd be buried alive.
@t-8900 anybody with money can get good looking men and women. I know good looking men marrying older richer women. Statistically women marry someone in their age rank. The max age gap is 2-5 years. So yeah women do marry older men but only 2 years older not 10+ years older fugly old men
i see hella fine females on instagram going after grandpas lol
That's something biological. The purpose of a heterosexual relationship is having kids, and women are more fertile from 20s to 30s. As rational beings we have of course gotten over the mere biological goal of marriage and are able to stick to one partner and cherish and value them regardless of many things. But it's also pointless to pretend that there is no biological basis to prefer a 20 something woman that a 30 something. I believe your text is very degrading. Who are you to say that a woman is desperate, or that a man is not the prize? You live your life and let other women live theirs without unfair stereotypes where we need to live as men in order to have value. Smh.
I simply wonder; why did you read the article and internalize it so? Certainly, being 32 and possibly resembling some of the attributes therein must have apparently “got your goat.” Transexualized women are the real reason many are wondering; “where are all the economically attractive men?” Try applying your own advice to yourself and some common sense irl over reaction to internet articles.
Oh you big mad. Want a lollipop? There there. You obviously are too mad to make sense of what I was trying to say. I was trying to encourage women to uplift themselves and not think that they are expiring which in turn they say "where are the economically attractive men". It is sad that when a woman finally had enough of all this whinging and whining because it will obviously threaten you and hold you accountable in the future (I hope it does, oh I hope it does) that you believe it is "transexualised".
And I wonder too, you also read my article and internalised it. Good :)
Have a good day
I scanned it (didn’t open the article) and just spoke my first impulse is all. It has nothing to do with “mad” as in anger, but maybe as in insanity for dropping in. Threatened? How? Because you are going to cut me off? Oh.. No!
You angry critters have been screaming at the wind now for 50 years. Nothing has changed recently as you infer.
Whatever helps you sleep at night, papasito
The problem is, society tells women to place their value in looks and for men to place their value in their income. It is easy to get lost into the entire standard of how a man or woman is supposed to live and that is why knowing who you are and your purpose will help you flourish. Prime example, social media.
It doesn’t matter. Men can say they prefer anything they want, but can they actually get what they want? Most men simply don’t have the options.
Women have the upper hand when it comes to options for dating, relationships, and Yes even marriage. This is true for women at any age.
Is very unfair how privileged women are, I wish men have the same opportunities or be equal valued as women
Women like you certainly aren't worth anything.
You’re being very rude. There is no excuse for your behavior.
That kind of shit never happens unless she has some kind of mental illness. There's so many swinging dick's in this world, the only thing a lady has to do is bounce-her-booty and those male-dogs will follow her anywhere!
Like I said on my post here...
While it's true that women can get guys way easier than the other way around. But that is because of the riddiculous amount of desperate guys that are out there. Quality guys don't really follow that "A hole is a hole" mindset.
@ThisIsMyOpinion / You're talking about a quality mindset in "America"; when the president is bragging about grabbing pussy? It's about time for you to step away from the orange Kool-Aid, my son.
You can get but not keep. Any guy would sleep with any hot girl but will not stick around in the morning. If you wanna keep you got to try harder than think all men want is a "a hole" because is not all men want. If you think that that then that's what you gonna get.
I am not American, but I hope not all of them are the same as that orange disaster.
@ThisIsMyOpinion "While it's true that women can get guys way easier than the other way around."
Correction... Women can get "sex" way easier then Men. But when it comes to marriage, that's all Men!!! Take an ugly Man with a job, and he can find a single mother to marry in a heartbeat. Now take an ugly woman with a job, and she may never find a man to marry her!
I've read many of your posts. Sorry, but I've just got to say: "In My Opinion," you're an attention-seeking douche. I imagine any male acquaintances you have, likely think the same thing.
@Baronace Actually not just for sex for a relationship too. If you wnat to even hope to start an relationship you need attention. That someone gives you the time of day otherwise you don't even have the chance to have a relationship. Girls get that attention easy from a no number of guys.
There are many desperate guys around. Single mothers don't just throw themselves around waiting for someone to say yes, unlike many guys do.
This is a site about questions. So my name fits, if you have any issue with it, well to bad.
You are 50. I am not surprised with you views about this.
@ThisIsMyOpinion - "Single mothers don't just throw themselves around waiting for someone to say yes, unlike many guys do."
What planet do you live on? You couldn't be more wrong. Single middle-aged mothers are like cats in heat. They are looking to put their hooks into anything they can get their hands on. Conversely, most 30-somthing men are avoiding commitment until they find the perfect match.
"You are 50. I am not surprised with you views about this."
And you're only 28. And your comments verify it...
@Baronace Same as you, but I don't just read stuff morons put online and believe it instead of actually looking around or thinking for a second. If you really think that single mothers lose all their standards just because they are single mothers? Having a kid doesn't make them lose all sense, reason, desire and pride.
I have a desired age range, + or - 3 years from my age. I've been attracted to women 30+, but that doesn't change anything. I want a woman physically my age, but mentally older. That may sadly take until I am that age to find, but I haven't given up. If I were in my 30s and single, then I might expand my search up to 5 years difference as this is the max difference before adverse effects start to show in marriages. If I miraculously was never married by 40, then I would only look younger, because I still would like to start a family. So yes, youth has a longer advantage, but it matters while your young. I expect to be with a woman in her late twenties or early thirties while I'm in my early thirties. Your not my age, but I still think you look pretty at 32. Marriage statistics show an increase risk of divorce every year past 5. So I weigh that into my decision with women, but what truly matters is her faith in God.
It's biology and aesthetics. We value youth and beauty. By the time a woman reaches 28 half her fertility is gone.
Why are men demonized for something natural?
Why are women demonized for wanting wealthy and handsome men then?
They aren't but most women don't have the looks, body, or disposition to get a wealthy man to marry them.
The problem occurs when you have average and below average looking women talking about "I DESERVE... etc."
What makes you think you are entitled to this?
Why is being average so bad?
Why are average men entitled to date young, pretty and fertil women then?
Well about the young part though out marriage history men were typically older than their wives.
About the pretty part a beautiful wife brought favor in the sight of others.
Fertile wise a younger woman has a better chance of getting pregnant than the old maid up the road. Lol
This is about a man's bloodline and last name. Something we have forgotten in modern times is lineage.
The age gap is max 2-4 years. So a young woman is going to marry someone in her age range. Anyway why should a young woman marry someone old? Dont use kids as an excuse
History speaks for itself. You cannot refute facts... unless the truth does not matter to you.
What? Histotical women did not actually have maby choices when it comes to marriage. So dont come up with historical bullshit
They had the choice to marry and be happy or don't and be a misirable spinster.
You have the same choice.
They could not really have a choice when it comes to partner. None would marry a fugly old creep if they had the choice like today. It is the minority who marry 7-10 years older man
Also sperm quality also lose its quality the more you age
Well aren't you just adorable
@hi_it_is_me123 I completely agree. I’m not attracted to most 35 yr old men. Many of their skin look like crap , white hairs , balding , gaining weight. And then the woman haters in here like to spread lies that we find that shit attractive.
@nella965 Nope, they find the maturity and money attractive
@hi_it_is_me123 many guys here fail to realise that women want good looking men too. Most likely ugly dudes who think they will get all the women they want when they are over 30 😂
@TallJess True, most girls DO want good looking men. Actually, looks are being underestimated. I can say looks matter as much as the inside if not more.
@TruthBringer and yet you think that older men can get girls? Are you feeling alright?
@TallJess Older men can get girls, just not as much as younger guys do. I didn't hit mine, did you hit yours by any chance?
@TruthBringer Older men can get older women. Or gold diggers. That is it.
@TallJess In many cases yes. Not in all cases however lol
@TruthBringer 99%. Lets be real unless they are gold diggers no women in her 20's want a men on his 30s
@TallJess I know girls of my age who date dudes in their 30s. Not sure where you got those statistics from, from your ass apparentely lol. But yes, most girls in their 20s date guys their age and slightly older
@TruthBringer You are either making stuff up, or you are making stuff up. I have for sure more female friends than you and they don't date guys in their 30s
@TallJess Nope, I know them personally. I used to be in class with them. I also got them on social media and see them in the gym sometimes. So conversations happen. And I can assure you, they are dating dudes in their 30s. They also moved in with them. Just because you got female friends who don’t date guys in their 30s, doesn’t mean there aren’t women who do. Bringing exceptions to the rule doesn’t disregard the rule, sweetie.
@TruthBringer Sad to announce you that your friends are the exception not the rule.
@TallJess Awhh if that pleases you to think that way, sure booboo
@TruthBringer is that you only answer now? Come on you can do better if you try!
@TallJess As I said, I am not even trying with you. I already triggered your emotions while barely doing nothing 😂
@TruthBringer You think that me insulting you is because you triggered my emotions? On your own words, I did it because I can honey. It's easy to know that you don't have a graps on reality just like many guys here and it's fun to poke you with a stick to see what comes out xD
@TallJess Lmfao thanks for proving my point about lacking attention 😂
@TruthBringer Again missing the point...
@TallJess Sure I am lmfao
@TruthBringer I know you are talking in a dismissive way, but you really did.
@TallJess sure booboo <3
@TruthBringer You better believe it honey ;)
"A hole is a hole." But what's in her mind, what are her values, what are her beliefs, ethics, goals, etc... determines whether or not she makes the picture a greater WHOLE! And I care much more about that, than I do about getting the willy wet.
The fact that you got offended by my Take signifies that you may identify with those fuckboys that I stated. I obviously didn't mean ALL men.
But hey, I just put the words there. You took it upon yourself to be offended. Wy is that? :)
*Why
Because most of my life, I've been mistaken for a f*kboy. And then when the girl learns to truth of what I'm after, she can't process it; so she goes back and defaults to the only mindset she knows. And I get frustrated that in spite that pretty face, there is nothing but a lizard underneath. So I move along, and only find more lizard women. Or I find one who isn't a lizard in hiding; and then she dies suddenly. It's a tragic loop, from which I can't ever seem to escape.
Let me ask you this, where are you meeting most of these women?
In the past, at school. Today? At work.
Well maybe those aren't appropriate to get a good woman
Yeah, I walk on eggshells now. There's a vendor gal for Coke that I kinda like, but she's super shy, and got rid of her Facebook account because of it. Then there's the other one, who's a little too bold. I see the shy one as potential wife material in a pinch, if I can convince her to open up. The other one? Has her good moments, but comes off like a jail yard shotcaller. Not a safe bet. She also seems to prefer talking to the bad boys. A fiery redhead, but I fear behind those Gray eyes, just another lizard.
At least she isn't a cowardly Potiphar wife, pulling MeToo BS on anyone who looks at her funny. I can't stand women like that.
Even so, when my options are a timid mouse and a psychotic woman-child, I'm probably better off single for now.