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Never...Ever...Date...A...Damaged...Girl...! (Page 4)
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This is truly the best advice i ever read. i agree with it 100%. Everyone is damaged, at least a little bit. But the key is to stay away from girls (or even guys) who are a little too much damaged.
thumbs up for your insight. You look for long term. And remember the 3Cs too :).
It seems like you have not gone through anything damaging in your life. Moreover, you just described a damaged girl in the worst light possible. Yes, I have troubles but it's wrong to call us 'damaged' It's a degrading term. Moreover, I have always appreciated people who showed even a tiny care to me. I fell in love with a 'damaged' guy and I don't regret iT. We all deserve love.
I would consider myself a "damaged guy" , as I've dealt with so many unappreciative girls. I gave them everything i had, i gave them love and affection but they were never grateful. I hope that u r different. And if u say u appreciate even the "tiniest care" i would like u to know that i sympathize with u, and i care even though I don't know u. Hope this helped a little, and sry if i sounded creepy lol. But its just in my nature :)
Lo not creepy at all. But the thing is... it's wrong to run away from people just because they have gone through something bad. All of us are different. Damaged people either become highly sensitive or highly apathetic. Just because he has met some wrong kinds, it does not mean we all are bad. I always make sure that no one has to go through the things I went through.
Jesus well I smell bullshit lmao! Be a man lend a ear to her and try to be the man she wants and not the one she's complaininh about.
Complaining*
I too have had the displeasure of the goof ball BS you have shared in your post and no it is not any fun to be the pervbial punching bag for some mindless fucktards outbursts of dip shittedness.
Very good to see an article like this. It's often perceived as politically incorrect advice - damaged girls need love to, and what not.
But in my experience, this is a lesson that, well, the guys who learn it, learn it to their cost. They never learn by having someone GIVE them that advice back when it would do any good.
Excellent article. A little short on sympathy, but very full on good advice.
You sound pretty damaged yourself there--should women avoid you like the plaugue as well?
So does that mean the same for guys too? can't date a damaged guy? You sound damaged to me! After all you have bad feelings to those who you damaged! Hypocrite!
You would indeed be wise not to date seriously damaged guys.
I think damged guys have more problems than damaged women...
@HoneyButterCup525 both are equally worthless.
I wouldn't call them worthless...
Finally someone said it! Guys say they can always fix her when they just get even more hurt and then girls like me with no baggage or damaged goods get left behind with the broken guys that fell for her and brought it into my relationship. But broken means different things like if your raped for example that's not broken
We are all broken in some way
Your experience does not speak for everyone
Well-said.
Danke :3
@BlueberryHead
Im sorta damaged but i never need a man to fix me if i wanna be fixed ill do it myself
see the girl with the broken smile,
ask her if she'd like to stay awhile
AND SHE WILLLLLLLL BE LOVED!
I know how mentally unwell people can drag you down the rabbit hole.. even as friends! It's best to stay away from them, guys or girls, unless you are a masochist and enjoy the ride to hell.
Agree! Completely agree. - this goes for damaged guys as well! Do not do it, ladies!
Well you shouldn't expect a girl to "not" to ditch you because you know you don't have the best dick in the world & you are not a rich person either.
This rule applies to all girls not only damaged ones.
If a man tries to follow your advice, then he will end up being a loner because all the girls these days must have dated someone before & there are 100 reasons to ditch you even if they haven't.
Maybe you should try dating ugly girls who barely get a date.
You haven't been with 'all girls' don't assume. It's sad you think we're all damaged. I hope you meet a girl who'll change your mind one day...
There is a lot of truth to all of this but aren't most of us damaged in some way or another? Yes you cannot fix anyone. You must fix yourself but if you find someone you care about things can work through patience and showing one's loyalty. This of course depends on varying degrees of being hurt. Many people also want to stay a victim so if there is no drama in the relationship some will leave to find the drama.
Holy shit, I posted about a girl who crushed me, see what you think
www.relationship-forums.com/showthread.php?t=47787
Tell me about bro I've been here before too it's like a deer looking into head lights either you run or yo ass gone get hit. i hear that's guys do this and that but I think that's the worst when a damaged woman uses you and leaves or she comes back with only the intentions to string you as she feels fit.
I'd say it's someone hurt you bad, as bad as some men hurt some girls. I've had a few rough (as in stop stalking me!!) experiences, but that never stopped me from trying to get there with girls I liked, even the crazy ones ;)
I'll come back to this but as soon as I saw it's not your job to fix her I liked the take cuz I hate when people say a danger girl or someone with depression needs fixing because they dont
Some girls are truly damaged and want to stay that way. Others just need a little more TLC. The difference is in how much they want to work on themselves and make a leap of faith you are not "that guy"