Do you think promiscuous women are more likely to have low self esteem and less stable relationships (particularly concerning marriage not just a BF)? (Page 2)
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I've known my share of promiscuous women in my life and every last one of them had lower than average self esteem. Promiscuity is just not natural behavior for most women. There are some who are comfortable with it but for the vast majority it becomes a vicious cycle of seeking attention and affirmation through promiscuous sex, which only makes them feel worse about themselves, so they seek affirmation through promiscuous sex, and the cycle continues.
People aren't stagnant. A person who is promiscuous in her or his teens may get everything figured out later and be fully satisfied. Or a person who was conservative in his or her teens may feel their decisions were in vain and go wild one day. People are constantly changing.
Stagnant doesn't matter, the # does to most men. She could have had a 100 partners before she was 22 then stopped or had 100 partners till she was 40, most men will judge them equally.
I am not saying those two women are the same person, clearly they have two different life styles but a guy will not see their promiscuity differently than he does the other.
I just mean that you can pick someone with a low number of partners and still have them suddenly start running around. I've seen it happen. Both men and women.
People. don't change who they are
I dunno. Like I said, I've seen conservative people get wild when they get older and feel like their relationship isn't what they wanted after settling down early. That may even happen more with guys.
Yes they do and studies back this up. The higher a woman's body count, the more likely she is not gonna stay in a committed relationship.
I think that when a girl is sexually acting out it means that she is hurting. I went through a long period of times when I would only have a relationship with a guy if he would have sex with me. I know now that I was hurting from all of the sexual abuse I went through when I was a little girl. I think that if you find a girl like that you should treat her like a gentleman, that's exactly what she needs. that girl is obliviously calling out for help...
Yeah, definitely. They're also more likely to have STD's and a lot of other problems.
The chances of STDs are very low for anyone practicing safe sex. It's about one incidence in 1000 years, banging 20 different partners per week. Even less for AIDS.
@Tractorbeam that's not what the CDC says.
Here's how it works in Australia. Note that an incidence of 0.1 per 100 years = one chance in 1000 years. Not all of those women were practicing safe sex.
www.afao.org.au/.../Mandatory_Testing_for_HIV_and_STIs_among_Sex_Workers_-A
Here's how it's been working in the USA
https://www.virusmyth.com/aids/hiv/pptalk.htm
You're aware that there are dozens of other STD's besides AIDS and that AIDS is one of the rare ones, right?
Yes I do. The evidence supports this doesn't it? What are you getting at?
I think promiscuous women tend to have too much self esteem and feel entitled to be loved no matter what they do.
I put the links there as part of the question.
Why do you think the "Cornell" university study finds contradicting evidence and do you think these women have more stable marriages, the question isn't about love directly, its about "marriage"?
Women can't get along with each other no matter what. Their friends are either too promiscuous or too much of a prude. Anything that makes a woman different from the group will become something the other women will look down on her for.
Again though, what about marriage? I think every human being even the most vile deserve love. Its human to want it and to give it but in regards to "stable" marriages?
What contradicting evidence? Everything they said makes perfect sense. Women hate other women, and group up against one that stands out. Of course that will hurt their feelings, but if the woman didn't have a high enough self esteem she would change her behavior and stop being promiscuous.
People are not entitled to love, they have to be the kind of person the other person wants to love. They have to earn it.
I disagree I think every one as a human being deserves love. Love isn't earned. Did you earn your parents love or does a brother earn his sibling's love.
Love develops through two people who care about each other and show it not through an attempt to earn love but out of pure "selflessness".
I have only 3 female friends, and our sexual styles couldn't be any more diverse from one to the other. 2 are exclusively monogamous within labeled relationships, one of them used to be openly promiscuous; the other is a prude when it comes to her personal sex life, but she makes more lewd jokes than the rest of us and has just as filthy a mind. The other girl is like me. We will have unattached sex for fun while single, and do not cheat on partners within a labeled relationship. I personally require all my sex partners be exclusive for health and safety reasons.
Love develops through two people who care about each other and show it not through an attempt to earn love but out of pure "selflessness". The act of being selfless, is normally what causes the person to earn to be loved. The love for a child is different than any other kind of love so it is a bad example.
Yes there are going to be some differences from person to person. I wasn't speaking about absolutes.
I think there's a correlation yeah
No, because that would be insane...
How many people have you been with yourself?
😒 are you trying to mock me? I'm a guy so the question doesn't apply to me. But I've only been with one girl, my wife, who I'm still with. I'm the only one she's been with as well.
Actually your link contained info about men and their friendships too, so it does. I actually read, thank you. & Thanks, that's what I figured.
It's from askmen. com , but it's about women. Why'd you as that question though?
How many people have been with?
I read the initial link from Cornell that included male friendships if you read it in its entirety.
Oh yes, but the focus of the study was women. They didn't do the study on men. The only participants in the study were women. They just polled both men and women for their views. They don't know if promiscuous men are "isolated" like their female counterparts.
How many people have you been with?