What does it mean when a female always ask you WRYD rather than how are you feeling, or anything else?

Well a few month ago in march I found out she had an affair on me , I brought it to her attention and instead she saw that she was caught and said " I need my space" . So then she moved out from our house , now lives with her parents and my 3 kids. Her and the guy she had an affair with no longer are together and she came back to me saying that she thought that's what she wanted but it wasn't so now we are trying to work things out. I see her and the kids everyday , just about , but certain things in her behavior throws off red flags to me. She has a lock on her phone (says to keep the kids from looking in her phone) , she keeps her phone face down ( says she's used to doing that when she's at work so nosey people don't look at her msgs), I asked her " Since we are trying to rebuild trust, do you mind giving me the passwords to you phone , Facebook, Twitter, or snapchat " (she freaked out and then said omfg I feel so disgusted that my husband would even ask me that ) ... I feel something is up , then the way she makes me feel is as if I am wrong for feeling or asking these questions... I don't know :'(
She's cheating
She's insecure
She's doing something she's not suppose to and feels guilty
Just her way of starting a conversation
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What does it mean when a female always ask you WRYD rather than how are you feeling, or anything else?
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