I don't understand why you had to say you're shy, you are what you believe you are, she thought you were outgoing, you should have kept pretending to be an Alpha
Are you sure that you understand what shy is? In guys it's insecurity and a fear of rejection that prevents them from approaching people, especially cute girls. My guess is you are attracted to a guy who is quite and non-aggressive but fully confident in himself. Shy men lack confidence. I know from experience that a lack of confidence is a major turn off for the majority of females. Girls might say that overly confident guys can be jerks. Those guys aren't confident, they are arrogant. And that comes from immaturity. Immaturity is another big turn off for girls.
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On behalf of all shy guys, I thank you for your response.
I don't understand why you had to say you're shy, you are what you believe you are, she thought you were outgoing, you should have kept pretending to be an Alpha
that b&%^$
No shy guys are great!
Are you sure that you understand what shy is?
In guys it's insecurity and a fear of rejection that prevents them from approaching people, especially cute girls.
My guess is you are attracted to a guy who is quite and non-aggressive but fully confident in himself. Shy men lack confidence. I know from experience that a lack of confidence is a major turn off for the majority of females.
Girls might say that overly confident guys can be jerks. Those guys aren't confident, they are arrogant. And that comes from immaturity.
Immaturity is another big turn off for girls.
That sounds a bit like deaf pride...
i prefer shy boys
women just don't date them